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im the kid that most come to for a shoulder to cry on and the one that they talk to for some advice on the matter. i have helped many kids through some pretty tough situations, so give me a try! i will do my best!
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their is this gurl that i met on the internet and i think i rlly love her im 13 and she 25 but she thinks im 21 she says she really loves me but we are supose to meet in a few days n i duno what 2 do if she rlly loves me it shouldnt matter that im like 13 right? plz help me.
the only way it'll matter is when she sees she's been lied to, as of your age. which is a VERY big issue.
Okay so I'm going out with this guy. He cheated on me with my "friend" at a party, and I found out. The thing is, I don`t think he would have told me if I hadn`t found out. I still love him so much, but nothing can ever happen between us because of what he did. He has apoligized and I`ve just been really mean to him. What the hell do I do???????
PLEASE HELP.
well there are 2 aspects you should look at. first of all, you love him and im sure that eh does still love you. and no matter how hard things get, working through it, instead of throwing in the towel, is always the best, because both you and i know that good things come after working for them. even if it does take time.
but then there is the second aspect. he did cheat on you. perhaps the reason he wouldnt have told you was maybe because he was ashamed of what he had done, but maybe also because he thought he could get away with it with out any consequences and maybe later try it again. but really, it isnt my place to tell you which is the real, or right reason. i think you need to think about this one, after all, you know him better than any of the advice columnists on this site, all we know is the story that you told. use what you know. follow your heart.
take care.
Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.
it might be that he is just trying to get some. and if you do like him, take into consideration, that if he does have a girlfriend and he is doing what he is doing, what's not to say he wouldnt do the same to you? think about this one. be extremely careful, love.
i know this is funny but when i was in the 3rd and 4th grade i had a boyfriend named Jessie. I liked him and he liked me. we went to the same school. he lived right down the road and we went to church together every sunday & wednesday almost. well he moved the summer goin into 5th grade. me and him broke up and i didnt see him until a month or two ago and it was like all of a sudden i started having feelings for him. me and him talked and then i had to leave. well today i saw him he would look at me but he wouldnt say hey then he finally said hey. well later on his friend dillon can and sat by me and then he came over because they were skateboarding and got hot so they were drinking some drink. well jessie sat by me and we didnt really talk, but i just felt so happy just to even sit by him. i havent felt that way about anyone in a long time. im not sure why i feel this way. i dont know if i should try to get his number and call him the next time i see him or what. what do you think i should do? and do you think i really could have feelings for him?
i think it is a real possibility that you do have feelings for him, yes. but as to getting his number, you really have to play it by ear, as in does he like a girl who takes charge with that sort of thing? or does he like doing the work? dont be TOO desperate, be careful with this one, perhaps, wait for him to come to you.
ok i have a boyfriend im 13 and he recently asked me to have sex with him. I really want to but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what should i do?
you need to talk to him about your concerns first of all, because that is the most important. talk to him about what YOU want, not just what he wants, because you and him having sex just doesnt involve him, it involves you as well. If you arent comfortable with doing so, then it isnt right. wait until you are ready, when you are comfortable and worry free. but you must talk to him. Because if the both of you think you are ready to have something as sex, then surely a simple talk about having sex wont be any problem, right?
be safe, be strong, and take care.
okay, so there's this guy at my school, I dont really know that well, and I'm new here this year. but he''s supposedly the hottest guy. Two months ago he started flirting wit me almost everyday, and some other girls actually did think he liked me. A month ago one of my friends asked him if he did and he said yes( i wasnt there), but then a week ago my friend told me that she and another friend asked him again a week ago, and he said I was disgusting and he only liked to make fun of me. But he still flirted with me uptil then. I'm confused, does he still like me, and tried to cover up for it? Because in the beginning it genuinely seem like he liked me when he flirted. I DO know he's somewhat of a playboy. I'm in Middle School.Female, of course.
it doesnt seem like those "friends" of yours were telling you the honest truth when they said he told them those mean things to them about you. but that is just my oppinion, of course. to tell you the truth, the only sure fire way of ever knowing, is to find out yourself. this will ensure that nothing is being added to the true story. be confident, and be strong. its the best way.
alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks
well, obviously he knows what to get you, because he knows your personality. when he got you the roses and such he proably knew that yo u would love it. from what you know of him, use that knowledge to get some thing you know he'll like. maybe even give him a single flower? its up to you. but use what you know, just as he has, to get him something great.
I have a friend (not me I promise you) who has 4 guys who all simply adore her. She is currently dating one of them but he is in college and she does not seem him at all. The three others all go to her school and she has feelings for them all nearly equally. She is considering dumping the college guy and going with one of the ones at her school, but to make things more complex the college guy is also her best friend and the 3 other guys all have seperate issues. One has a girlfriend but is interested in her, one she isn't sure if it would be a good relationship, and the other one is a little weird.
What should she do?
she should go for the guy who
(1)has no attachments to another woman
(2) she feels really the most comfortable with
and (3) the guy who she, after a while has thought about and has trully come to a decision, that she wants to pursue a relationship with.
the human heart is not something to just play with and then drop, all people have feelings, and should be dealt with carefully.
i really love this guy. We have fooled around but we both want to go a step farther. I am kind of scared to, but at the same time i want to. Help me. What should i do. ~Worried in Washington.
well i understand if you love him and you want to, but you are scared, trust me I do. But the thing about " taking a step further" is that you should be confident in your decision. Perhaps if you are feeling doubt, you are not quite ready to make that step quite yet. Take your time and wait until YOU BOTH are ready, not just one of you. And no matter what, follow what YOU trully feel is the right thing to do, not going under pressure to make someone else happy. Make yourself happy first before you please others, and make sure you are comfortable doing it. If you feel that you are ready, then by all means go for it, but please make sure you are careful in doing so. i hope this helps :) good luck and take care!
Hii.. im 13 years old, and im kinda changin my style. i wanna get a punkiish style, i've been taken guitar lessons for over 2 years... and now im in a band, and havn't really picked up the style yet, still stuck in that gurly faze... so i need some really good advice on like where to shop, and what kinda stuff i would buy... s0o can you please help me!!!! ~*~ i rate ~*~ thankx, lots of love
The punkish style is based on how you like for yourself to look, what makes YOU comfortable. You can try Hot Topic for some starter clothes, but please do not get stuck to that brand. cause after a while, you might get the name "poser" stuck to you if you are just shopping there to fit in. Get chlothes that YOU like, don't just get them cause it's the in thing.
Me and my girlfriend have been goin out for 2 weeks but last night she wanted to fuck but my dick was monsterous she changed her mind and left, how do i fix this problem?? The bigger the better right?
Holy jebus man!...Just because she is not a virgin, doesn't mean that she will be ready at anytime to fuck you. Maybe she wanted to wait a bit longer? Once she finally saw what she would be dealing with? Just talk to her about it, see what's up with the whole thing and how she's feeling about it. And usually girls can only fit in up to 4 inches. 5 max. Vaseline is not all that great cause 1) it smells uber gross when things happen and 2) its just not that great of a lub. And for god sakes! be careful with that thing!
Hi , i'm 14, and have an uber crush on like my bestest friend. He is so perfect, like wow, i really like him. I am not sure if he knows i like him, should i tell him? or should i just keep it to myself?? thanks.
yeah, I most deffinatly know how that can be. should you tell him?..well,it depends. Do you want him to know? I think you should tell the dude you like him, because if he is your bestest friend, then i am sure he can take the news. It also depends on the circumstances. If you think by telling him it will ruin your friendship, then you might want to re-consider, you don't want to lose a friend over something as that. Also, take into consideration the way both of you act around eachother. :) if you think he will be open to the idea, then by all means, go for it girl! I hope all goes well. :)