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E-mail: valerieleeman@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: April 2, 2014
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Hi i am a 19 year old guy with no where to go , and I am here because i need advice.... My fiance wants us to get her brand new car,that her parents gave to her, after we get married (with payments left) ......i will practically be paying for the whole car since its brand new and i think ill end up being in debt....what do i do ?? (link)
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This is coming from a 19 year old girl, if her parents gave her the car, YOU SHOULD NOT BE PAYING OFF THE PAYMENTS! You should be straight honest with her about you possibly going into debt. I think if her parents gave it to her, her parents OR her should be paying for it seeing it's hers. Don't let the girl get money out of you, I don't want to sound rude because I don't know you, but if shes expecting you to pay her payments you must make good money, so I hope she's not using you.
Hope this helped a little!
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So my boyfriend and i of almost 2 years broke up two weeks ago. We roke up earlier before and got back together for theee months jan-march. And we spent that time just kinda doing sexual things but not to the point if sex each time we saw each other during the three months. I just thought it was because we know each other so much and have bonded already so we dont exactly need it even though i wanted it sometimes either hed be horny and wsnt me to give him a blowjob or id get turned on and make him yeah. We practically see each other about once a week or sometimes two weeks. He broke it off and then told me that it was because he felt like he was just teying to make me happy in the relationship and that he was falling out of love. That he gave it his all the first time and this time he didnt try as hard. He told his friend(s?) about his situation with me and they didnt thinkthat we would work out. And he even used that as a reason to break up with me. There were two times however that we did have timeto hangout with each other as lovers without the kissing or sexual things. And wen we roke up i was emotional and asked him tell me were you happy during those two times because you laughed and smiled the entire day. But he didnt answer. Lately for the two weeks ive been in no contact with him hecause otherwise id be emotional around him if i texted him. But ive noticed and i have to admit i looked for it also but hes been checking gmy snapchat story even though i didnt send it to him for two weeks. And then once last weekend i texted him and asked to hang out and he told me that how about no youre getting rid of the bs on your wall so im getting rid of the bullshit in my life. Refering to my recent snapchat of my wall that used to have his posters and pictures on it. Well so far ive had one foot out the door for moving on but i really still want to stay with him because he made me so happy and our history together. I just dor know ehatto do because i feellike if i contact him asking to see him hes going to say some mean things. Can you please give me advice on hat to do. Ive been having dream about trying to get back with him for the past week and i keep waking up at 3ish because of it. An so when i wake ip i just feel sad because i know he isnt together with me anymore and i dont know what i should do. (link)
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I'm not quite sure how old you's are, but you both sound young. I'm 17 and had a fair share of relationships as hard as it is to say, and my last one was the worst. I go by the saying "Everything happens for a reason", and this is one of the things that the quote goes for! The hardest part of the break up isn't the break-up itself, it's actually the moving on part. I know things will get emotional sometimes, and you will miss their company like crazy, but maybe this was for the best! It's like a second chance to find someone even better than him. Don't go out looking for someone though, let them come to you... that's when you know they are truly interested in you. I hope I helped you out a little bit!
Stay Golden!
xoxo
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