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I'm meeting my boyrfriends friends for the first time (Both female and male! and two of them are his EXES!) and we've only been dating for 1 week! Is there anything I should think about? What TO DO? What NOT to do?
I usually wouldnt worry but since its BOTH females and males, I'm afraid I wouldnt know how to impress both genders at the same time.. It feels like by getting one gender to like me the other wouldnt! you know?! HELP! (link)
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ok, no worries, just be simple and MATURE, be polite and show that you care a lot about your boyfriend (but that should come out of you naturally). i would suggest you know something about your boyfriend, like fav.actors, cuisine, hobbies, likes and dislikes (this is where you show your interest on him and maturity level). and please be realxed and never show your jealousy if the exes do something but at the same time don't be so naive, if situation demands attack with a sense of humour (read:satire). thats all the field is yours. best luck.:->
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alrighty this could be long so bear with me
well hello everybody, how are you?
i'm pretty good, except for one little thing
little bit of backstory here:
a couple of years ago *two, to be exact* i volunteered at a camp so i could get my 20 service hours for 8th grade *i ended up with like...100*. well i met this girl that was also volunteering there, and we became friends over the summer, and did some things as friends with a group until around christmas. then we sort of just stopped talking- we weren't mad at each other, we just became really really busy. so i saw her at random places throughout the last year and a half or so, but never really talked to her a whole lot
well fast forward to now, and i've begun to volunteer at the camp again- and guess who's there! yep, the same girl! and she looks beautiful and is just such a nice person, but i can't seem to talk to her- everytime i get a chance i freeze up and can't keep the conversation going (it doesn't help that she's in a swimsuit, either- she only works on pool days). so what can i do? i think she kinda likes me because she was trying to get the extremely annoying little 8 year olds to leave us alone for a while so we could have some alone time, but they wouldn't so we never really got to be alone...
so what can i do? i have her AIM SN but she hasn't been on in a while...
i was thinking about asking her to go see a movie this weekend or sometime next week...would that be a bad idea? i am just completely retarded when it comes to this kind of thing and any help is greatly appreciated!
thank you very much for you help/opinion
by the way i am 15/m and she's 15/f (link)
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hey pal, see.. its your great luck, you met her again, which proves that this ain't con-incidence, there is some reason that you both met once again, now you need capitalize on this moment. now you said that, she kinda likes, well good, now make us proud by gettig into casual conversations with her, after yours and hers community service walk together and give her her a company to her place (if she stays nearby) otherwise just ask her out for a coffee or just for hangin out. now at this time, tell her about your weekend plans and see what she says... she will definately agree and thats it take her out and please REMEMBER girls like shy guys but.....to certain extent, they also want guys to make the first move so take your advantage nothin is going to fall upon you for this act. if at all there is rejection, please appreciate the fact that you had mustered the guts to go and propose her your feelings. GO AND GRAB THE OPPORTUNITY, i tell you THIS IS NOT CO-INCIDENCE, there is some reason explore it. hope i helped. take care.
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ok well i think im in love with two guys and one of them lives in a dif country!!! But he is really sweet and I like him alot and then the other lives not to far way but im not sure if hes still interested in me because everytime he says he wants to hang out he always seems to make exscuses later to not go.And yesterday the guy in Australia asked for a nude pic of me!!! so yeah i feel very confused (link)
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absolutely right fiabean, but that was from a girls perspective. now listen form a guy, ok any guy asks for your snap (and that too nude), is a freaky nymphomaniac trust me and (chuckle) i don't think he's taking you seriously. so steer clear and be safe and smart.
as of the other guy, again fiabean is right confront him but do not be hasty, take your time let him know that you are really in love with him (but never make him feel that you are VULNERABLE and DESPERATE), have normal chat with him, find out about his hobbies and interests and his friends, talk to him about what he likes and does etc. and slowly let this friendship mature into a good relationship....however, these two guys are not the only adams and adonises, there are plenty so don't be so confused. hope i helped, take care.
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i am in love with an awesome guy. there's no need for me to really describe him....because this is my question: i'm moving away and will probably never see him again, and i couldn't find him the last few days of school to get his screen name (idk if he even has one) so what should i do?? I won't be moving till august....someone please tell me, cus im so in love with him (we're friends...but i want to be more). Help. =( (link)
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oh poor girl.. i appreciate your feelings for jack? but don't worry, i don't know whether you very well know about ORKUT, a social network site try logging in and type his name (surname) and if you find him........wonderful you will be always in touh with him.
if not then... did you ask any of his friends, about his whereabouts? yes or no, doesn't matter, take any one of his classmate's number (a good friend of him would be good idea) and from them his number and screen name. you have a whole lotta time (till august start networking girl, you might reach him.....Trust ME....six degrees of separation holds true here too. take care..hope you find him.
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what does it feel like to be in love? theres one kid who i cannot stop thinking about for anything and when i think about him sometimes i wanna throw up i feel literally sick to my stomach when im not with him and i cant stop smiling when im with him and hes such a sweetheart and idkkk i pretty much think i am but like is it possible to fall in love with someone within a 6 day spann? cause ive talked to him for like a month and ive always kinda liked him but we have been hanging out for the past 5 days straight and i realize how much i like him and when im away from him, all i wanna do is be with him i mean i think its pretty self-explanatory but does this sounds like love? (link)
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ummmmmmmmmmmmm.......good, do you realise that this feeling is priceless, i makes you very light and full of mirth.but... have you ever fallen in deep love before? because i have... trust me that feeling of yours is an infactuation, which can be moulded into love (yes, one can), if you patienly give him hints that you really like him (appreciating him, complimenting, light touching etc.)and you act very much yourself, then he would definately look back at you, start thinking about you, may call you more and will hang out for a longer time and thats when one of you need to propose your feelings, and then............................... you guessed it its a blooming LOVE. wish you all the best, enjoy yourself in this wonderful feeling.
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