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Q: this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.
wait until you find someone you really like. dont waste your first kiss on someone just because you dont want people to think you are prude. you can never get your first kiss back so dont waste it

Q: ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused
no not at all. i'm in 8th grade and the guy i like is in 7th grade. its only one year. as long as he is him, what does 1 year matter? it shouldnt matter at all!

Q: thx for helping me with my, i think i still like him question. i think your right...i dont like him i just miss the feeling of being in love. i think i just miss having a boyfriend. so i should just keep my self occupied? thx again....
yeah keeping yourself occupied will stop you from having the chance to think about it.

Q: Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!
he is obviously flirting! good sign.. well do you like him or not? because if you do, you should tell him. if you are too afraid to tell him, then have a friend talk to him and see what he thinks about you

Q: My boyfriend acts like he doesnt care when i talk to guys, but one of my guy friends gave me a ride to My bestfriends house for wings. and i told him it was my mom driving me because iknew he'd be super mad and break up with me and he found out and he did and i told him why but he didnt care we got back together two days later and weve been togeter for over 13 months, and he sits next to girls in all of his classes ex. one and alomst 3 classes are next to a girl i dont like very much and he refuses to move when i know he could. I dont get how he can flip out when i talk to a guy that he claims to have tried to break us up when the girl he actually has classes with and talks to tried the same just diffent ways i guess and he even made me stop talkin to him because of it. I wouldnt make him stop talkin to girls if hes friends with them but i feel like they are above me, how do i get him to relize what he has, cuz i wont be around forever, he doesnt think ill leave him but i have dumped him 1 time before and he got so mad, so i dont know what to do to make him show affection twards me and accept that i care if he leaves..ill rate high
if you really love him, you'll trust that he wont cheat on you. my friend is going out with a guy and they are like super protective and its causing both of them to stay away from like all of their friends. even though you are his girlfriend, i dont think you should tell him who he can talk to and what he can do. the same goes for him. maybe you should tell him that.

Q: what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship??
one of my really good friends went out with her best friend and even though they broke up, they are still best friends. i think you should go for it. because if you dont, you might regret it later.

Q: ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do?
okay well if they are best friends that probably means that they have been friends for a long time, and i think that if they were going to do anything, it would have been done already. guys usually hate when their girlfriends get all protective, because they would feel like trapped. maybe you should just get to know the girl more, you'd feel more comfortable if you were good friends with her too. hope i helped. =]

Q: i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?
i dont think you like him but i think you want the feeling back of being in love. maybe you should workout or do something to keep you occupied. and maybe you'll meet another guy to give you the same feeling

Q: Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.


signed in love but confused.
if you know he likes you, go for it. you dont want to leave him guessing. you'll regret it later. beleive me.

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