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so i like this guy and i want to ask him out! im 16 and we go to the same school but i have no clue what to say!!
any ideas?
were should we go?
movies?
just hang out?
thanks
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for starts, try to pick somewhere more in public, like a movie or free skate.
and for the asking, just ask. either it works, or it doesnt. what you could is say something like... "hey *insert name* do you want to go skating with me next tuesday?" its that easy, replace skating with what ever you want.
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So it started last year, I was introduce to this guy named MP, and well it started off nice we would text back and forth and wouldnt stop, well he asked my out, and well we went out for about a week, but the thing is that at school he didnt come up to me at school or talk to me at all, like he is so enexperience, he really never had a girlfriend and well i have had many boyfriends in the past, so i broke it off, and well over the time we would talk occasionly, im really good friends with his sister, and i talk to her but not about him, bc he doesnt talk to her about girls. so i really want to ask her about MP< but idk.... well anyways this year has started and were talking i think again, like in june i was his first real kiss, so i dont know. i dont know if im waasting my time our not. how do you knwo if you are wasting your time?
so this thing has been going on for like a year, but this is his senior yeah and my sophmore year, so yeahhhhh, i dont knwo if i should just move on (link)
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do you like him?
Cause you are right, he is unexperienced. everyone has to start somewhere. But, im guessing he really likes you, and just cant show it, well he doesnt know how to. try talking to him?
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I've only dated a couple of guys- enough to get me started I guess... anyways, now I'm more "interested" in guys I guess, than I was before because I know a little bit of how things work. There's nobody I have an ABSOLUTE crush on, but there are a few guys that have caught my eye. I was just wondering, how do you initiate something with someone? I've only been asked out by guys, and I'd like to start taking chances myself and take my own picks. But it seems awkward, like what if they don't take the hint? I don't want to make it so methodical like: flip your hair around him or, wear his favorite color and talk about his interests... I mean, I want it to flow and not seem like work. Any advice? (link)
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Well, trying being your self. Don't get someone to like who you arn't. that will end badly. Just, hang out with him. dont go out of your way to hang with him, that might seem creepy at first, but when you get the chance, spend time with him.
He will get the hint, and if he wants, he'll jump at it.
just don't push, it is a HUGE turn off. be your self and everyone wins.
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I'm a junior in high school now. So there's this guy that had a major crush on me in 4th 5th and 6th grade (I wasn't interested in boys much back then, I thought it was embarassing), but we went to different schools in 7th and 8th, and then in high school we never had a class together until this year- we have one. He's changed a lot since then, obviously. He's very good looking and funny and smart, and he's a very good actor. But he's been in a realtionship with this girl for at least 3 years now... and her facebook says "married" to him and all- like it's pretty serious. This year I've finally been able to talk to him again, and he flirts with me- during class I got up to turn something in and he's like-"Jess? Jess forgot to turn something in, oh my gosh! *jokingly* Jess was cool, she was in my class in 6th grade, you remember that?" In front of everybody, and then later he gave me a hug and said- I used to have a crush on you, by the way *laughs* And so I guess my question is... I like him... but he's been with his girlfriend SO long. Is there even a chance for me? I don't want to try to steal him away, but I hate just passing him up, he's the guy I could be happiest with. It's kind of depressing... so what am I supposed to do? (link)
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same thing i say for most relationship questions, talk to him. You are both mature people now, and can talk through things.
don't get to far into his words because it might be you trying to see only what you want, well listening.
just talk to him, keep talking to keep in un ackward, and that should help it all out.
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Alright, first, i am sorry if this is really long but i have a lot to say. Okay, well i like this guy and he "supposedly" liked me. (we "talked" for a week over the summer.) Anyways, tonight i went to a party and he was tickling me and hugging me and picking me up...etc. Well, all my friends (which is a lot) told me they think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and he even told my friend he liked me. Well, later at the party (at the end) he comes up and gave me a huge hug. He was like "I'll see ya later, bye!" Then, after the party my friend told him that i really liked him and he told her not to tell me but he likes someone else and he is "talking" to someone else.I mean, i even admit, he was flirting with me at the party and then he just tells my friend right after that he likes someone else and not to tell me. I don't get it.
I really don't think he is a player. He really is a nice sweet sensitive guy and he dosen't have a "bad" reputation. I am so confused! He is always really nice to me and everything. I mean, all my friends were telling me that they hear he likes me. My questions are,
1. Why is he doing this?
2. Does he like me and the other girl or just her?
4. What do you think?
5. What do i do and how do i act around him now?
6. Should i still flirt or should i lay off?
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well, it really depends on age.
if he is like under 16 or so... i bet he has no idea where his heart is going. at that age you jump from girl to another.
firstly you should go talk to him. express what you feel, that is the fastest and best way to get answers.
talk to him first, if you dont get a chance, and he is there at a party or something, test it, just go sit or stand with him and gauge how he reacts, if is still happy, flirt back, and at some point ask if you can talk to him. if he likes you, he will for sure.
but, his age really would help. message me if my guess is off.
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I am a 15/M i am ok looking but i am really small in height and weight for my age group. I am horrible about talking to girls that i like and dont know how to approach them in the right way. What are some flirting tips that i can use to get girls to give me a chance. (link)
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most important, BE YOUR SELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
add a couple more ! to the end.
just be your-self and be nice. be playful, dont be mean, but... playful... lol, im only joking ways poke fun, only a little bit, and im sure you will go far.
works for me.
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