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how do i tease a guy when teasing? (link)
You can get really close to him, like youre going to kiss him, staring into his eyes, then pull away. Most guys will grab your face and immediately kiss you. Or you can just lean your head on his shoulder, your face next to his, the lightly breathe. Or when actually in the act of kissing, you can give him a lot of little kisses, THEN a long one, or whatever you like. It usually comes naturally.


When a guy and a girl are walking eachother, who's are goes on the other person's shoulders, and who's goes around the other one's waist? (link)
The girl usually puts her arm around the guy's waist, and his around her shoulders. But its also nice with both ppls arms around each others waists.


how do you show a guy you like him. without telling him. & i dont mean this in a horny or perverted way.
thanks! (link)
Flirt with him, when you go places w/ him in a group (if you do that), always be the one next to him, dont be obsessive about it, but be nice to him, toss your hair, smile, etc.


what turns guys on? like what do they look for or like in a girl. also how can you get a guy to really notice you? thanks so much! (link)
Be yourself. Act natural, but you can add in a little flirtiness. Wear maybe a little makeup and cute clothes (they dont have to be "in style", just what you find looks good on you and youre comfortable and feel pretty in). But dont be overly flirty or wear too much makeup or overly sexy clothes, guys will find you to be more of a hookup than a girl that they can actually have a relationship with.


i really want to do it with my boyfriend, and he keeps pushing me. i really do want to do it too, but i'm having second thoughts. he's incredibly hot and we tease each other by making out on our beds. his sexy voice always makes me want to do it sooo badly!! sometimes we start taking off our clothes, but then i back away. what should i do- if i really want to do it but i can't?

btw-- what is it like at first?? (link)
If youre having second thoughts and he is pushing you, you might should just wait a while until you get more comfortable and you know that this is for sure what you want. Losing your virginity is a big thing, so wait until you KNOW that it is the right time and with the right guy. Make it special, and if waiting is what makes it special, then wait.


I don't know what to do. I met a guy awhile back at a camp and i have been chatting with him for about 4 months now. I am in love with this guy and he is in love with me. Actually we're engaged even though that sounds crazy. But anyways yesterday he told me that pretty much everything he told me was a lie except for the fact that he loves me. He said that his feelings and thoughts about me were never lies, he only lied about some poetry he gave me, because he didn't write it. And he lied about being rich and owning these cars and houses he showed me. I dont know what to do because I love him and dont want to give him up but how do i learn to retrust him? What should I do, just let him go and move on? Or give him the second chance hes asking for? Please help its tearing me apart (link)
The fact that he is apologizing and fessing up to his lying shows that he IS sorry, and he DOES still love you, also shows that now he wants an honest relationship since he loves you so much. Try to give him a second chance, but if he lies again, cut it off. I hope it works out for you!


Can people with REAL relationship experience please answer? People that have been in serious relationships that lasted more than a few months? Thanks.

I'm 17/f and he's 21/m. We've been together since July 5th of 2005. It's the first serious relationship each of us has had.

Everthing was going wonderfully between us until the beginning of this year. We fought over stupid things. I kept getting really angry with him because he wouldn't go get a job and all he cared about was playing his computer and video games. He IS in college though and is going for internet security, so that was a good thing. Most of the time we worked through whatever problems we might have had, though. I really got better at respecting his hobbies and such. Plus he finally has a job now. Okay.

Lately though, I just feel like I don't want to be around him because I know it will be boring or he'll just make me angry in some shape or form. I don't want to hang out with just him because I know we'll just sit around and be bored because there's nothing to do.

Whenever he calls to say goodnight or something, sometimes I don't even pick up the phone because there's nothing to talk about or I don't even want to talk to him.

The point I'm getting to is that I think I might be falling out of love with him. I don't know if maybe it's because I see him too much or what, but I see our relationship more as really best friends instead of loving boyfriend and girlfriend. I know I care about him because I would never want him out of my life.

So my question is, how do I fall back in love with him? How do I make our relationship more fun and loving? We've been together for nearly two years and I can't figure out a way to keep things as lively as they were the first few months we went out.

At this point, I'm not sure a "break" would work for us because I'm going to college in the fall. If we took a break, that would be it and I know we'd be done. So that's a last resort.

I know that deep down, some part of me needs to stay with him and keep loving him because I'm asking this question. I want to find that part of me and bring it out. I want to be just as much in love with this man as I was the first time I told him.

Any advice? (link)
You can try to spice things up, maybe do sweet things for him, and he will probably do them back if he loves you as much as it sounds like he does. My boyfriend and I have had problems in the past, but we've always worked through them, forgave each other, and stayed together, and actually the problems we've had have made us stronger as a couple.




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