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Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not

heyy, well age doesnt matter nd if u like him nd he lyks bac then u should well good luck nd i hope i helped =)

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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me.

comunication!! talk to her nd tell her how u feel!! good luck

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im 16/f and i really like this boy but hes in a younger grade then me. hes still older than me because he got held back. he really likes me and wants us to hook up, but i dn, for some reason, the grade thing really bothers me...and i dont even know if im ready for a relationship. i like him most of the time, and other times he is a bit too immature...what the hell do i do?

dont worry about the grade, u said hes ur age, nd if ur not ready for a relationship try hangin out with him nd bein around him nd spend a lot of time with him nd maybe the 2 of u will get closer nd u'll feel more comfortable with him nd try to have a relationship..good luck babe =)

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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!

heyy i think u should go out with him but tell him that ur not gonna be having sex with him nd if he truly likes u then he'll pick u over sex..nd it might not even be about sex, he might really lyk u nd want to be with you nd doesnt think about it. try goin out with him nd see what happens..

::hope i helped:: =)

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i like this guy, but he lives kinda far away, and i promised my ex boyfriend that i wouldn't date any of his good friends, but this guy is his good friend and they knew eachother alot and then my ex boyfriend moved here, and the guy i likesmokes pot...only sometimes, but i don't really like that part, and i dunno what i should do...please help!!thanks!

ok well yeahh u promised ur ex boyfriend u wouldnt date any of his close friends but then again if u like that person u still have the rights to date him, go ahead nd try dating him but talk to him how u dont like how he smokes pot nd if he likes u back nd cares bout u he could stop for u..well i guess thats all i can say nd good luck!!

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My friends tell me I am really flirtacious and I guess its not bad thing, is it? I feel like i focus on them a lot, but definetly i have always put chicks before di-- ha ha inapropiate ill just say guys. Well the thing is I realised I need to forget Alex because it can't happen. I just wanna have a really good relationship with a guy. For once I want something that can last, and whenever we see each other we wave or give a hug and I can put notes in his locker. I jsut want something like that but since I am flirty I don't wanna seem desperate.. what do i do? (I hope this makes sense)

bein flirtacious isnt bad. you should talk to alex if u really like him nd start flirtin with him nd give him some signals that u like that =P

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Okay, I got this male best friend, he is one of the most sweetest boyz in the world, and we both know eachother EXTREMELY WELL. But see I hooked him up with on of my buddiez, and I just realized how much a cared for him when I noticed how jealous I was when they both started talking. Now he knows my situation and we still good friends and all. But now it's gotten to the point to where I can't look at him the same. And I feel bad cause I am jux that jealous. But he knows my heart and he knows the kind of person I am. So do anyone think he'll come around or anything like that? I know I got him thinkin about it cause I tell him all the time. I really really do love him alot, and I'd give my life for him anyday and he knows it....it's just weird cause he is my bestfriend....so what should I do?

well try tellin him how u feel but tell him that u dont want ur friendship to change, he should understand u well since hes ur best friend, just try talkin to him nd see what happens

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This is kinda complicated. I have known this one guy since like 1st grade and in like 5th I switched schools. Now im in 8th and the guy is at my school he's new and I like him again this year but I don't know if he likes me and I can't even get up the nerve to talk to him. I don't know what to say. He's always around his jock friends and I feel like if I say somethin to him around his friends I'll just look like an idiot plz help me thanx bye!

hey, well try talkin to him, dont be scared, its better if u go talk to him den neva let ur feelins out. start out as friends nd then u neva kno he might like u back ;)

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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

heyy no babe ur normal, many people dont have boyfriends till after. u'll have a boyfriend wen da right time comes nd wen its the right person. dont worry about it

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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!

signed, I don't kno wut to do!!

(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH)

hey..1st of all try talkin to ur friends nd tell them that u like adam nd explain to them how u were nervous nd that wen they said ur ex that u got confused nd didnt mean 3rd base..try talkin to them!!

signed- i hope i helped!!

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Hello "britt" ... my mom sisters daughter...who has a son who has a friend who has a stripper, who has a son and a son in law that has a gf that is my sister who is pregnant with one of those ppl inbetween? wut should i do?

if u were to understand u id answer but i dont..so sorry =/

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