I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?
awhh thats soo cute. if you are both madly in love then you shouldn't worry about what happens when he graduates. what matters is now, and now you have eachother. tell him how you feel. don't be afraid because if you and him love eachother, and how you feel you could marry him, then you can find a way to always stay in contact. i hope i helped.
xoxo` Rinny
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I really like this guy... lets call him M. Well M is SO incredibly nice, and hes cute and funny too! We're good friends, so he's usually easy to talk to. I wanna talk to him, about being more than friends though, because I really like him... Well, everytime I go to talk to him, I can't. I guess he intimidates me because he's so GREAT. How do I approach him without seeming nervous or unconfident?
you can approach him like your just going to have a normal fun convorsation that has nothing to do with any emotional attatchment. then try to find out who he's crushing on, and no-chalontly ask what his "typical girl" is. that should give you some insite to how he is. and once you know this stuff, you should tell him that you have a crush on him. see what he says and just move on from that. good luck!
xoxo` Rinny =)
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okay i've liked this guy lets call him "david" for about 2 years now well DAVID and I met in 6th grade cuz i had just moved here and the first time i saw him i knew i would like him but the thing is i hate liking guys because im only 13 and i want to get to live life anyways all through 6th grade DAVID hated me, yes hated is a pretty meaningful word but he meant it 100% he despised me,hated me,disliked me very much however you want to put it, and in the summer i told everyone i had stopped because i could not live my life knowing someone hated me and no one believed me but they didn't make it a big deal well the summer of 6th grade DAVID and i became real good friend and we had lunch and math together in 7th grade so we were really good friends and in 7th grade we always talked and he would help me with my problems and I would help him with his and a lot of people still think i liked him then 7th grade was over and we kept our friendship tight and then 8th grade started and he is in my studyhall and lunch so this would be the 3rd year we have known eachother and every year he has been in my lunch. Everyone thinks he is mean but no one knows him like me he's a real sweet guy and is very caring about his friends and family and will stick up for anyone. Well see i never actually stopped liking him because he always gets me with his smile, but I no what ur going to say ur going to say, tell him you like him he might like you... but I know him too well he'll hate me,despise me,dislike me very much again and if I really do stop liking him which is my goal for this year he won't believe me. So plz help me and here is what he does...when he hooks me up with someone that person never breaks up with me now when i hook him up with someone i tell her she dare now break his heart and she usually doesn't and he just says like I think we should be friends, i don't know but he might be doing that to the guys and sometimes at my locker guys will come and put there arms around me and DAVID will walk by and look at the guys around me in the eyes and the guys will like walk away... is he trying to tell me something?? does he know something?? or does he just want to protect me??
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thank u sooooo much
he may possible like you. it sounds to me like he's grown up over those 3 years and he wants to start something because usually no one gets jealous unless they like you, you know? just try to get answers out of him, like the ideal girl he usually goes for, and stuff like that.
any more help IM me- shawtyy x3
xox` Rinny
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I am a freshman in high school...There is this guy in school that I like... his name is nick and well some people say that he likes me tOo. We are talkin all the time and we are each others hoes... yea not really funny but its an inside joke... AnyWayZ. I like him and so does my friend paige but that really doesnt matter... but this girl breanna is like threatin'n me like if I go out with him she is gunna beat me up and I dont know what to do... we are always together and we both told her to leave us alone and she wont... I dont wanna get her mad at me and make her wanna beat my butt... but I like him.... what should I do!
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Erika
i don't think it's up to anyone else but yourself if you go out with this guy. but if shes seriously gona beat your butt, then girl you either drop the guy or go out with him in secret.. or just dont tell anyone that you don't trust. =/ i hope i helped
xox` rinny
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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!
oook ? uumm well i'm sorta in the same situation, but i don't think talking online and not in person is a good way to get to know someone.. get over your fear and say "hey what's up?" or say "do you understand this homework? (if he says yea) oo ok well can you help me on it after school.. if your not busy" ..so that way you 2 can get to know eachother a little more and you can spend time with him, so that way you know if you really like him or not. =)
anything else jus IM me on AIM- shawtyy x3
xox` Rinny
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I feel heart broke, and it makes me so sad. I always try to not grow too attached to a guy cus im so young and i just really wanna meet new people and just have fun. WELL theres this guy i met and hes the bomb digitty and i really like him and everyone says he likes me too but he sometimes doesnt pay attention to me, he only does out of school and that really bothers me and i dont know why, i dont want it to. WELL yesterday i was at a party and he was there with his friends, and i was dancing with his friend (my bro calls it humping... haha) And the guy i like just stood there looking at us and i didnt pay any attention.. well after we were done dancing i was looking for him and he had left. He was gonna go to another party tho, but he left pissed off... i LOVE making guys jealous.. well do you think that he does like me? I HOPE SO
PS i rate high
he probably did like you, but it's not right to make boys jealous.. i don't think you would like it much if he was "humping" someone right in front of you =/ ..try to play nice lol.
xox` Rinny
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Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............
Nikki
that's happened to me PLENTY of times. just appologize if you think thats necessary, and try to let him know exactly why you broke up, or put the blame of the break-up all on you.. and tell him you're ready now and that you feel more mature about the situation =)
any more help just IM me on my AIM s/n- shawtyy x3
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ok well my boyfriend asks me to make out with him and stuff and I say yes but we dont..I really wanna tho..and like we go to our schools football games with our friends and then meet there and he like puts his hand around me and like holds me and stuff but all we do is kiss on the lips but he asks me to make out with him there online but then we dont..I want to tho..and then at school we talk alil but like never hug at school..then last week we went to see a movie and he was talking his friend that he was gonna make out with me but he didn't..I'm to scared to do..and I dunno what I would say to him like writing a note or like on aim..please help!
i had the same problem.. =/ you should tell him how you feel, and tell him that you are confused about why no one ever makes the first move. let him know that you really want to, and let him know that you feel comfortable and ask if he is.. try talking to him in person, but if you don't feel comfortable, then use the telephone!
i hope i helped ! if you have any more questions just IM me on my AIM s/n- shawtyy x3
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