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Well heres the problem. im a 13 year old guy who used to have a reallly skinny body but iv been working out for about 9 months and iv gained a lot more muscle mass and i look better too. But before i started working out a lot of my ribcage was sticking out, but i never really paid attention. Now since iv been working out its gotten alot better and less shows but it still sticks out. im going to WhiteWater with the girl i like and some other guys and girls too in 5 days, 6-20-09 . i wanted to know if there is anyway i can reduce the amount of rib that sticks out. And another question, i wanted to know the things NOT to do and how to be nice and friendly to her. or what i can do to get her attention. THANK YOU.

Sincerely,
Ashkon.

look man im going to give you some personal advice here when i was in wrestling i used to eat alot of protein because it makes you look bigger like in the ribs and stuff you look buffer but youll have to eat alot and your going to gain some weight in muscle but after you eat it try to do some bench press btw im 13 too and when im with a girl i try to compliment her on her loos like for example you look really preety and then move up when you feel comfortable but dont creep her out either

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Well I will give everyone the short story cause this is a very complicated situation. My wife and I got married at 19, joined the military, had a child at 22 and having been living a very happy and healthy marriage for 7 years. We own a home, are finacially comfortably, have all the materialistic things that one would want in life. And we also have a 3 year old daughter, and planning on more children. Also are families are very close, and our mother's became best friends. Basically we have achieved the "American Dream." Recently my wife has started to feel like she missed out on something. We reached the ultimate goal in life, but she feels that she maybe got there to fast. Grew up to quickly in a sense. Well I am a good husband and have always treated her like a queen. We never argued and had a very good sex life. I always strived to give her everything she wanted. Well My wife recently moved out of the house to have some time to herself to think about what she wants. To leave me and go experience some of the things she feels she missed out on, or stay married to me and try and get through this crisis together. I love my wife unconditionally, and hate the thought of losing her. She knows that I am willing to do anything to make our marriage work, but she is so lost and confused about what she truly wants. I cannot lose her but feel she is slipping farther and farther away from me. She tells me she still loves me, but she isn't sure if she wants to be with me. I know that's not a good sign, but I will continue to fight until she tells me it is over. If she leaves me to go out and date or other things of that nature whe will lose me. Even thought I am almost positive at some point she will realize what she is missing is that great and will come crawling back to me because of how perfect we are together and how amazingly I treat her. But I won't be able to wait for her to realize that. If she seperates from me, then I will have to also move on. I am trying to prevent this from ever happenning. If anyone has gone through this or has some advice on what I should do, please help. I am desperate here and I just want my wife back.

look man this happend to me with my girlfriend she felt weird around me beacause she felt like she wanted something else but you have to understand to let her go for what she wants and if you two seperate (hopefully god forbids)she will probably rEALIZE THAT she wanted more from you and make her think about your children how will they mature knowing theyre parents are not together will it give them the wrong idea? maybe theyll problably do the same so man try to prevent it because if you want to be happy then you have to be with her

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Okay guys will be uys i understand that.
Why do guys always say they love a girl but really there just playing her. i dont understand any of that.

guys your advice would help me..

13/f

ok ima guy im 14 years old and i only told one girl i loved her but i really didnt its not that we play you girl is that we cant interpret what love is when i told my ex that i loved her she toldme it was too soon but what you feel when you really like a person and you cant control is "love"

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My boyfriend of 3 years, "Dave" and I have recently moved into an apartment with his friend, "Bob" and Bob's girlfriend, "April".

Bob has to go to basic training for 4 months so it is only Dave and I plus April.

I have to house sit for my grandparents for a week while they are on vacation and am over an hour away from the apartment so I'm nervous leaving Dave and April alone.

I trust him, but I came over to visit yesterday and walked in the room and he was on the computer in our room (he had no shirt on and pj bottoms) while she was on the bed watching him.

I don't know her that well and it freaked me out that a stranger is in our room with my personal stuff and on my bed with my boyfriend, alone.

What I want to know is am I over reacting and should I ask him not to have her in there alone or is that too controlling?

What would you think about this?

Thanks.

you should trust your boyfriend but if the chick was on "your" bed and he had no shirt on then we might have a problem talk to the skank

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