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My best friend is a guy. He is amazing. I'm confused though because he wants to go to the next step in our "relationship". Sex. I think I want to, but I'm not sure. i've never done that before. What shouldI do. I'm scared. But I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to. (link)
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you need to think really hard about this. you dont want to have sex with him unless you love him and you're sure he feels just as strongly about you. and you need to talk to him about it and discuss what you would do if you got pregnant or something.
with sex comes a lot of responsibility as well as pleasure, so be careful!! =)
hope i helped!
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So basically I have this wonderfully amazing boyfriend! I love everything about him, he's just so perfect. But last night I had a dream about another guy. I hate this guy but in the dream I was in love with him. Does this mean I'm cheating? Or that I don't really love my boyfriend as much as I thought???
I'm so confused. (link)
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in no way does that mean you're cheating on him or you dont love him.
but, you might really have to ask yourself if you're as happy as you think you are. dreams arent always showing us exactly what we want, but they can definately lean that way.
hope i helped && good luck
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ive been going out with this amazing girl for 4 days but the problem is i dont think she knows i love her /i dont think she loves me,can sum1 tell me a way to tell her i love her,by the way im 12 years old and we hav kissed twice like just a little pek though. (link)
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honestly? if you've only been going out for 4 days i doubt you truly love her.
i've had a few boyfriends who claimed they loved me after going out for a short amount of time, and it was a huge turn off and creeped me out.
if i were you i would wait before i tried to tell this girl that i loved her.
but in the meantime, try to think of ways to tell her that you really really like her. =)
hope i helped.
good luck!
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Is it a turn-off to guys if a girl has low self-confidence or in other words is shy? (link)
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most guys are okay with shy girls as long as they dont act snobby...
but confidence is sexy. so even if you have really low self esteem try not to show it on the outside.
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hold your head high and remember you're beautiful.
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Ok I was thinking about taking me and my boyfriend's relationship to another level we talked about it and he said he don't want to rush me into it and he wants to do it when I do it so like I'm thinking about it but I want to know like how does it feel does it really hurt and if it does what are some things you can do to make it less painful? (link)
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it can hurt at first, and there could be a bit of blood. but if you really love eachother then maybe he'll be careful about going slowly && gently the first time.
just talk to him about it first and tell him you're ready to have sex but you're a bit nervous and would appreciate it if he was careful with you.
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well, there's this guy who hasn't really ever shown any reason that he would like me. we generally hang out because my roomate (at my high school) is friends with him. we occasionally talk over msn but it seems to end with us argueing cause he can be a total jackass. but yesterday we were all watching a movie and then later when we were alone, he kissed me. and then my friend came in, she didn't notice and we pretended nothing had hapened. i've avoided him all day today, but even so he hasn't called or anything. i'm not sure he actually like me... does he?
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he probably does if he kissed you. you might think he doesnt because he doesnt normally show signs of it, but sometimes guys are just like that. they dont know how to act when they like a girl so they either act like jerks trying to be funny or show off, or they ignore you cuz they're scared of rejection.
hope i helped =)
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14f ok so.. well whenever I get the chance I love to make guys nervous or well idk. If they ask me who i like ill say you because I want see their reaction. Or Ill say hey sexy or baby or names that probably seem like it would come from their girlfriend. Or sometimes depending on who ill sit down next to a guy stroke his thigh and say hey. But I let them know that I'm just kidding. I guess I dont have a problem but I just want to know what people think of this. Like should I stop since I dont even like like them or just as long as they know Im playing then its okay? (link)
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im sure they love it, haha.
but be careful you aren't leading them on...
just as long as they know you're just kidding around it should be okay.
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Alright, so i talk to this one kid in my last period class
And he goofs around wih me all the time like he tickles me, messes with my hair, takes my drink and hides it, you know stuff like that
but, sometimes he'll be like "i dont like you"
out of the blue
or he says im no very smart
so im wondering do you think he likes me or what (link)
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I think he probably does && is just nervous/embarrassed.
A lot of the time guys fool around with girls like that when they dont really know how to put their feelings for a girl into words.
but the whole out of the blue "i dont like you." thing is weird.
maybe you should try talking to him?
hope i helped. =)
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Okay, so i've been friends with "steve" for about a year now, were really good friends and hang out a lot. He's liked me for quite a while and i never liked him, but we were still friends. and yesterday (valentines day) he came to my house and gave me flowers, then said he had to go because he has a date. I feel like..seriously, crap..and i start to think maybe i like him, is that just jealousy kicking in? (link)
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ok, so this guy actually comes to your house to give you flowers... then ditches you to go on a date?
wtf.
you probably do like him and feel weirded out about what he just did.
I'd talk to him and ask him what that was all about.. only not in those words.
hope i helped. :]
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So I like this boy right. Except he's pretty shy. and well let's just say I'm pretty outgoing. I don't really talk to him, like I've talked to him once. And I don't want to randomly talk to him all the time and him be like "wtf why does this girl keep talking to me?!". I don't have any classes with him so I don't know how to start a conversation with him. I have lunch with him and I'm friends with his friends. How should I handle this situation? Any ideas? Thanks so much! (link)
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Smile when you see him. Like not a creepy i know what you did last summer smile, just a friendly smile. Then work your way up to saying hey or hi when you see him. Try to hang out with his friends more, and if he's around while you are, include him on the conversation. Basically work up a friendship with him so you can start flirting without freaking him out. :]
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