will u really talk to her to help me. thats proves humanity is akive in this world. please e-male me ankur_ghosh_82@yahoo.co.in
wut do you want me to do??? talk to your old gf??? :)
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hi, thanx for your advice.i am that same indian whoms you answered the question.the thing which you said to do is quite risky.i fear one thing that they will get her married before i stand on my feets,i.e-before i start earning.u know this is an indian religious family who thinks all these things are pure shits.and i fear to talk to her family.cause this will create prblm in her family again.she also told her frnz to tell me not to call in her house and talk to her family.she has already lost her dad.and her grandma runs the whole family.they also face some financial prblms.
for wch the whole headache is faced by her grandma.and her grandama is the main prblmin my relationship and in her life too.she also said she hates her mom for a certain reason.and she does not feels so comfortable wth her family as her family members tortures her a lot.comin under this family pressure she is now sayin tat she does not loves me anymore.but i know i can convince her family. i just need her to say tat she still loves me.tats the hardest part to do for her.cuz she knows tat once she says tat she loves me i will force her 2 cont. this relationship once again,wch she does not wants to do.this is a major prblm.and i don't know wat to do,at the same time i am scared to tak to her family , cuz somehow they WILL torture her again.i am pissed and i don't know wat to do.
oh boy! geeze. you have a major problem! maybe if you talk to the grandma, she will understand your problem. but try talking to your gf first. or maybe her freinds, and tell them that they have to try to convince your gf to talk to you. good luck. :)
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im the person whose boyfriends mom died.
well i told him he can talk to me about anything but when he talks about his mom i have no idea what to say.
he was in 1st grade when she died. she died of breast cancer and lost her hair. she was always in bed and so he couldnt really talk to her.
it 100% breaks my heart and i have no idea what to say so i feel like an idiot. what can i say? i cant even relate to what hes going through! i love this kid but he wouldnt know from the way i respond. help us please!!
just tell him that everything is going to be fine, and that she will always be w/him no matter wut happens. tell him that she is always around him and his family, and when ever he needs to talk you'll listen. :)
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I asked a question about a month ago about my situation with an ex-boyfriend who I became pregnant for, and then lost the baby. (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=421121)
Not long after, he called and apologized for everything, and gave me his side of the story. I finally showed him ultrasound pictures and he saw how depressed I had become, and after hearing it from soo many people he believes me. He says he would have been there for us, which I believe, and we are now friends. He's helping me deal with my loss.
But the last time we talked, he asked about getting a second chance. I don't want him to think I'm this easy to get back, but at the same time we've been through so much, and I think he's learned his lesson. I still care about him, not only because he's the father of my child, but I care about him as a person.
I told him if I did give him a second chance, it would be a long time from now because I'm not ready right now after what I went through. Do you think he deserves a second chance? I need an outsider's opinion on this. Thanks!
if you still really love him, but you don't want to look easy, then you should make him wait. but if it were me, and he left me in a time of need, then i wouldn't go back w/him. you nevr know, he could do the same thing all over agian.
:)
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okay well the guy that i have liked for a long time just started liking my best friend. she has a bf that she loves very much and i dont think she would leave him. i dont think he knows i like him but idk. should i tell him straight up?...but if he dont like me like that then i will feel weird around him..me, him, my best friend and a few others are going to the movies on friday but i dont know if thats a good idea considering he likes her. she knows i really like him and i know she wouldnt do anything like flirt with him in front of me. but i dont want him paying all the attention to her..should she invite her bf that way he cant?!?!?
ill rate high =)
uuummm.....ok, don't tell him that you like him. that may open a window for him to take advantage of you. and you should go to the movies, but ask your friend if she wouldn't mind bringing her bf along. and just be yourself around him. if you are supposed to go out w/him, then your time will come. :)
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i am 16 yrs male.ilive in india.according to the indian culture rajasthani people do not believe in love marriages.and they are totally aginst it.i had a girlfriend who is rajasthani.she loves me too.but her family came to know this secret relationship before the right time.for which she has to break up with me.but i know she still loves me.also she wanted me to hate her because she always used to think that her family won't let me marry her.and it will make me easy to forget her thinkin that she never loved me.the problem is that now she is saying that she does not loves me anymore. she thinks that her this attitude will make me hate her.this is for sure that i love her in a true sense and she loves me too in a more advanced and her love is more then i love her.one major problem is that i don't have any contact with her.she will not even call on my cellphone.please help me.i know i can be a succesful carreer holder in the future and also i can convince her family too. only if she gives this relationship a second chance and to make her believe that i am the only one for her.
that's soooo sweet. you should tell her parents this, that may make them think higher of you. as for her........ i would call her (after you talk to her parents)untill she answers you. she knows she still loves you, she's just trying to make it less painful for herself. maybe evn ask her parents to talk to her......good luck
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This might be a long one. But ill rate 5's for your time.
I'm 14/f
There is this guy(14/m) that when im around him, i feel like I cant breathe, speak or move. He is so hot and beautiful, and he is the nicest person iv ever met. He is my sister's best friends cousin (Sorry if youre confused about that one lol) He seems to act deifferent around me than my sister. I want to think that he likes me, but we kindof like avoid eachother. My question is how can I act myself when hes around? How can I feel more comforable with him, and get his attention. I guess I'm too shy. Well thanks for answering the best you can!
if i were you, i would just act like he is one of my other friends, but drop a few hints once in a while, if you notice that he does. and don't change the way you look or act to get his attention. if he likes you for you... he wouldn't want you to change anything. :)
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Me and this guy were kind of dating then he stopped liking me cause he met some other girl. Now, he is coming back to me and wants to have what we had before. I don't like him, the only reason why I would get back with him was to kiss him cause I have never been kissed before. What should I do? Go along with it and get kissed... how could I do that? Or just totally forget about him?
first off, if he left you in the first place, he probaly didn't like you. and now he wants back into something just like that. that was wrong... to me, it sounds like he is just using you to say that he has a gf. and it would b wrong of you to use him.....don't worry, when the time is right you will get kissed.
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what do you do with ya tounge when like reallly kissing ?cause i have madeout without tounge but then my "friend" stuck his tounge in my mouth and whatever idc but i just felt stupid because i didnt know what to do with mine..soo can someone help me before the weekend?? thanks so muchh..
if you feel really weird not doing anything w/it, then you can move it around, or make yours touch his before his toung goes all the way back. that will show him that you feel comfortable with him, and don't mind kissing"that way" but if he really likes you, for who you are, he probably doesn't mind wether you know wut to do with it or not.
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