hello, you can call me chris, i am fourteen. i rather not tell you where i live other than it's a big city. as for advice, i like to think of myself as a good advice giver in almost about anything. yes, i may be young but don't underastimate me.
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hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
Love,
Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled (link)
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you're way too young to be thinking of sex.
your hormones are telling you to do it,
but the right choice is to not do it.
really, think about it. do you want to be seen as the girl who lost her virginity at 13? people are going to say things if they hear about it, your boyfriend might go telling his friends, what if your parents find out?
and even if you do use protection theres always that chance it can break n you'll get pregnant.
my advice basically is don't do it.
i'm sure anybody would say that seeing that you're only 13.
~chris
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I'm a 15 year old female and I have a question involving a guy. I promise it's not one of those "There's this guy..." questions. About a year ago, I started going out with this guy at my school. He was really sweet and totally devoted and always there for me no matter what. Then, over the summer I went to Europe for 3 weeks on an exchange program. When I got back in Sept. we were at different schools. From a friend I found out he was cheating on me. We broke up. Half a year later we're going out again because we both still like eachother a lot. The problem is I'm in Europe again, for the whole summer this time and I'm afraid that he'll cheat on me again, even though he promised he wouldn't. I want to trust him but I'm afraid of getting lied to and hurt again like last time. I'm not so sure what to do. Was it wrong of me to give him another chance?
I hope you can help me. Thanks! (link)
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you should call him, ask how he's doing without you.
tell him how you feel about the situation.
make him feel guilty for what he did last time and maybe he won't do it again.
don't go falling for the guy to hard otherwise if he does cheat on you again i'm afraid you're gonna get heartbroken and i don't want you getting hurt over a someone stupid like him.
~chris/14
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16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
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you could be, and there is nothing wrong with that.
i have a friend like you, she finds girls more attractive and better to have sex with since same genders can do it without condoms and not get pregnant.
but unlike you she finds guys attractive as well.
you should date a guy, see any good qualities in him but if you can't, if you still find men disgusting than i think your sexual orientation has changed to lesbian.
it doesn't matter how young you are, you can be gay at any age.
this could be a phase, or not.
hope i helped.
:) ~chris
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almost 16 female.
I like more than one guy. 5 to be exact. and if one of them asked me out, i would go out with any of them. but heres the thing, my friends say that im too shy and that i should make the first move. (btw im not even friends with any of these guys) so all of my friends say that i should send them an IM and be like hey whats up. now im really desperate for a boyfriend so i dont know if i should first be friends with all of these guys and see who makes a move first or just go for one guy and play hard to get.
or should i even play hard to get? because im so desperate and i was thinking maybe i should just straight out tell one of the guys that i really like him... what do you all think?? help! (link)
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do not play hard to get.
trust me, i've tried it.
if you know one of their IMs, message him.
befriend him. flirt with him. ask him if he can hang out with you, to the movies or wherever.
if you're too shy to go just with him, tell himto invite a friend and you'll invite a friend, a double date.
if you want, experiment. by that i mean, IM one the five and flirt with him and ask him if he wants to go out with you, if you're really that desperate.
hopefully i helped. good luck with the five.
~chris.
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