Hey ya'll whats up?
We'll if your reading this you probably know me already, but yeah. umm I'm just here to help yall. you dont have to tell me who you are, you can just ask me anything. i've been told i was good at giving advice and helping, so you can jsut ask me anything.
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Member Since: November 18, 2004
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is it ok to date someone whos only like a fourth of an inch taller than me? i really like him him and hes almost my height. rumor has it he is going to ask me out...help! (link)
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yeah!hieght is NOTHING!!!it's all about personality!!you need to go with the personality and if you realy liek him..looks aren't everything...good luck babe!
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hey, to whoever said that about tyler L, i know he has a gf, but i can get you a hook up w/ him..if you just call me 4315028 or im me coopatroopa4o7, good lcuk w/ everything with him : ) im here, and lauren im here for you too: ) (link)
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uhhhh...idk what this is about..but coop gave me permission to put it up...
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i have no self confidence...i have no reason not to i mean my life is great but i think like everything about me is wrong and whenever someone says something bad about me it just gets worse...help! (link)
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ohh lord, i know EXASCCTLLYYYY how that is..i know this sounds gay, but find your inner-beauty.its amazing what you become when you know who you are, and how great you accually are. and ignore what people say. your probably beautiful, and they are just jealous. so many people give other people crap because they think they are gorgeous. self-confidence is what makes you attractive, but not too much. its kinda like make-up i guess. no self-confidence, wont bring out yoru beauty as much as it could, too much self-confidence makes you look fake, anf the perfect amount of self confidence gives you the looks everyone wants. it makes everyone wanna belike you. so what i would do is look in the mirror, and ee yourself how you are, and if you really think you need improovements in your looks. let me know and i'll giv eyou some make-up tips or w/e you want. but i think you just need to find who you really are. and also IGNORE THAT PEOPLE SAY. this world is full of jerks, they are a dime a dozen.good luck!i'm here if you need anymroe help!!
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okay well i wrote you the last message i broke up with him but i still like him and to top it off his best friend has a girlfriend who i hate..............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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lol ok well, i'm not going to make you feel bad, but i said to research about the best friend and see who your feeligns are for. but since you can't redo it you need to talk to he best friend and ask him what the deal is. and to keep it on the down load about the talk. and then you need to talk to the ex boyfriend. and be like...maybe i made a mistake of breaking up with you...and if he doesnt take you back then you need to hang out with him a lot and just see what the deal is. honey my guess is that you need to try to get the boyfriend back, and forget the best friend. and then find someone new.sorry about the mix up. let me know if you need more help.
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ok i have a boyfriend and i like him but i also like his best friend and i know there both in to me but i duunno what to do b cuz i realy like them both the same but some times they seem like they like be but then sometimes they dont what should i do??
** i agree with the person who wrote about ppl needing to get off her ass!**
thanx (link)
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haha aww thanks!!
well you need to probably break up with your boyfriend if you have feeligns for his best friend. i know EXASCTLY how you feel!this EXASCT same thign happened to me. you need to break it with your boyfriend. and se ehow his best friend feels. my guess is that they are messing with you since they act like they like you only off and on. and you personally need to figure out which one would work with your personality and you just in general better. for once thinka bout yourself. haha. but be caring, dont let your boyfriend know that you like his best friend...UNLESS UNLESS UNLESS YOU THINK YOU WANNA STAY WITH YOU BOYFRIEND!!!!if you really really really like your boyfriend then you need to stay with him. but if your only so-so with your bf, then break it. and same with the bf's best friend...mail me back if you need more help love!
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okai i like this guy and we r good friends and i think he likes me 2 but nothings happened yet what should i do?
thx!! * * * * (link)
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well find out if he likes you. you need to try to actl ike you want more then friendship. and take it form there. but joke aroudn with him first and be like. do you love me?because im madly in love with you!!haha and just mess aorudn with him. and then be like..well am i the kind girl you would want more than friends with?and jsut ask him like that..and then if he sounds like hes into you, tell him thatyou are KIND of into him, and then see where that goes. ask me when things get heated!;)
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Hey lauren!Well, this one might be hard for you because i KNOW its hard for me..and i hope youve expierenced this..but here it goes.. i've known you for a while but we've never been great friends..i don't go to the same school as you, but my friend just showed me this website of yours and its really cute, im not gunna ask you about make-up tips or fancy restaurants, this is really important to me..like REALLY important, and i need help QUICK..i have a boyfriend and hes wonderful to me, im happy when im with him and hes such a cool person to hang out with..but i feel like i dont know him as well as i should, and i've also liked another guy for a long time (ie: 7 months or more) we've never really gone out because i've always been with someone, but its not a sexual relationship, its like we connect on a higher level than that..like its whats meant to be, im not asking for the type of advice like pick who you like more (because either way one gets hurt) i need some serious help please help soon, thank you sweetie!
P.S sorry about those people who gave you trouble they're probly only jealous.. (link)
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aww yeah this is a tough one,
well what i would do first is figure out if boys is really want you want in yourlife. like boyfriends i mean. you need to figure out if you ened to be focusing more on other stuff than just boys. i mean, i think that you need to decide weather or not it's somethignt hat means THAT much to you, that you are stressing over it like you said you are.
second, if you decide boyfriends are what you want right now, then you need to figure out which one would be a better match for you. and decide which one would work with your personality best..it might take a while.maybe a few months, but it's worth it. if you think you are leaning a little more toward your other friend, take a little break from your bf, or just kinda..avoid talking to him, or dont talk to him as muchm just to give him a little signal. if you your leaning toward your boyfriend a little more, then lay off your friend, and try to spend more time with the boyfriend.
third, what you need to do it i guess kind of take a little break if you think that you want the other guy more. there is no point of leading on a guy that is already connected to you as more than a friend. if you think that you could do better than both of them,, or you dont want to be with either of the,. lay off BOTH of them, and see what happens.
most important, if you decide to break it with the bf,then tell him that you still care about him, and you jsut want to get to know him better.
but if you decide to go with the friend then tell him that you have a boyfriend, and your sorry, but he is going to have to wait because you wanna be withyour boyfriend. they both need to understand because it is YOUR decision.
well, i hope i helped any?tell me if i didnt, i'll try again!good luck babe!
thanks about the people. yeah, they piss me off. but it's all good. i guess i will have to deal with it lol.
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okay... i hope you can help, i had sex with my old boyfriend a little while ago and well i got pregnate... buuuuuuuuuuuut i have a boyfriend. ive been with this boy for about 8 months. hes soo awesome and means the world to me but i dont knwo how to tell him i cheated on him and then im pregnate... should i break it off with him and be with the daddy or what??!!! HEEELLLLPPPP ME! (link)
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ohh wow, this is a hard hard question. right now all i can say is to email me personally so me n you can talk about this jsut us two. and i wont say a word. sjcstar6799@hotmail.com but if you dont want to do then, then omgosh. well, i mean, what i would, do is sit down with your boyfriend, and have a talk with him. dont use the word "cheat" or "fuck" it will just piss him off. and you jsut have to ask him what he wants to do with him. make sure you that tell him you wanna be with him. and tell him that you want him to help you take care of the baby, if he will. if he doesnt then you jsut need to make sure that he understand that what you did was WRONG!!! and you feel bad for it..well right now, if this is SERIOUS then EMAIL ME!
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uhh well ... i have a problem ... this guy ... my ex ... im like absessed with him ... and i have a boyfriend ... which isnt him ... well anyways ... i dont kno what i should do ... but thats not the thing ... i was talkin to my ex the other day and he said that he used to like me ... like 3 weeks after we broke up .. which suprised me cuz i thought he hated eme ... i thought i was over him so i told him i liked him for like a long time after too ... and then that nite after talkin to him ... i started likin him again ... how should i get over him ... or what should i do? ... plz help me!!!
*hopeless* (link)
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*hopeless*,
uh oh, bad situation..i know hows these things work. there are SO many things you can do. but so many things you need to avoid
1. BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!!YOU HAVE TO!!!it's like the worst thing to have a boyfriend and like someone else...you need to break up with him, it will fuck with your emotions and everything, jsut do it.
2.stop telling yourslef your obsessed, and your probably convincing yourself your in love with him..EH WRONG!!dont ever tell yourself you love him..the shit gets deeper
3. figure out how he feels about you, pretend like your just kidding and tell him your madly inlove with him (AFTER YOU BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND) and be like..do you like me, because we would be a hott couple;) and then joke around with him a lot..and then be like..alright seriously..do you like me?and if he asks you if you like him, be like III odnt knowww...and if he keeps asking you, he most likely does. but dont assumer.
4. FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT!!!if you want him, thats what you need to do. hang out with him on the weekends, go to movies, or just some other places. maybe his house, thats always a great start. and maybe if it goes good, sneek in a kiss.
5.dont think about him, and dont seem desperate. bad thing, dont call him as much. tell him you will call him, and then dont. wait a day or two. and be like, sorry!! act liek you care, but dont floow him aroudn school or anything
6. if you want to get over him, then dont think abtou him, or anythign else like that. get out!!meet new people!!!thats always a great great way to get over ex's. if you need anymore help jsut email me!
GOOD LUCK!!
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