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Name-Meghan

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You may know me, you may not. Quite frankly, It doesn't matter. If you want to talk, message me. I'm almost always on nowadays because of my boring life. I live in the Middle of Nowhere, United States where that kind of thing is expected. Don't get me wrong, I love my town. Its the kind of place where being nocturnal is a good thing. And you really shouldn't understand that. My best friends are Laura and Luke. You didn't need to know that either. You do need to know that I LOVE GIVING ADVICE! And If you need a question answered, ask and I'll do my best to answer it.

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Okay- I'm 13/f and I know a boy who is one of my best friends and I really like him we had a relationship before but it didn't work out - we were like....9 so of course it didn't but I'm starting to get the feeling that he likes me. Like he stares at me until I look at him then he looks away- or hes always defended me but now that his cousin has come down to visit (he's not to nice) when he gets mean he defends me as much as I defend him- and he is starting to stand next to me when i around- he blushes when I'm around- when I sleep(his sister Is my BFF) over at his house(we all sleep on the floor its like a normal thing at their house) he tries to sleep next to me(blush)-and when we talk he looks deep into my eyes and acts like I'm the only thing in the world that matters. Do you think he likes me and Is to shy to ask me out? Because I'm to scared ask him.

It sounds like he likes you.. blushing is definately a good sign, and so are deep looks. I would just ask him to a movie or something.

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Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.


Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists.

This might not be what you want to hear, but therapy might help. I know from experience that it can suck going to therapy. But it can probably help you a lot and its important to stop cutting yourself because it is not good for you physically OR mentally. So when you look at it there are more pros to therapy than cons. Give it a try, even it doesn't work, you could get different help from there. I think it is definately worth a try.

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ok soo me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he thinks im to jealuos
-i hate this girl he use to like
-i hate that he whatches porn
-talks to other girls thats are sooo stuck up and snoby and thinks there hot errr!!
-talks about girls but jokingly he says!!
-stares at girls and then when i ask him what are you looking at hes all like umm i just thought i knew her!!
this stufff tottally drives me crazy i hate it do you think im to jealous and what should i do about it and do guys not like it when girls act jealous!!

If he's going out with you he shouldn't be staring at other girls. Simple as that.

If he can't deal with you being that way then he might not be someone you want to be with. I don't know him, so I can't tell you what kind of guy I think he is but from what you've said I think I'd be worried constantly about him cheating or such, and quite frankly, if you have to wonder about his loyalty he isn't worth it.

You are not being too jealous at all. Its him who has the problem. If he's with you he shouldn't care about other girls.

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14 female. when ever i like a guy i tend to give or loan them money. most of the guys i liek are not trust worthy o i usuially never get my money back. everyone knwos that i ALWAY have cash on me i cant lie to them and say "sorry i dont have any money on me." I am afraid to ask them for the money back after i stop liking them, one because i am embarrasses and two:: because it has been so long that they have forgotten. during the last school year this one boy i was crushing on would ask me for a dollar every day for 3 or 4 months. i would say yes everyday and as a resuly gave him around 40 dollars and he never even liked me as more than a frined. i know the boys are jsut using me but i cant help my self. if anyone has any advice on how to stop or anthign to say to the boys who ask and try to use me i woudl greatly appreciate it!. thanks a million andone =)

haiely

I would just not give any money. Leave it in a safe place at your house and remind yourself not to give it away.

To the boys who use you: Just ignore them. They arent worth it.

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