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ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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there is no other way but to go tell her how you feel. not only tell her but you also have the show her in the best way possible.
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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.
Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.
The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?
I'll rate 5's for anything (link)
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you could try to tell him again that it wasn't you it was your friend again. if he still doesn't believe you tell him: "you got it, it was me, you happy?" then he might say: "i knew it" then you say:"i bet you think i'm lying about saying it was me too then, right?" that should really piss him off that your contradicting him then he'll realize that you weren't lying if that doesn't work try to get your friend to tell him the truth if she refuses then she's not a good friend.
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13.Female.. ok I need you're help. sorry its kinda long.
i really really like this kid. hes not just a kid hes like my best friend. ive known him for 2 years but i just started like really talking to him like in january of this year. he always sends me emails telling me to call him. he told me about a month ago that he liked this girl allie and i asked him today if he still did and he said ya i guess so why? allie has a boyfriend and they are pretty close so i dont think that they are gonna break up, but if they do she will probably go out with him even if she doesnt like him. he thought that i liked his friend but i told him i didn't caz i dont anymore im crazy for him. i was just on the phone with him and he was like so who do you like now and he constantly asks me that when we are on the phone. when we are in school i love how he looks at me. idk if i should tell him already caz i dont wanna loose what i have with him, but i dont wanna wait forever either. i dont know how to tell him i dont really wanna have a friend do it for me caz i think its better that i tell him , but he means a lot more to me than any guy that i've liked before. i wanna be able to tell him before its too late. when/how should i? thanks ill rate high to anyone who tries to help me.
xo-Me
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i think that you should just tell him because, if you don't you will end up regretting it. it may or may not effect the relationship that you two already have just hope that it doesn't.
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