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Q: ((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap

any suggestions on what i should do?
i know this is not what you want to hear, but mom's know best, she just has your best interest at thought. she just wants to keep you safe and to not get hurt... trust me, i've been down this same road as well. when i was as young as you, i was with a 17 year old, we were together for 3 years, and we thought we were in love... my mom didn't like him and said that all he wants is sex... i didn't wanna believe her... so i just did my own thing... but it bit me in the butt afterwords.. not saying my mom was fully right, but i realized i'm better off without him, and i have the whole rest of my life ahead of me... while settle down like this soooo soon? trust me, do the right thing, listen to your mom, and you will realize you did the right thing by listening to her... i hope i helped.

Q: I really like this one guy, but he doesn't know me at all, he just hangs around the same people I do. Alot of girls like him at my school, but he doesn't really go out with many of them because even though they are really pretty their not really smart and all they do is flirt with him whenever they can and I can tell he doesn't like them. I want to get to know him better but I don't want him to think I'm like all the girls who never stop trying to be his girlfriend; because even though I'm really pretty and popular I'm not like them at all, I actually care about my grades and things other than shopping. What should I do?
just talk to him as you would talk to a friend... don't make it obvious... and just hang out with him as friends... don't flirt.. and then in time you 2 will get to know each other and he might end up liking you ... just be patient... don't be obsessive and don't get your hopes up.

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x3brose08
I love to give people advice, and I'm quite good at it (as my friends say.) I've been through a lot in life, so that's one of the main reasons that I give good advice. I will be driving soon. I turn 16 June 5th. i was born in 1990. i love animals... i love to hang out with friends, be on the computer... hang out with guys and flirt with them ... i love to shop, sleep, swim, go camping, lay out in the sun, watch tv, listen to alll kinds of music, i love purses, clothes, sandals, sunglasses, i drive a 2004 honda civic ex... i'm single...school is almost out, and i will be a junior. i'm a christian. God is a big part in my life. i love my parents, and my family. my name is Brittany.
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