i welcome you to ask a dork aka shelly. ive had serious ups and downs including love, alcohol abuse, friends splitting, having no one to turn to and all that crap. ask me a question already! im bored!!
P.S. ur secret is safe wit me ;)
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Age: 16
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f/16: there are 2 guys that i like the good boy and the bad boy. please tell me which u think is better and why.
the good boy: likes to have fun, former bmx biker, likes to chill, friends kinda boring unless you like to just sit there an talk; in band, up to do pranks, doesnt do drugs,and likes kids but doesnt have any.
the bad boy: loves to have fun, skater, drummer, never a dull moment, always up to pranks, does drugs, likes kids but doesnt have any, always ends up in trouble (not major trouble).
thanx for your advice
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I wish I could change I wish I could
I wish I were not the person I am today
I want you to know that I am trying my hardest
I am giving it my all I really am
I Just want you to know that You are the reason that I am trying to change.
I wish I never did the things that I did
I wish I could just be with you right now
I wish You could see how hard I am trying
To be the perfect person you want me to be...
But I just want you to know that I love you. (link)
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thats beautiful. i just want u to know that u should never change for a person unless its posatively and u know that ur doin wrong. if u changed for some one in a differnt way, that means that they are not ment for u. try to focus on the 'big picture' once in a while.
***shelly***
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ok say your in deep love but then you see another guy walk bye and say to ur friends oo hottie what does that mean? does it mean the guy you in love with ur not really in love with or is it just normal for ppl to do that? (link)
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thats totally normal. just remember looking is free and its not cheating. its just human. even married couples do it sometimes.
shelly
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My boyfriend and i have been together i miswell say a year and 5 months and we are some what getting tired of each other and we fight and argue and at some points its so hard to hang on to the relationship. he was my first love but after so long everything gets so old and you want new things, new people - we are in high school we shouldnt settle down.. ya know? so whats ur advice... itd b very hard getting used to ont having *him* call constantly and stuff.. it'd be a dramatic change =( =) (link)
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hey its shelly. i used to have a relationship just like that. the only way it worked was to get out. maybe u guys should take a weeklong break and see how u feel at the end of the week. if the feeling of wanting out is mutual or even if only one wants it, then break up. i know this is hard, but think of the longrun. do you really want someone to be there all the time in college for u to worry about? someone always connected at the hip when u want to go out and party? what you really need to do is to ask yourself: am i happier with him or am i happier with out? what helps when asking this question is to ask for God's guidance and pray for wisdom. hope this helps and good luck
shelly
**God has a plan for everyone**
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hey,
i love this 1 girl i mean i cant get my mind offa her ive been tryin 2 forget about her for 6 months because all signs say she doesnt like me any more but im hopin she still does ya know???? i mean you got any ideas on how i could try and get her back or possibly forget about her ill try anything SOME! HELP!!!
Signed,
Crushed Heart (aka Jax)
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hey its shelly. i know exactly how you feel. i went out with this one guy for a year and 3mo. i mean this guy was my everything. ne ways we broke up and i havent gotten over him completely yet. (we broke up in Feb.) what i did was i sore to my self i wouldnt cry over him for Lent. that really helped. i also tried to study more in school and focus on sports (im active). but what REALLY helped were some words of wisdom: 1. maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people b4 we meet the rite one so that when we meet them we will know how to apreciate them. 2. never frown. you never know who is falling in love with your smile. 3. dont ever try to change something that wont. i want to read to you a paragragh fm janet l. folger's book "whats a girl to do while waiting for mr right" : 'God says that all the days ordained for me were written in His book before one of them came to be (Psalm I39:16). He has a plan-a mission for every one of us. He had it all spelled out before He ever formed you in your mother's woumb. Did you hear that? You! You have a destiny. God put you on this earth at this precise point in history because He has something for you to do-right now.' well i hope that helps and dont ever loose hope. good luck
shelly
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Well, there is this boy that i like, and i used to think that he liked me, he used to tease me and blow in my ear, but from far away, like 5 inches... lol. well, n e way, ever since our teacher moved our seats, he doesn't really seem to notice me alot. I mean, he touches me and likes to play with me every now and then, but it looks like he hates me. Well, he talks to the other girls and my friends sometimes, but he never notices me. I kinda smacked him on the head today and he hit me back! i smacked him silly! so, it's like he doesn't rtespect me or something, does he like me or not? he lkes to look at me when im not looking and smile sometimes when he passes by. (link)
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this guy sounds like a playa. guys like this one bring nuthin but trouble. he really deserved to be smaked silly. i say ask him whats up or just ignore him completely and move on.
shelly
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i like haven sex wit kids is that bad?!? liek 10 to 13 year olds and im 60 (link)
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i really hope this is a prank b\c if not thats just really gross. i really dont think 10 to 13 yr old kids want to see their grandma|grandpa naked. ewwwwwwwww!!! especially on viagra wit every thing sagging wit old age. ewwwwwwww!!
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What are some nice sweet romantic things guys can do to make there girlfriends just feel really really loved...........please help...thanks you all! (link)
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hey its shelly. on thing that my friend told me that her bf did for v-day for her was a candle light dinner, just the two of them with lunchables. then they watched a really good movie. it was really sweet. (also treating her like the queen of the world helps.)
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ive been goin out /w this guy 2 weeks exactly. were kissed b 4, and weve held hands god nows how many times, and we went 2 the movies yesterday and he had his hand around me and i have my head on his shoulder. that basically shows you how close we are. i just got out of school for 3 months. i gave him my phone # in his yearbook. i still feel strange about calling him though. and i dont now why. do i call him or wait for him to call me?
~*A*~ (link)
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hey gurl! its shelly. i think you should wait for him to call since you gave him your number, unless he doesnt call you in like two days to a week. then you call him and then talk for hours on end. :) good luck
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