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Heyy guys!! A little bit about me: I'm your average 13 year old girl. I'm really outgoing & love to have a good time. I love to hang out with friends, play sports, shop, & basically anything. I can relate to many things that people will ask me... ive been through a lot of rough times in my life... dont feel embarrassed when asking me anything.. i'm really good @ giving advice and i will try hard 2 help you in your situation.. and if i'm stuck on something i'm happy to do research on it and learn for myself also!! so dont hesitate to ask anything :)!!
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this sucks my boyfriend dumped me a month ago but now we like eachtoher again. i dont want to like him but i do i just cant help it it feels like its like meant to be or something. we go great together but the only conflict is that were at different schools. ive never felt this way about anybody and i know this is right. should i go out with him? i dont want to risk getting hurt again.
hey.. this is a tough one and i know exactly how you feel. you like him but you really really don't want to but you just can't help it. I think that liking somebody and not being able to control it really shows strength between 2 people. You should definately go out with him if you 100% like him alot and feel as if it would work(from what you're telling me it sounds like it!) If you're not completely sure, wait a little bit. Things will all fall into place when you let everything ease through. If you're really feeling him, do it. I hope i helped and good luck!
(you guys sound cute!)
okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks!
hey i really dont think you should continue talking to him. first of all its really really dangerous and also if hes a junior/senior in highschool he obviously has no life and is searching for younger easier girls. stay safe and good luck!
Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions?
the best thing you can do is just straight up tell him what happened and that you didnt mean to be moody. explain how much you still like him and that you made a huge mistake and it wasnt the real you.
and for the gift... make him a cute birthday/apology card(make it yourself)
he'll love it!!
good luck!
I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do?
dont break up with him.. if you like him that much you should never leave him just for distance. Call him daily and keep in close touch and keep telling him how much you miss him. things should work out after that. Good luck!
Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!!
He's definitely not worth it. Even if he DOES like you, thats not the way to show it. Hes being too forward and you need to tell him to stop if that happens. You can do better than that.Good luck!
so there is this boy i like named brandon. and he just got out of a long term relationship with a girl who treats him like shit. he has liked me and i liked him for the longest time and he invited me over to play video games with him tomorrow. Since he is finally single and willing to make out and stuff i dont wanna just play video games. i wanna make out with him what should i do?
play video games for a little bit then make an excuse that youre bored... wind it down and ask if he wants to just talk.. then things should go good from there. good luck!
ok so i broke up w/ my boyfriend a couple months ago and lately ive really been missing him and thinking ive made te biggest mistake of my life. were friends and i know he still loves me and would jump at the chance to be with me again because he tells me all the time. but for some reason im scared to tell him i still love him and want to get back together. it shouldnt scare me i know we would be happy and back together but something is restraining me from telling him how i feel. whats wrong w/ me? please help!! i really miss the way things were. thanks!!
i think youre just unsure of what you want right now. i was the exact same way with my bf of like 4 months. i dumped him and started liking him again. he STILL likes me after dumping him 2 times. you should wait awhile before you really know if you still like him or not, bcuz if the same thing happens then his heart will be broken. good luck!
14/f. My boyfriend of about two weeks is named Dylan. I really like him and I love being with him but the problem is my friends (both girls and boys). They ALL don't like him because of mainly two reasons. One is that he is sort of mean to them (jokingly though). And two, they say I ditch them for Dylan. I actually only ditched them once for him but still. It was so much easier when I was single to hang out with my friends and have a good time and remain part of the group. All of my friends REALLY make it seem like I have to choose between Dylan and them. And when I asked them about it, they said they didn't know what I was talking about. But their actions speak louder than their words. I know if I break up with him things will be a lot easier for me but I would still like him. I feel almost as if my friends have forgotten me because I'm with him. What do I do?
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I know exactly how you're feeling. My friends were not a big fan of my boyfriend of about 3 months. You need to explain to your friends that Dylan is very important to you and point out the good things about him. You should tell Dylan to be more respectful of your friends because theyre very important to you. Also you should take some time from Dylan and hang out with your girl friends more often. Don't break up with him if you two really like eachother. Hope i helped and good luck!!