ask sh0w3rg3lbaby



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Hey guys what's crack-a-lackin? I'm Marissa or Missi (whichever you like best) I'm a 15 year old girl who loves to have fun and is always lookin' for trouble=)I'm 5'7", 125lbs., long brunette hair, hazel eyes, freckles. I'm outgoing and optimistic. I am a loud, obnoxiously, spoiled brat. I love to talk, and I like listening to people even more. So if you ever wanna chat.. I'm your girl! I don't care what other people think of me. Either you like me, or you don't. It's your loss not mine. I'm very open minded to new people and new situations. I'll try anything, other than gross food. I have tons of friends but am always looking for more. My favorite things to do are sing, dance, play soccer, talk on the phone and computer, skate, and hang out with my best friend Hailei. I currently don't have a boyfriend but when I do I spend tons of time with him whenever I get a chance. That's all you need to know for now. Hit me up for more.
Website: MySpace
E-mail: clowd9cuty@netscape.net
Gender: Female
Location: Milton, Florida
Occupation: T33n@g3r
Age: 15
AIM: skittlestasteme0
Yahoo: rissababe493
MSN: sweetinnocence69
Member Since: November 22, 2004
Answers: 21
Last Update: May 6, 2005
Visitors: 4827

Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
General Sex Questions
View All

hey girl i just wanted to know if you like this boy but u dont know if he likes you but lets say we've made out and he says he loves you so what do you do please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(link)
This boy just wants you for the bootie. Leave him alone before you get your heart broken. No guy says I love you! that quick without wanting "something" in return.



ok, i have a really good friend of another race that i had no doubt at all was gay. he was always checking out other guys and stuff so of course..duh, i thot he way gay. so we were really good friends and then all of a sudden he told me the DAY BEFORE april fools that he had had a really bad crush on me since the beguinning of last year. k, it TOTALLY threw me by suprise b/c i thot he was GAY!! so ne ways i though he was joking cos the next day was april fools but he wasn't kidding at all!!! so he kept stalking me and wouldn't leave me alone. he would always be like "have you though about it yet, you're taking FOREVER!!" but my mom just got home from the hospital from a really stressful and long-recovery surgery and she JUST now started walking. so i've been distracted obviously with my mom. so ne ways i was doing this filming project for school and he was stalking me the entire time. we were filming and he'd just be standing there looking around doing nothing, watching what we were doing when we all asked him to leave like 30 minutes ago, but he wouldn't leave. so finally we finished the project and i needed to change out of this crazy costume i was in so i told him "hey, i need to change into my regular clothes." an he just tood there starring at me, then he goes "well then?" like i was ACCTUALLY going to do it in front of him! so i told him he needed to go outside and he was all pissy about it. so then while i was changing i saw him STARRING AT ME THROUGH THE WINDOW WHILE I WAS CHANGING MY TOP!! oh my gosh it was so horrible! i felt so violated! and he's still been stalking me and saying "hey, how's your day?" to me in the hallway like we're going out even though it should be pretty clear to him that we're NOT!! so how do i tell this guy to get lost and leave me alone? i don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again he was starring at me while i was changing so i kind of do. ne suggestions? what should i say? i rate high (link)
Tell him to LEAVE YOU ALONE. If you feel uncomforetable around then you mite need to be rude and mean about it. And another thing. This boy is sexually harassing you. This is a federal offense and he can get into A LOT of trouble for it. You should rite down date and time of everything he does that makes you uncomforetable and put it in a notebook that paper can't be added to. When you feel ready tell a trusted adult and show them the notebook. You'll feel much better and safer too!



I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do? (link)
YOU act the same and eventually he'll learn that its still okay to be himself around. Besides, guys change anyways when you start dating them. Just give'm some time.



well, some stuff just happened and my crush asked me out. so we're gonna try the whole dating thing.
before, we went out for a day but he broke up with me. he told that it was cause he wasnt sure what i wanted out of the relationship and was worried about how to handle things.
anywho, now he told me he wants something "more" and not like..an occasional see him at school and hug in halllways. so now i'm pondering. the next time i see him and spend time with him should i make the first move or wait for him to?
i'm afraid if i wait he might break up with me again, but if i don't and kiss him or something, he might take it as i'm too eager and such.
so, should i be the one to make the first move? (link)
Heck yea! Don't let him control the relationship. Take it to the level you want it at and if he is uncomforatable with it, he'll tell you. That's when you ask him to let you know when he's ready.



Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think? (link)
It depends on the person I suppose. If it's someone your age at your school that a friend has told you a lot about and he's cute then yea it's normal. But if it's a celeb I'd have to say it's a little weird. Finding a celeb attractive is cool and all but 'liking' them is strange.

Hope this helped!
sh0w3rg3lbaby


I went to the mvoies and the person i like was there his friend was with him and i think he told the person i like that i like him. The person I like started talking to my friends but not me he would avoid looking at me. He also used to like me, what does this mean? (link)
He could like you and just be really shy. He may be trying to get some info from your friends. Just take it as it is and don't let him know anything is bothering you with the situation. You'll soon find out if he likes you or if he's a loser.

Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby


Alright, so. Here I am agian,15 Adrianna Rose Brugnoni lost agian. Ok so heres the deal, I am like once agian inlove with this my best friend Kurt. We previously dated for seven months. But after a while he made me really annoyed and started acting so stupid. And in between him and our maybe next relationship I dated John. Who I really enjoyed dating but, he ended up being a little bit too clingy and after only two months he told me he was inlove with me. After we broke ( Its been 3 months) he still says hes inlove with me and everytime he sees me with someone else he gets very jelous and very hurt. So back to kurt, I really really want to date him agian, but the problem is not only will John be completely depressed, but my mom really doesnt like him. And to me Kurt is amazingly good looking, but too my mom she thinks he looks weird, and im afriad that so would my family too. So please help me out. What should I do???


Thank you sooo much. Adi (link)
Follow your heart. It's not your moms (or anyone else's) relationship, just yours. If you have strong feelings for this guy then go for it. Don't worry about what everyone else thinks, especially if it's love you're feeling. Listen to your heart. It'll tell you what to do.

Best Wishes,
Sh0w3rG3lBaby


the guy i like knows and i dont really like him its just a crush bc i dont kno him. my friend told him i like him (and the dude i like is best friends with my friend that told him). a couple days ago Max (thats his name the guy i like) checked me out and i thought it was a good sign. he was looking at me i found out, but today in math class he came in the door from the classroom next door and said "whos chloe?" and this gurl Beki pointed at me and he said "oh ok" and closed the door. i feel like im going to get rejected. what if max talks to me on tuesday and i turn bright red like i did last time? he'll think im a freak....help!

~Chloe* (link)
Just act normal. Play it kool like you don't even care if he likes you or not. Don't be shy or freeze up. Trust me, I know all about that. I'm a very shy person and every time a guy I like talks to me I turn BRIGHT red. Just be yourself and he'll love ya! -Sh0w3rG3lBaby




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker