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Eep! i got asked out bye this kid, and i kinda like him but i dont know, i just cant see myself kissing him or anything, and i like this one guy, and weve "made out" a couple of times but all a sudden we just stopped well call him MJ, so i dont know if i should say yes or no :[ and if i said yes, if i would hurt MJ :(

It's not up to my to decide. Just find out whats goin on with "mj" and then if somethin is, do somethin about it with him. and if he isn't sure, go with that kid...ill call him richard. say yes to richard and if things dont work out with him then other things will happen. trust me, just do what you feel is right.

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hey um got a big prob... i think i am in love with my best friend, and im a girl and so is she. i have a boyfriend, and im 14 and i dont think im gay but i have this really big crush on her, i have dreams of her when i sleep and my palms get sweaty when im around her and i stutter i mean, i am totally crushin he rman any advice???

maybe you're not gay. maybe you're just really a good friend with her and you feel like you love her in a sisterly way. I mean, maybe you want to impress her and that's why you're like all OMG IM NERVOUS WHAT SHOULD I DO? just look at her as a friend LOL! or um..if you are gay its not a problem...lol just try to remember your boyfriend and why you love him. So, just try to make the best of things!


_kadi_

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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back?

Well dude, give it time. You've only been going out with her for a week. Lay low a bit. Stop saying it all the time. Wait bout a month, and then say it. Mayybe she will say it back then.


_Kadi_

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=[ im going out with my friends brother, well were not realy going out but we go on dates and o.o kiss and stuff. its odd i know. and then my other friend[who is friends with my friends brother] is going out with my friend.[of whom has the brother]. yes, comfusing but bare with me here. umm well yea we still hang out but he stopped calling me and IMing me alot.he still says he loves me tho.andd all a sudden he wants to hang out with this girk "kirstin" o_O and he went to the movies with her when he COULD have gone with me. =-O. who knows what could have gone on! well yes, to the point, i love him more then he loves me.. i think. well yes?

Well, I think that he still loves you, but sad to say, it sounds like hes losing interest :( make an attemp to call him more and IM him more. Keep him occupied. Im sorry that he's hanging out with that "kirstin" girl, but it sounds like you're stuck in the middle of a situation that you dont even want to be in. Well, just try to talk to him more, and I'm sure that he'll find what he is missing. Hope i helped! :) Best of luck.

_Kadi_

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ive got this friend..and we're pretty good friends..but she is such a flirt that it gets on my nerves every once in awhile..mainly when shes flirtin with guys i like..she flirted so much with my home-coming date that he changed his mind and they went together..and any guy i like she flirts with them..in 5th period..the guy i like sits 1 seat away frum me..hers is in the middle..she didnt use to sit there tho...she just now decided she wanted to sit back over by us..how can i get used to her flirting or what can i do?!?!

Tell her who you like. I mean maybe she'll back off those guys. Start flirting with the guys she likes. You'll feel better. Make yourself known...

_Kadi_

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Okay well, there is this guy i really like ALOT! and we've went out before, and i love him soooooooo much. But, he doesnt seem to love me like i love him. He seems so unhappy all the time. which really sucks. I've tried to move on, but i just cant. which sucks even worse. He says he loves me but im pretty sure its just the brother and sisterly love, not the love I feel for him. I've pretty much already told him how i feel.. kinda, i think. I dont know what to do. please help.

Okay, well i think you should tell him how you feel. This may not be the easiest thing to do considering that he might not feel the same way. Make yourself known, and dont settle for a kinda sorta answer. Make sure that you get an answer from him. and, move on, he's gonna still be there sad and depressed, but you'll be there wanting him more and more. So, just forget him if he doesn't feel the same way. I'm always here to help.Please take my advice...

_Kadi_

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KADI! I NEED HELP WITH MY LOVE LIFE! IM 800 POUNDS! I DYED MY HAIR PURPLE, I THOUGHT IT WAS SOOO KOOL, BUT NOBODY ELSE DOES! WAHHHH IM ONLY 8'2! I FEEL LIKE THE GREEN GIANT DUDE!! =(! WELL THE PROBLEM IS .. NOBODY LOVES ME! :'( WHEN I TELL SOMEONE I LIKE THEM, THEY JUST RUN AWAY! WHY DO THEY RUN AWAY KADI?!?!!? AM I UGLY! OH MY GAH! IM UGLY ARENT I! OOOOOH MY GAH! KADI, AM I UGLY? WHAT DO I NEED TO DO!?!?!?!?!

hehe luv yew kadi! xD *!~MiRaNdA~!*

lmao.. shuttup miranda :)

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Okay well like guy..and he has a girlfriend..but he flirts with me..but when hes with his friends..hell like barely talk to me..or when hes with his girlfriend..he like say hey but then he just ignore me! i mean EVERYONE in my class that knos that i like him..thinks he likes me..but i dont think so..because sometimes he can be mean..but other times he so sweet. i could tell him anything..and i really like him..but i dont think he likes me! do you kno why flirts with me when its just us..and then when hes with his friends hell ignore me?! thanks!

.KMUL.

I think he likes you but doesnt want anyone else to know. I mean, if hes going to be like this, then why would you want him anyway? Wait..im puttin thoughts in your head. Well, i think you should make an attempt to talk to him more.

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ok well i have a bf, and i like him alot. we have been going out for about 1/2 a year so far. but one of my good friends is good friends with him, and sometimes we'll all hang out, us 3, and she kind of..shuts me out. i doubt she means to. but she'll touch his sweatshirt and try to like pick the lettering off it cuz it "bugs her" or she'll walk in front of me and kind of cut me off and go with him. i feel kind of left out and like he maybe like her when that happens. i dont think he likes her...but still. she'll play around with him to like punch him lightly and theyll have little "fights". idk im prob overreacting but i was wondering if u cud help. id rather not talk to her about it unless i have to.

Okay. i have a simple answer for this! when she cuts you off, start back into the conversation. And if you guys are walking, make sure your close to him if you suspect she's going to be all playful with him. No, you don't have to talk to her. Remember, actions speak louder and words. and clearly, with that girl..they do alot! I hope im help!

_Kadi_

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me n my bf have been going out for 7 months but EVERYONE likes him. he is in a grade above me and all the girls like him there. they always look at him and try to be all over him. theres this one who he hangs out with alot and she lives in his neighborhood. they get wicked pissed at eachother alot, but he says they r like "brother and sister". ik its dumb, but i always get paranoid he likes them instead of me or will dump them for me. help if u can, thanks.

Hi! i know that can be paranoing. but the thing you should do is, make them know your his girl! talk to her and ask if she likes him. i know it may not be easy, but if you really .love. your boyfriend, you should do it. start introducing yourself when you're with him. if people talk to him.. girls especially. well i hope i have made some help!

_Kadi_

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