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I believe in staying anonymous. I want people to be able to ask me ANYTHING without being ashamed or scared. I want to be able to answer the same way. I'm pretty good at thinking "out of the box" and I can find the positive side of most situations. I started this column because I truely LOVE helping people. I'd like to think I'm pretty good at it as well. But as a fair warning, I won't tell you what you want to hear, I'll tell you what needs to be said. In the nicest way possible of course. :) I really do care.
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I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I want to get him something great for xmas and I want to make him some stuff to. What can I do (take him somewhere or something), give him, and make him? Give me as many ideas that you can! *by the way he is a musician (guitar bass and keyboards) and he loves video games and stuff for PSP and DS if that helps* Thanks in advance! (link)
I'd go for burning a CD with a bunch of songs that are special to you or him individually, as well as songs that mean a lot to you as a couple. It's not very expensive, it's personal, and since he's a musician, it would probably mean even more to him than the average guy. If you really wanna go all out, put in an a basket with a bunch of little things that are signifigant to your relationship (tickets from your first movie, or something). And/Or...a scrapbook with pictures of the two of you is always great. Just make it personal, that's what means the most.


Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him. (link)
Well sweetie, I hate to sound mean, but you probably gave him the wrong idea. As soon as he whispered in your ear about going home with him you should have known what was up. Since he is a guy, fooling around was exactly what he was thinking. But then you agreed to go back with him to an empty house, went to his room, and sat on his bed. If I were him I would have been expecting it too...I can see why he was a bit frustrated. If you guys had a good foundation for a relationship, I'm sure it'll all blow over soon enough. I'm also sure that he's preeeetty into you. I would just give it some time.

I'm really not trying to be mean...thats just my honest opinion.
-SXL7




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