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very very confused!


Question Posted Friday August 29 2008, 11:49 pm

Alright, first, i am sorry if this is really long but i have a lot to say. Okay, well i like this guy and he "supposedly" liked me. (we "talked" for a week over the summer.) Anyways, tonight i went to a party and he was tickling me and hugging me and picking me up...etc. Well, all my friends (which is a lot) told me they think he likes me because of the way he acts around me and he even told my friend he liked me. Well, later at the party (at the end) he comes up and gave me a huge hug. He was like "I'll see ya later, bye!" Then, after the party my friend told him that i really liked him and he told her not to tell me but he likes someone else and he is "talking" to someone else.I mean, i even admit, he was flirting with me at the party and then he just tells my friend right after that he likes someone else and not to tell me. I don't get it.
I really don't think he is a player. He really is a nice sweet sensitive guy and he dosen't have a "bad" reputation. I am so confused! He is always really nice to me and everything. I mean, all my friends were telling me that they hear he likes me. My questions are,

1. Why is he doing this?
2. Does he like me and the other girl or just her?
4. What do you think?
5. What do i do and how do i act around him now?
6. Should i still flirt or should i lay off?
Thanks!


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0xymoron answered Saturday August 30 2008, 4:48 am:
1. he is just confused, he probably DOES like you, bt right now he is more focused on someone else, so he doesn't want to lead you on too much, but still likes to flirt with you.
2. he likes you both.
4. You forgot number 3. and I already said what i think
5. If you want to win him over just keep flirting with him.
6. Keep flirting.

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theoldkid answered Saturday August 30 2008, 3:58 am:
well, it really depends on age.

if he is like under 16 or so... i bet he has no idea where his heart is going. at that age you jump from girl to another.

firstly you should go talk to him. express what you feel, that is the fastest and best way to get answers.

talk to him first, if you dont get a chance, and he is there at a party or something, test it, just go sit or stand with him and gauge how he reacts, if is still happy, flirt back, and at some point ask if you can talk to him. if he likes you, he will for sure.


but, his age really would help. message me if my guess is off.

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