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heyy..this is vballbabe021...i made a new username, in fact a ton of new usernames lol. it's a long story why. i love to give advice so feel free to ask me whatever you want, whether it's friends, family, boys (i get those a lot haha), school, fashion, whateverr. you can also IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me if you want to. it don't care either way lol. if you add me as a friend, make sure to tell me so i'll add you back!! kk that's all i have to say?? thanks for coming ♥
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this is the girl that called you a bitch, im sorry. i was just made that you answered like everyone elses but mine. but it's okay :-).
oh it's fine :) i didn't answer everyone elses tho lol..i didn't have enough time =/ so sorry for everyone but once again just like email me or something. but yeahh i'll try to answer more tho..
okay so theres this boy and i really think i got a good one finally, but he goes to a different school and its really hard to always find ways to see each other.. i mean its good too because my friend likes his friend soo we can all like go together and stuff.. but what else can we do besides go to the movies and like walk around each others towns ?? ohh and my mommy met him today and totally approves !! =)
yay that's good :) are you asking what else you can do with him when you hang out? sorry if i answer this the wrong way =/...
because it's near halloween, there's going to be all these haunted houses and stuff :) you should totaly go there because then you'll like have an excuse to hold on to him lol. plus they're reallyyyyy fun unless you go to a crappy one
each other's houses.
swimming
walks in the park?
play sports together
shop :D haha
amusement parks
if you have snow there..try skiing or snowboarding or w/e with him
dine :) guys loveeee food!
go on vacation with him? i'm sure you'll find tons to do
if you live near a beach...
make films together..take funny pics..you know taht stuff
ok hoep this helps!!
Y0UR A REAL BiTCH !! i ASKED Y0U LiKE 4 QUESTiONS !! Y0U DiDNT ANSWER 0NE OF THEM !! =[
omg if you really really want something ,IM me at sappyacorn2 or email me at crazygirl75@myway.com because i'm not able to answer all the questions here because i get like 20 a day... plus this thing is getting messed up because some people say they ask me something and i never got it =/ so i may not have even gotten yours... if you email me i'll guarantee i'll answer it :) sorry again about all this =/ but like i have a tonnnnnnnnn of homework and i'm so busy these days!
there's this guy in my school who is abbslutely gorgious but i dont have any classes with him or anything & he probally doesn't even know i egzist so how do i get him to notice me? none of my friends know him or anything but i think he always walks home from school so i think im gunna try to walk home with a few friends, does that sound stalcker-ish? and what elce should i do?
well you like him so you should just try to get to know him. make sure he actually walks home from school in the first place lol, you don't want to randomely walk home for no reason. thne yeah you could walk home with him with a few friends, but maybe you could walk home by yourself so there's a *reason* you could talk to him instead of just your friends, you know? i think you should at least try, both ways maybe? and you could sit wiht him at lunch with a few friends, or whenever you see him just make an excuse to talk to him like "do you have mrs. jones?" or something lol. thne ask him for the homework and start a conversation. at least try, and no you're not stalker-ish tons of girls do stuff like this all the time!!!!! just don't like save his used kleenexes and stuff..then that just gets a bit creepy haha. anyways hope this helps!! :]
hello.me and my lesbian lover just had sex today...do u think this is right because we r only 13.
write back thanks
buh bye.
um well you can't get pregnant...and you could've gotten STDs if one of you has had an intercourse with a guy before?? 13 is younggggg..if it felt right to you then i guess it's alright but if it felt uncomfortable then i definitely wouldn't do it again and wait longer. it's not really right or wrong, probably more wrong than right because you're only 13 but whatever. hope this helps??
hi.. okay well i was at work yesterday. i work at dunkin donuts. im 16. so this really hot guy comes in. and i get him his order. he goes gets a straw or something. then he put his hand over the counter and says here miss you dropped something so i take it look at it. and it says \" mike \" with his phone number haha.. then like 20 mins later he comes throough the drive through orders a large iced cofee. and was talking to me. and says hey call me sometime lol. so i get out of work. and i call him. and he seemed really nice.. buuuuuuut hes 24 :-x.. so i dont know.. he lives the street over from mine. im just conufsed i dont know wat to do.
hm that's a pretty big age difference you got there =/ it's kind of illegal for him to see you actually...if you have any sexual intercourse he could be arrested... does he know you're 16?? maybe you look older than your age and he thought you were like 21 or around that. if he does and is still like flirting with you, if you feel THAT uncomfortable, you should tell him that you feel kind of weird since there's an 8 year difference between you two. if you don't, and just want to try, you could but just know that there're consequences ok? he seems pretty cool except for his age difference, so maybe you two could just hang out a bit and be friends..but not really go out? you just need to talk to hiim about this. would you rather go out with him, but be a little uncomfortable and worried during that time, or not go out wiht him and feel a little regretful about it? both are kind of hard =/ it's up to you. i'd just try to hang out iwht him and stuff and see how it goes.. if you want that is. i don't know this guy. anyways hope this helps..IM me if you want. ♥
my homecoming is in a little over a month and i have yet to get a date... i have been asked but i turned some people down for what i think r good reasons. I ahvea good friend who wants to ask me but i want to wait a little longer for another guy to ask me but im afraid my friend will ask someone else.
should i just go with the friend or wait on the boy i want to ask me ?
i think you should probably tell the frined "i'll think about it k?" and then see if your crush asks you. if after like 2 days or something he doesn't ask, then i'd probably just go. i know it may sound like he's using you but it's not really that bad in this case? =/ but if you feel that guilty, i'd just choose between those-is there more of a possibility that your friend will ask out another person, or that your crush WON'T choose you? think about it. i don't know any of these people (i don't think?) so i wouldn't know lol. it's really up to you, it's not my decision haha. well anyways hope this helps!! sorry i probably answered this too late =/
My friend asked this guy what he thought aboout me, and he wouldn't answer her, he just tried to get away from her.
Does this mean he doesn't like me?
honestly, it could be anything. maybe for one, he doesn't really trust your friend so he thinks that she may tell a bunch of people. or he's really shy. like he truly likes you but doesn't want to admit it... or maybe he doesn't like you and doesn't want to lie to your friend by saying he does, but doesn't want to tell the truth because it'll hurt your feelings. it could've been anything. or the guy didn't know whether he liked you or not, and felt uncomfortable in that situation. sorry it could be a lot of things, but at least it doesn't mean 100% that he doesn't like you. that's like about 1/4 or something i think? kk hope this helps!!
12 years old..im an attractivve girl and all, but i dont rly have the right personality that goes with it. all my prettier friends do. most guys just dont see me as a good friend..i need more guy freinds!
um..well what's your personality like? are you like really mean or vain or shy or what??? you didn't really explain very much lol. maybe you're too girly for guys? i don't know, maybe you need to just talk to guys more. guys love to talk about themselves :]. so bring up a topic where they can blab about themselves. and be talkative, and NICE. not too talkative tho. don't be mean or soo flirtatious that it seems really fake or anything. you should just follow what your prettier friends do??? what? hang out with guys wiht your friends, and you may start to get guy friends. meet one and start up a conversation, then be like "hey i have to go, but if you give me your email or something, we can continue this later??" :] then you have a reason to contact him!! and maybe you guys could hang out and such. go out to the movies or somewhere with your friends and the guys. you guys should bond! remember, guys like nice REAL girls!! just be yourself. believe me, if you aren't, thye won't like you for the real you and you'll just be like acting whenever you're around them. anyways hope this helps!! :)
hi,
um..
yeah.
i usualy don't ask people for help.
but i just want someone else's perspective on this.. so here it goes.
I have a friend. His name is Jack. && I'm like.. in love with him. He's one of my best friends. && I love everything about him. The way he talks, walks, acts, laughs. everything. But, he has a girl friend. && she's kinda a friend of mine.( but not that close) && I think he really likes her. But this kid.. is just.. SO amazing.
And I want to tell him how I feel. But everytime I go to do it. I get scared && back down. && I'm also afraid to tell him because of his girlfriend( I don't want to ruin anything ) && also, I don't want to ruin the good friendship we have.
&& That's my story.
I was just wondering what you think.
As in, what you would do?.
Just to get someone elses perspective.
But yeah.
Thank you for listening.
=)
OMG i'm in a pretty close situation like that too! but mine's different tho =/ but like he's one of your best friends, so he should understand. if he's a true best friend, then he won't just not be your friend anymore if you tell him you have feelings for him. maybe it'll be a little awkward for a few days after you do, but honestly he should definitely get over it. i think there might be a possibility he likes you, because you two are such good friends and heyy who knows?? but he does have a girlfriend, yes. that could be a problem. don't blame everything on the girlfriend because honestly it's not her fault. you could wait until they breka up, which you may realize may not be soon... or you could just tell him, or just not tell him. those are the only choices i can think of? sorry. if you do tell him now, yes there may be consequences but if you want to risk it... seriously guys aren't that emotional, not as emotional as girls, so it may not come as big of a deal to him as you may think it will. but on the ohter hand, you never know. you should talk to him about it but tell him he can still keep dating that girl, because you don't want to pressure him into breaking up with her right? friends just don't do that to each other. confess to him in PERSON, not on the phone or anything! it just won't sound right if it's the phone or AIM. if you need more help, IM me at sappyacorn2 because i have to do homework :O lol. kk hope this helps!! :]
im bi, i like this girl.. and we knew eachother for about a year and ive liked her for about 5 months.. she didnt like me because she only talked to me online, i started talking to her on the phone.. and now she likes me, but she also has a boyfriend who thinks its wrong to date a guy and girl at the same time, even if you are bi.. and she said that`s why we cant go out, even tho we say love you on the phone and sstuff. help me and i`ll rate you good!!
so you two have never even met each other in real life before?? if you haven't, then that could be a problem..like how far away do you live from each other? you should meet up some day definitely, like in a public place, not at each others houses just IN CASE she's some 50 year old lunatic, which i'm sure she's not lol :D. but still. but you guys should really meet if you're even planning on having a relationship together. it might be kind of weird idk..??
anways if you have then whateverr. ask her whether she'd like to be with her boyfriend or you more. if she can't decide, then just let her be. i mean, she obviously has feelings for you i guess, so she might do something about it soon?? don't rush her tho, she's in a hard position right now. i can kind of understand the boyfriend tho, he'll probably be jealous. you should just keep on being *friends* with her, talk on the phone & online, and keep on just being yourself. but talk about it wiht her. or have her talk to her boyfreidn again. it's really up to you three to decide. but if you two haven't even met, then going out or not, it wouldn't make that that much of a difference? sorry bit confused here.. yeah well sorry but if you need more help IM me at sappyacorn2. hope this helps?? =/
Hey!
this guy I like IMed me & was like " hey babe" & when i said i g2g he did the crying face.
Does this mean he likes Me?
ill rate you a 5 if you can help!
i don't know, maybe..i mean you can never really tell on AIM. maybe he just didn't want you to go because he wanted to keep on talking to you-as a friend or something too maybe?? or he wanted to tell you something but then you had to go. or maybe he does that to a lot of people... and the "babe" part could mean something. but i've had some guys do that to me too lol and they don't *like* me haha. but i think he might. i would probably consider that flirting. so most likely, yes i do think he probably does like you :] hope this helps!!♥
ok well im 13 and in 8th grade .. there is this guy that asked me out who really likes me and i kinda like him and then there is this other guy who i really like and he may like me .. im not sure though .. anyway i dont know if i should say yes to the guy who asked me out or wait for the person i really like ..
do you want to go out with that guy? there is the possibility that if you say no, and the other guy doesn't ask you out, then you just won't get a boyfriend period. if you do go out with the guy, then maybeee it can get guy #2 to realize that he actually has feelings for you and maybe do something about it. or if you say no, guy #2 may realize that he likes you and has to act fast, so he asks you out. but you should never go out with someone you're no sure about. it's really up to you. i can't tell you what to do, i think i might go out with guy #1 but i need to really really be in your situation to figure it out. sorry. but waiting doesn't always work...that's the problem. anyways hope this helps?? =/♥
if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean?
it probably means he was playing truth or dare and said it really loud so his friends could hear what your answer was. you shouldn't have told him...that's your personal business and it was really immature for him to ask.. just forget about it, those guys are dumb, they aren't worth worrying about. next time something like that happens, tell them to mind their own business. or joke and say "yeah i like started when i was 2" or something. forget about it. don't worry about it. they'll forget about, so you might as well too.
hope this helps!!♥