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theres only too much to say in here:
lover.
liar.
lullabies.
night time.
fighting is a waste.
but i'll knock you out.
my mom = hero.
my life < yours.
but you'll never know.



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Okay, well.. I've known this kid for like, ever! Since he moved here. And I was his FIRST friend when he moved up here. Well, anyways.. I liked him when I was little. But then I thought, that's kinda weird cause he's my best friend..So then I just started to like him this year. And, I tried to get over him, but I can't. What's your advice for me? What should I do???


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this happens a lot. best friends get feelings for each other. you either like him or you dont but either way its fine. maybe you can talk to him about it. he might feel the same way :] hope i helped


I rate!!!

13f. tommorrow is 4th of july. YEAH! i'm going to watch fireworks somewhere pretty far away from my house. (like an hour drive) so i invited a friend to go with me. she and all of my other friends cant because they're going to a party i wasn't invited to. so i'm bummed... right? I have a friend Tom who lives in that town. he's had crushes on me on and off and has told lots of my friends that he thinks i'm hot. he has a huge reputation as a player. but i dont want to be his girlfriend and/or do anything sexual with him. but he wants to hang out that night, and take me wakeboarding that same morning. if i go with him is he gonna make a move? will he think i like him if i agree to go? and if you think i can go and just have a good time with him as friends ... how do i convince my parents to let me spend all day with him (they do not like him at all)?

thanx for reading this! (link)
ok. he might try and make a move on you but so what hun. blow him off and tell him you dont like him like that. and he might think you like him and he might not. just tell your parents that you have no one else to go with and itll be fun to hang out with him :]

i hope i helped and happy 4th of july!


So yeah... here we go. I love this girl. She is great and she rocks. Things were superawesome between us. Stuff happened, and I said some really messed up things to her. I didn't really mean it but I was mad. Anyways, i've been confused and discombobulated, but now realize how I feel, I still love this girl very much and I miss her dearly. I think about her daily. What the hell do I do?

Thanks... (link)
hmmm.... why does this seem so familiar to my life? well... i would tell the girl how you feel and if she feels the same way shell come around and forgive you for the things said...

XXXmicheleXXX


OK so the kid i like (who has a g/f) asked me the other day online if i still liked him..and i tried changin the subject but hes like "No don't shange the convo.." so i told him: idk because you have a gf... then he said ooo ok..now hes talking to me a lot more..should i have told him that i still liked him? should i tell him the next time i talk to him? help me! i rate 5s! (link)
you should deff tell him.... who knows he probably likes you too if he asked ya :]


hope i helped


well me and my boyfriend havent had sexual intercourse for about a month now and well i have been getting kinda "anxious". so when i went to his house two nights ago -uninvited to surprise him- his step-brother(who is 17 - 2 yrs older then me)was just getting out of their pool. and his parents werent home n come to find out neither was my b\f so me n his brother started to talk n then i caressed his niples. n then i caressed his penis n then he caressed my body n licked it from head to toe. we didnt have sex we just fooled around a little but i was wondering am i a slut and should i tell my b\f?
*p.s. me and my b\f 3 weeks ago were talking about seeing other people because he thought his new neighbor was hott.* (link)
... um, yea... youre no slut and id dump him...

head to toe?

really now...

and dont tell your boyfriend lindsay... lmao


luv ya


13/f
What should you talk about when your on a date or movies etc?? Im always scared its going to be uncomfterable and its going to be silent! please help! i give EASY 5s! (link)
well if you go out to eat just talk about what you did earlier, what kinda music you like, if you go to the same school talk about classes... maybe somethin funny that happened to you.

but if you all go to the movies you dont have to talk that much :]

hope i helped


how do you know when you love someone? curious cuz it might be happening to me (link)
Ask yourself:

- would i be willing to let her/him go if i believed it was the best thing

- am i willing to wait for this person if he/she is not ready to have sex

- would i feel the same way if he/she gained weight

- am i willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true

- do i respect and admire her/him


- if you two were in an argument would you feel the same way




yea...



hey, i live far away from this amazing girl, but i cant stop thinking about her. i think i get to see her soon, but what if i end up falling in love with her? i dont want to lose her after her visit. what to do? (link)
well i think if this girl feels the same way about you then its impossible to lose her. if you two get to see each other then just enjoy your time together and when you know how you really feel just tell her :]


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I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do? (link)
something like this was on roseanne last nite with becky and mark and they ended up getting married. that was a bad idea and your not getting married. but i personally think that love will always get you through everything. youll be able to see her on the weekends and in the summer. itl be hard but you two will just come out stronger from it. i hope i helped :\




What are the tell tale signs that some one is cheating on you?
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- starts picking fights
- starts to buy you things *guilty*
- moody
- tastes in certian things change
- complements stop
- *if your having sex* they may start to want to try new things


hope this helps :\




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