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hi im pia. . .im 13 and i L-O-V-E music. . .whenever my friends have problems they go to me and they ask me for advice. . .i think they go to me because i like to help and im a very loyal friend and im not a control freak even though i give advice it doesnt mean that thats what you have to do you i just give ideas of what i think you should do. . .im also hardworking and determined. . .uhm well til here if you're having problems dont hesitate to come to me cause i'll be here for you til the end bye!!! xOxO pia =P
E-mail: d_u_d_e_t_t_e_1104@yahoo.com
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Location: Philippines
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Age: 13
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how do i get a girl (link)
uhm. . .flirt with her not too much not too little but enough to keep her intrested and get her attention. . .then try to be close to her. . .be her friend. . .thats the most important thing. . .so that she'll get to know you. . .improve on the strengths of your personality. . .that all i can say for now because i need more details. . .

send me the details after you flirt. . .

xoxo pia =P


I just had my birthday several days ago, and I was wondering if someone could explain to me what this one gift from a guy I really like was supposed to mean.
While we had been friends for a while, but i had been hoping that one day he would be my bf. I thought we were heading in that direction, but since I had my birthday I've been thinking I may be wrong about that.
The gift that he gave me was a little insulting actually. It was a very tacky looking t shirt from Walmart with the words "IF YOU"RE CUTE I"M SINGLE," on the front.
Now does that mean that he is giving me some sort of message? I mean if he really liked me why would he give me a shirt to let other guys know that I was single? Or to attract any other guys at all for that matter.
It really hurt me and embarrassed me. It made me angry because his birthday was the week before and I got him a really nice gift.
Does anyone know what this meant? And do you think he gave me that shirt to let me now he wasnt interested? (link)
there are 2 meanings

its either

1...like what you said hes not interested and maybe he wants other guys to be attracted to you because maybe he thinks you're not interested and he just didnt want you to notice that he was hurt or something

2...maybe hes interested but he thinks hes not good enough for you so he wanted other guys to like you because he thinks that it would be better. . .maybe hes thinking of your well being

and theres another way to do that . . . you could ask him if you have enough guts but its hard. . .right?!

if you're still having trouble you could im me. . .do you have yahoo messenger??? if you do my id is d_u_d_e_t_t_e_1104@yahoo.com xoxo pia =P


my friend just broke up with her boyfriend and me and him are really close but i do not know if i like him more than a friend he likes me and he wants to go out with me but i don;t know what to do please help me thanx confuse. (link)
i think you shouldnt go out with him because your friend wud be hurt. . .i mean friendship is more important than love. . .cuz your friend will be there for you no matter what youre not even sure if hes really telling the truth and maybe you'll also end up like your friend who got hurt. . .hope ive helped xoxo pia :)


Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
uhm i think you should ask your dad if you guys could go on a date. . .i think its ok if you two become boyfriend and girlfriend because youre not blood related and the thing is is that what you should do is follow your heart i believe thats the best thing to do. . .


My ex plays basketball (who I am in love With!) and I went to a game tonight and before he had to play he came and sat by me. I never ask him to come and sit beside me. He just looked up where I was at and made a head motion to come and sit beside him. I looked at him funny and made a motion for him to come and sit beside me. So he came. And he started laughing and I said "why are you clapping for the other team?" and he said "Cause they rock (he was just joking though)" and I smiled at him and said "Fu** you" and he looked at me in the eyes and said "Yeah, I know you do. But not right now. (little info: He's not a pervert wanting to get in my pants. Believe me I know!)." and started laughing his ass off. And he scooted closer to me. He walks me to my bus and everything. Jokes with me. You name it. Soo Whats going on? (link)
I think he still likes you. . .even if you guys broke up maybe hes still waiting for the chance to still be with you because he cant let go. . .hope you liked my advice :)


Alright im a 14/f/al, and i like this guy named Andy, but he has a girlfriend. And he is always acting like he likes me, and he even told me one time that if he wasnt with his girlfriend he would be with me. i dont think yall understand how much i like him. he is the most perfect thing i have ever seen. i cry at night thinking about him, if i hear a love song i cry thinking about him...i dont know what to do. what SHOULD i do? (link)
tell andy. . .no confront him tell him. . ."why do you have to cheat with your girlfriend???" if he freaks out hes not the one for you. . .and just with that you can already see his colors. . .what if you were his girlfriend??? what would you feel if your bf was cheating on you??? Even though you like him. . .do you like to hurt other people for your happiness??? I think that if you sacrifice for someone in this situation something good will happen to you like you would find this guy who's single and you guys like each other. . .who knows?!. . .and like what sillyrob said. . .there are tons of guys out there you shouldnt emaote or concentrate too much on this guy. . .:) hope i've helped. . .


i have been dating wit this guy for 3 months.
and these 3 months have been beautiful, but so hard. Not only did i lose all my house privliges like cell phone and going out, but i was about to get sent to a broading school in a latin country. my parents want me to be happy and i know im love. it sounds quick but, this guy really helped me get through all these other problems. but he got me bigger ones. i know he loves me and has never felt this way over a female because all his friends tell me. his cousin who i now adore tells me all the time how he raves about me with his parents and close relations. but my mom is so against his piercesing. he says he love me but he wont try to have an aproval from my parents. so my question is should i leave him and find some who will make sacrafices for me?
thank you for reading this.
please help me.
thank you
Senorita Lopez (link)
3 months eh. . .uhm if you feel that its necessary to leave him then do leave him. . .just follow your heart. . .trust me. . .I've tried not following my heart them BAM ! ! ! Big problems come and go give me stress. . .anyway. . .go with what you're happy with. . .what if his friends are lying dont you think they might be making that up??? but you should believe what you want to believe im just saying some risks. . .if you guys really love each other you'll still love each other no matter what you'll get through problems, trials, challenges and hardships that might break some relationships but your instincts will tell you what to do in those times. . .talk to him. . .no rather confront him calmly ask him the questions you want to and if he freaks out about the approval of your parents thing. . .then i think hes not the one 4 you. . .:) hope you liked my advice




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