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hey
i like this guy but hese 16 and im 13
i really really like him ive liked him since last year and please dont tell me to tell him because i wont. anyway he liked this other girl last year and now this year he likes some other girl. i am so inlike with him that it hurts so much he gives me mixed signals sometimes he will talk to me and sometimes he wont sometimes he looks at me and sometimes he doesnt i just dont know what to do i dont even think ill ever get over him he has this charm hese with me in skool so i cant really ignore him i dont want to like ignore him becuz even if i don like him i wanna be his friend
please anyone help
thank you
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well honey you gotta remeber he's 16 and he only has one thing on his mind and honestly he may think your two young and just someone good to flirt with so be carefull and if he's throwing you mixed signals it usually means that he just likes to kno that he can get away with it but be careful try to direct your feelings else where i know its eaiser said than done but your'll be the one whos paying for it in the end i hope i helped and remeber old crushes die hard but there are always plenty of fish in the sea
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I've been dating this guy for 6 months, and recently ive started to REALLY like this other guy. We have lunch together and he's always flirting with me. I dont know if he likes me or not because he is sorta a flirty person. but he also gave me his belt..
what do i do!? pursue it or not. (link)
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well maybe you need to re evaulate your feelings for your boyfriend and if this other guys a flirt than dont play any games just flirt a little more until you find his true feelings you know like hypithical question if you have to and if he dont like you at least you didnt break up with ur b/f but are willing to throw away 6 months for a guy that could play you like every other flirt goodluck oh and call me later you know who this is i hoped i helped
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what do you think about sweet-talkers? do you think its cute? i think its cute as long as you can play along with it do you think so? and does anyone know a "line"? you heard it from someone? (link)
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to me every body sweet talks but some are better at it than others and sure its cute sometimes but some pple really get hurt from sweet talkers because use vulanbility to there own advantage but if the person wants to play along thats there choice some lines are your looking hot others are i lost my number can i have yours there are plenty of lines it dependends who the talker is i hope i helped
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So yeah its interesting to read the lil convos you were having with my bf on your column..and how on the phone you were telling him your fantasies.Just stay away from him..dont cause any shit alright? (link)
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like we talked about on the phone the other night i dont want you boyfriend i never did and when we three wayed him we found out what really happend sorry you thought i was going on your terrritory i dont go for pple who are already taken and he never mentioned you sorry honey but remeber you can find better than him as we found out last night when we three wayed him all guys are assholes.
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Is it appropriate to like the guy who's your mom's boyfriend's daughter's fiancee's cousin? Becasue I really do like him but I'm not sure if that's too close in the family or anything...your thoughts on this would be appreciated! :D (link)
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in my oppoion no hes your moms boyfriends daughters fiancee's cousin theres no blood relation at all at all so if i were you i would go for it because theres no blood relation shit you guys couldnt even be called cousins or anything just aquitances and i would hopp on that like a gurl and fat cake
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ok, i'm having a hard time understanding the whole "friends with benefits" thing. i mean, if you're attracted to someone, and that close to them, why wouldn't you want to just be boyfriend/girlfriend? and i know this sounds sexist, but... i can understand why a guy would like this arrangement ("woo-hoo, i can mess around with any girl i want!"), but as for the girls... don't you feel used and cheap? or are there really that many girls who just want sex and nothing else? i'm really not trying be judgemental, i just want to understand it! (link)
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yes people ask this question a lot most guys want friends with benifits because they dont want a relationship only to mess around and have sex but the gurls do feel cheap and used but yet there still freinds with benifits we the women mostly do this although sometimes but rarley its the other way around but we do this because we like them and its the only way we can have them but basically friends with benifits fucking and screwing around like boyfriend and gurlfriend do but without the committment and your free to do who ever you want and your not cheating i know its stupid but yet it happens i hope i helped
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lately i`ve been annoyed by my boyfriend.. because he does it on purpose.. and i get tired of it, makes me wanna yell like crazy and he ends up laughin` after he KNOWS that i`m annoyed by it... what am i?? i`m not his dog or his slave.. iM HiS GiRLFRiEND. and when i say that i am is girlfriend.. he starts laughing.. he seems to play around alot that gets me annoyed.. he seems to be very nosey also.. >.< our anniversary is coming up....... and ughhh idkk what to do... help me please!!!! (link)
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tell him that if he wants you to stay his girlfriend than he better grow the fuck up honey you dont need to put up with his immature crap tell him how you feel tell him he better stop beiging such an asshole if you dont put your foot down he'll walk all over you hope i helped
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Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes?? (link)
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yes its true no matter what anybody has told you some gurls like sex just as much as guys do and some think about it alot if not just as much it normal and some gurls are nymph sex freaks in fact i think most are and some gurls will lie and say no to all the questions you just asked because there embarressed but some wont hell im honest i'll say it i think about sex all the time and hey im 17 and still a virgin im not afraid to answer everybody thinks about sex infact sometimes i think im just as bad as a guy but hey there anit no shame in my game lol i hope i helped
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What, exactly, does friends with benefits mean? (link)
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friends with benefits is basically having 4play and fucking but your not dating or seeing eachother there for they or you can see other people without cheating
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ok, so one of my best male friends and i like each other.
1. he's my oldest friend's ex and she said i can't go out with him under any circumstances, which is totally unfair because she hooks up with his friends in front him and dumped him and completely broke his heart.
2. he doesn't want a relationship.
what do i do? he's absolutely PERFECT. i don't want anyone else. (link)
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honey what are you doing besides your best friend he doesnt want a relationship your setting your self up for heart ache i know you cant help who we fall in love and its usally the people we cant have that we winde up wanting so much more i know its easier said than done but try to forget him the choice is yours you know you live and you learn in all my experenic guys who dont want a relationship usually doesnt end the way we want it to
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yes, yes I know that this question has been repeat..say..a million times! (not really)..and i suppose my question isn't different from any of the others..well maybe, except that it's my question:)
..i've really liked this guy for over a year. we've exchanged a few words but we really don't talk much but i feel like there's a connection between us when we do see eachother (which is a daily basis)..he always looks at me. ALWAYS. and smiles when he's alone. but when i see him, he's always hugging other girls around me:( everytime i see him, i notice him look at me, but then he looks away when i see him..
guys, any chance he's flirting with me?..what are other signs that i can see if he's flirting with me? (link)
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first of all you feel a connection and you see him on a daily basis so whats stopping you from saying hi once in awhile or trying to spark up a convo how do you expect the fire to light without the flame? you know you already feel that there could be the start of a fire with the sparks so why not try to make it a full blown fire talk to him and find out whats there and whats not and hey you wont get anywhere beging shy and those gurls are probley his friends you know how guys are but fuck them you shouldnt be afraid at a little compitition you know so honey get your game on flirt and make his fire burn lol i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if you need anymore help
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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dont worry theres no age limitt to your first kiss it will happen and i didnt have my first real kiss until i was about 16 and well im 18 now and still havent experienced that omg shatering soul stoper kiss unfortunaly but when my times comes it'll happen so dont worry hope i helped my inbox is always open if you need anymore help
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ok so me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship expect we fight. over stupid stuff. were both really protective of eachother and i dont alow him to go to this kids house b/c hes a real bad influnce but i let him go 2 other ppls houses. r relationships not really bad but what could help to get things back up and running (link)
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in my point of veiw trust you know a relationship cant last if theres not enough trust or freedom if theres not enough trust or freedom you start to fight and keep them on a very short leesh but dont get me wrong speak up when needed but dont be controlling im not saying you are but trust comunicating are very important in a relationship i hope i helped good luck
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I have a boyfriend that I've been going out for almost 4 months. Yet, I still have feelings for my "first love". We went out for 14-15 months [8th grade into highschool] It ended due to some problems. A big one was not being able to see each other because we are not in the same grade or school. He was still in middle school when I went into high school.. so he had limits to hanging out with me. Now he doesn't. He still likes me..
i really don't know what to do. I do like my boyfriend, not love.. because that is too soon [in my book] He's probably the best one I've had because we are in high school and there's no middle school drama.
Whenever I see my ex.. I get happy and I want to hug him.. never let go. I'm afraid of what may happen. I did kiss him while I was with my boyfriend. I have a feeling it might happen again.
I don't know what I have is infatuation for my ex or for my boyfriend. Maybe I'm blind. How can I solve this problem?
I'm afraid to go back to my ex because we were on and off about 3 times.. but those problems are fixed now.. Is it too late? (link)
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well your stuck between two guys you obviously still care deeply for your first love and you said that the problems have worked out are you sure and its clear to me that you care for ex more than you care for your current b/f but do him and yourself a favor if you feel like you wont get past like with your current b/f than be fair and end it its not right to lead or be lead on and like you said about your ex you really dont see him but do you think that that can be changed and i know you care for him but if it doesnt work out and if all your orignal problems werent really solved do you really want to keep falling for the same mistakes if it doesnt work out this time maybe its time to say goodbye to ex once and for all you know because although you guys arent together he's running your life you know decide can it work out or just say goodbye you live and you learn its hard but nothings ever easiy i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if needed
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I'm trying to make amends with my best guy friend. We could talk about ANYTHING and we used to hang out. I miss that so now I'm talking to him a lot more to get closer to him again. I've noticed this though.. Right before he goes to bed, I say "I wuv/love you" He really does mean a lot to me.
I have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me. But honestly, i don't love him. I take LOVE seriously. It's only been 3 months.. I've talked to him about this and I'll tell him when the feelings right ..when I'm ready. But this is my question: is telling some other guy that I "love" him.. bad?
My best guy friend.. we had a past together and we dated for over 13 months. My boyfriend knows about that.
Is this cheating of some sort? I'm so confused as to what it is.. (link)
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maybe you to really never got over each other and if you dont love your boyfriend the way he loves you what are you still doing with him be fair to him and hopefully he'll find somebody who does its not your fault we cant help how we love maybe you and your friend should do a little remanising and see if its still there i hope i helped goodluck
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okay, I don't want to make this a really long story but I dated this guy for 8 months...we broke up the end of February. He was my first "real" boyfriend and I was crushed when he said we should see other people. After about a month I realized things about our relationship that I couldn't see when I was in it. I've met a new guy now and we've been dating almost two months. The two of them are like opposites. My new guy is so sweet. I've been feeling like he's the best thing that's ever happened to me. Yesterday, my ex called me and wanted to know if we could go out again. I guess he had looked at my myspace because he knew that I was seein someone else. He was begging me to give him another chance. I can't believe that I am thinking about it even though I know that it will mess up what I have with this new guy. Is it possible to like two guys at the same time? Why do I want to go back to the "bad" guy and chance losing this guy that has been nothin but great??? (link)
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classic beleive me its totally normal and it sux but we always fall for the bad boys ok think about what happened to make you guys break up in the first place what didnt you like about him and think about the guy you have more. think who can you absoulty not live with out who do you think about more you know but remeber your ex hurt you once theres no garantuee that he wont do it again but are you willing to take that risk and think maybe your thinking about your ex because your relationship never really had a closer you know so think do you want to dump the new for the old and hope you made the right descion im sorry i cant tell you who u should choose because honestly ive been in your sito a few times and yet i always fall for the bad guys some times i have regrets but than i knew me and the others would never work and sometimes i always wondered what if i choose him well you live and you learn i hope i helped goodluck
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been going out for more than a year (I broke up with him once a couple months back for another guy but we got back together). I love him, but lately he has been criticizing things I do, even good things, making good grades, even my clothes and hair. He says he still loves and cares about me. Then there is this other guy. Him and I have been good friends for a while, but then a week ago we both just randomly started flirting with each other. Our parents are friends, and we both show animals, so we see each other a lot. After the flirting, we both realized we like each other. His girlfriend broke up w/ him for another guy a couple weeks ago, and he says I'm the only one he wants now. I like him, but I dont want to dump my longtime boyfriend if it turns out to be a mistake like it was last time. It feels so right to be with the other guy, but I dont want to break my boyfriends heart again...I'm so confused...help (link)
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well you said yourself its not like it use to be and you dont want to break your boyfriend heart but if you really dont care for him like he suppossly cares for you your breaking his heart anyway and your right you have to think do you want to take the risk and go for the other guy you never no it could be the best thing you ever did or it could be a big mistake just think are you willing to loose your boyfriend and if the answers yes than go for it because you obviousy dont care for him as much as you use to 1yr is a long time but maybe its time to part you know you live and you learn do what ever you feel is right and it sounds to me its not with your boyfreind goodluck i hope i helped my columes open if you ever need more help
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and at practice she likes to "show things off" quite a bit and i swear she's always trying to come on to me but she's straight so should i go for her or not? (link)
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i wouldnt until see makes the first move so that way it cant back fire on you i mean flirt do what you need to do but remeber she could turn it all around on you i hope i helped goodluck my colum always open if you need anymore help
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When a guy and a girl are walking eachother, who's are goes on the other person's shoulders, and who's goes around the other one's waist? (link)
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does it really matter as long as it happens you know pickers cant be choosers lol just as long as there arm touching you lol
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i am from England. I love a lad that I met on a chat room and he doesn't love me back he lives in another country and he hasn't emailed me for almost two months. I do love him though what shall i do?
lv frm Emi07 (link)
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it sux i know but i know its gonna be easier said than done but its best if you just forget him because hes in a different country and he hasnt e mailed you in 2 months i know thats its easier said than done but bascially it was like a dream or rather a fanatsy and all fanatsys and dreams come to an end and i know it sux but i now its time to come back to reality it was fun while it lasted you know dont put yourself through anymore pain than necessary you know besides long distance relationships never work im sorry and i hope you find somebody better goodluck
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