Hey I'm Lauren and I'm 14. Im pretty good at giving advice because Ive been through a lot. Im really into swimming, singing, and acting. But theres a lot of other things i know about. So try me with your question and I'll help you as best I can. Hope to hear from you!!!!
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Lately I've been very depressed.Everything in my life has just gotten so boring and old. I've been dishonest with myself and others. I hear myself saying words that I don't mean and all the while I'm screaming inside. I see myself doing things that aren't me and being someone that I'm not, yet for some reason I just can't stop. I can never concentrate because I'm always daydreaming always trying to escape reality. Or I do things that defy my Christian beliefs and do things I shouldn't. I always feel guilty for the things I do but I can't help but stir up trouble in an attempt to make life less boring. As of yet I've done nothing too unforgivable and horrible but I'm afraid if I continue on this path and don't find happiness soon I'll end up doing something I'll really regret. (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. it really hard to answer your question because honestly i havent found the answer myself yet the best way is to surround yourslef with things that make you happy. do things that you know you love even if it doesnt involve other people. give yourself you time and try to find out who you truly are depression however cant be fought alone talk to someone you trust and let it all out and soon enough im sure you will be happy again
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Okay usually i don't mind when my boyfriend does stuff with me but not in class! i already am failing that class and i have to get my work done..plus i don't want people talking about me in a bad way like i think they were today. Today i was sitting by my boyfriend in class and he kept going down my pants and rubbin my back and ass and shit and trying to make out with me but i kept telling him no not now! But he wouldnt listen and it was really buggin me i couldnt get him to stop even when i moved my chair away he'd pull it right back by him it was annoying. So my question is: What do i tell him when i don't want him to do that kinda stuff to me? Because obviously telling him to stop doesn't work. He's usually really respectful but i don't know what to do. Thanks so much!. (link)
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hes probably being influenced by his peers to be more sexual guys will do things like that you know he might be getting a little cocky and wanting to show you off saying look what i can do with i got i mean guys can be that way if u dont want him messing with you in class dont sit by him make sure that you surround yourself with other people hav a good private talk with him lay down some ground rules if he doesnt want to listen to you then maybe hes not that good of a boyfriend
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I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks! (link)
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the hardest thing in life is to let go but sometimes it can be the best thing, if he loved you he never would have let you go try to get over him by hanging out with friends doing things you love that way you take your mind off him maybe if he see's that your moving on he'll remember what you used to have and reignite the flame if not you should know it just wasnt meant to be everyones got a cinderella story maybe he's just not your prince
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