Hi. :) I'm Sara. My friends call me "Sharpie". So call me whichever you please. I'm a 17 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario. I attend CHS and I'm Grade 11. I'm a hockey playing cheerleader there. :) Soon to be a Delta Red Raider. (H) I may seem young but I've been told I give great advice. I'm a kickass writer and want to somehow use that in the future. (IF!)When I go to university I plan on minoring in history and Majoring in Drama, and becoming a Drama teacher in a High School setting. Haha, because I'm a drama nerd that is in love with english. I have morals and do believe that everyone deserves a fair chance. I love debates. Man oh man how I wish my school had a debate team. Haha. I do have a sense of humour, as well as a very serious, emotional side. I tend to open up like a book, so if you ask me what's wrong you'll most likely regret it. I'm currently single, as if it matters. hardy har har. My friends are my life, as if it mattered to you people.
Well, that's a bit of my life story.. want more message me. I love mail. I'll answer back, scouts honour.
Or.. add my msn! i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Bye Folks
E-mail: i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: My Mom :) haha. Hamilton Ontario Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
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Last Update: September 26, 2007
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ive neva made out before and this might be weird but what do i do with my toungue??? (link)
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Just go with the flow, let the guy take charge. Just not fully. If it feels right to you, then stick it in. If he isn't doing it then it probably isn't the right time.
Hope I helped.
Sara
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okay ive kissed alot of times and made out and i have these girls that always tryna givem e advice lmfao buh they told me to bite their lips buh i dont know when exactly to do and what spot you know what i mean ? and if i should kiss the neck. (link)
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oky. usually when a guy bites my lip(best thing by the way), he just springs it in when he feels right. usually.. we'll be making out for a good few seconds and then he does it. and its usually the lower lip region on either side. if any other girl is like me, they'd enjoy it. haha. ;) good luck.
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Well...my friend has this really cute boyfriend and whenever I see him and her together I get a little jealous.He talks to me but he just talks to me a little.What do I do?? (link)
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Just because you get jealous means nothing. You could be jealous that she has someone. Don't just to conclusions until you know that the feelings are actually there.
Sara
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Well, I really like this guy and i have been likeing him for a lonnnnng time now! And i went up to him and i told him that i liked him and he really didnt responde just kinda said thanks. But i mean it just seem like fate has been bringing us together even my friends notice it!!!
i mean he said i was cute but thats it. I have tried to move on by liking other guys but thoese guys arent really intreasted in me but when ever a guy likes me there usally not my type! when will mr.perfect come along. and i havent even had my first kiss and all my friends have already done that actually i think ever one in my school has had there first kiss.
and its not like im an ugly duckling i guess im pretty since my friends and ppl i dont even know say im and the guy i like thinks i am he's just not intreasted!
WHAT DO I DO TO GET THIS GUY!! BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE I TRIED EVERYTHING!! HOW DO I GET MY FIRST KISS???? WHY DO I ALWAYS GET THE GUYS IM NOT INTRESTED IN BUT THE GUYS I LIKE ARENT INTREASTED IN ME??? (link)
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This is off subject, but it would've helped to include your age. But either way, it doesn't matter. You are pretty. I do not know you, but everyone is pretty. No one knows when "Mr. Perfect" will come along. God, (or whatever your faith is), has a plan for everyone. It may happen in 20 years or it could happened sooner. Just hold you head high and enjoy life while you can. Don't worry about boys to much, sure.. we love 'em but we shouldn't make them the be all and the end all.
Now, to get the guy.. I know everyone says this but it's the truth. Just be yourself. You wouldn't want to put on an act, have him fall for it and then you be miserable because it's like you're stuck in someones body. It's even worse when they like something that you hate so you're stuck in someones body that you don't like. So-to-speak.
For the first kiss thing, I think you should just hold off. Now you may not care about my opinion and I respect that. But when the right guy comes along and gives you your first kiss, you'll be happy it took so long. Because you never forget your first kiss. So make it count and make sure it's with a boy you really like. Don't do it because "it's in style" don't throw away something so precious over something dumb.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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how do you know when your in love with a guy? like i dont know him all too well meaning as to i dont talk to him alot of times, but i really like him i think! but idk if its love..
13/f (link)
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Like the other girls said, it isn't love. You will know what love is when you're older and experience it with "the one". For everyone, it's a different feeling. So only you can know if you're in love or not. Right now, I'm highly doubting love. Maybe lust or just a strong like. Nothing more.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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Oh my godd. My boyfriends mom saw his hickie that I gave him!! When he gave me my 1st one my mom found out and wasnt so mad, but his mom was upset when she saw it!! I have no idea wat to do. Now wat if his mom hates me. I already thought she did even though i was very polite and try and act normal around her and she caught us making out today too!! Oh my godd!! What should I do im gonna be so humiliated next time I see her!!! What woudl you do if you were in my place? (link)
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I have been in your place.. one of my ex's well his mom saw it and told all her friends!! How embarassing. They called me "Hoover" for a good while.
Just tell her he gave you one first and it was to show your sign of affection or something like that. Or be like.. Mrs.[last name],(or whatever you call her), you were a teen once.. were you not?
haha.
Good Luck and I Hope I Helped!
Sara
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13/f
My dad died in october and stuf... and this guy i really liked and once went out with, his name is zach, went to his funeral. at the time i was dating his brother trace , haha. and trace told me that zach only went to my dad's funeral to get out of school for the day.
this made me angry and hurt me really badly. i didnt show it at the time and idk why but i still like him. any ways now several months later hes saying stuf like he thinks he likes me and hes shown some jelouse moments and yeah. one day i asked him if he went to my dads funeral just to get out of school and he said kinda
so hes on and off liked me and i dont know what to do!!! if he ever asks me out again should i saay yes or no???
would it be disrespectful to my dad ???
idk wat to do!!!!! (link)
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Just follow you're heart and I'm sure you dad will be happy with whatever his little girl does. But like the other person said(yes im a lurk tehe) it all depends on a persons respectability beliefs.
Just follow your heart but if you're having doubts then you probably shouldn't, but if in the end you decide to say yes.. make sure your heart and head agree.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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which are good movies, like teenage love comedy =) like a piece of my heart, mean girls, or somethign like that ?
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Just My Luck?
A Cinderella Story?
I know this one isnt a comedy but it's amazingly cute and its based around love..
Tristan and Isolde.
Hope I Helped!:]
lemme know if you need any more!:)
Sara
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last night i was raped by my ex boyfriend, we were at a party and i was upstairs talking to my friend, then she left, he came up and pinned me down on the bed, split my legs open, and dug deep inside my pussy and raped me. the thing is, when we were together and fucked, i never really enjoyed it or had an orgasm. but last night, even though i didn't want to fuck him, it felt soo good, i had four orgasms in a row, literally, i'm notkidding, this is a true story, i haven't told anyone, cuz even though it was wrong for him to do it, i liked it. what should i do?
p.s. he's really hot (link)
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whether he's your ex or not or even the fact that you enjoyed it.. you have to tell someone. if you live in canada then call kids help phone. you can talk to them about anything and they'll offer help without needing your name. i know you dont wanna but you have to.
hope i helped
and merry christmas :)
Sara
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
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for me i love it when a guy makes me laugh. and eye contact is good but sometimes a little creepy. ha ha:) but i feel when a guy is constantly around me and only wants to be around me even though there are prettie girls around.. i have a feeling he's into me. or you could just come flat out and tell her? he he. just yes dont come onto strong. it's freaky.
hope i helped and tell me how it goes.
happy holidays.
Sara
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Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:
Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.
So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.
I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley? (link)
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follow your heart. but do not and i mean DO NOT!! dump one girl for another. i didnt read your other question but do you even know if ashley likes you? i dont mean to sound rude.
i hope i helped at least a bit :)
happy holidays and tell me how it goes
Sara
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female/13
I like this guy named Raul and i have flirted with him and even told him i like him. when we get back to school i want to impress him. He has already seen my thong on accident and he told him friend that he liked what he saw but i dont know. What can i wear or say to impress him. Thanks.
*Christie* (link)
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Dear Christie..
What I would do is just be yourself.. I know its what everyone says but it's the truth. Would you like someone if they were just putting on a show for you and then you guys starting dating and you found out he was the exact opposite of what you thought?
Don't dress differently or act differently for a guy. If he likes what he sees already then maybe he's already into you. I say just give it time and things will happen if they're supposed to.
Good Luck, Happy Holidays and Tell me how it goes :)
Sara
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Okay, so today we had this big talent show and Im sort of interested in this girl named Rachel and has been liking her since the beggining of the year and all and we were great friends. Now she met this guy named Philip and well just left me basically and doesn't want to talk to me and all that so I got her several presents for our secret santa and she rejected all of them because I gave them to her in front of her friends so she was mad about that. And to tell you the truth I was pretty angry at her because I thought she was still my friend and won't be embarassed if I give her a present. So then this other cute girl named Emily didn't have a secrete santa so I gave her the mini green teddy bear I got for Rachel, a card, and her favorite earings and she took them and hugged me and said thanks. So as for the talent show Emily was the clossing act and sang with her best bud, and let me tell you their was no cd playing only her and a gituar and her friend singing like Kelly Clarkson or Aly and AJ combined all in one. I mean never once have I heard that kind of voice! It was amazing so I just had to go on and on to my best buds about this and they still thought I liked Rachel so they started rumors about me and Emily that I liked her since Rachel didn't have the same feelings that I had for her and I just don't want emily to know well.. at least not now. So I don't want her to think I have a crush on her but how to stop this mean rumors befores she hears them. and gossip and rumours travel fast! PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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sorry to break it to yah.. but thats teenage years.
there a bitch, might as well get used to it now.
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okay i've been dating this guy for about 1 week and he hardly talks to me. he hangs with his friends 24/7 and i mean he looks at me alot. i mean we have no communication. but when i guy teases me he'll be there being like back off and i think thats sweet. But he's too shy i try talking to him but i can't get past his friends what should i do?
Please and Thank you
-Ashliiee (link)
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dear ashliiee
My suggestion would be when you do actually talk, tell him how you feel and how you wanna talk to him at school. Just be like
"It's cool that you have your friends, but I'm also your girlfriend I need attention to."
I know it sounds rude but whatever works.
hope I helped. tell me how it goes!
Sara
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I just found out that my hubsand is cheating on me and he told me that it is over between him and the other woman I don't know if i should beleive him or just file for a divorce
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I think that maybe you should sit him down and talk to him.. and if you like invite the other woman. If things get out of control maybe go see a relationship councellor or someone with a lot of help under their belt.
But also.. it's all about trust. If you trust your husband then he may be telling the truth and if he picked you over her then he does love you even though he was sleeping around.
Like I said just sit him down and lay all the cards on the table. You deserve better then this.
I hope I helped. If you need more info just send me an email.
Sara.
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for my boyfriends birthday which was only a week ago i got him rent tickets which he loved. now i have to worry about christmas! i need some good ideas not just ordinary stuff something really cute (link)
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My suggestion would be to pick one of your many favourite memories that you have with him and base it around that, or pick an inside joke that you two share. That's always cute and only he will know what it means so it'll mean more to him.:)
hope i helped.
good luck.
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Okay..I Like dis Guy But he dated my friend and my sisters bestfriend and he broke up with her lastnight at the club or whatever so we danced and you know how you get that stupid feeling and that stupid look in your eyes and you all just kiss? well that happened to me but we didnt kiss i told him he dated my friend. and i mean i relly like dis guy but friends are better than any guy but i dunno i mean i like him what do i do? (link)
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What I suggest you do is talk to your friend before you go any further with this guy. Like you said friends are better then guys, this is true ... to an extent. So after you talk to her and explain how you feel and what happened at the club. If she's okay with it then go for it, but if not I advise that you don't. This is just me but I know that I'd never want to lose a girl friend over a silly boy. Boys will come and go but yours girls are there Forever.
hope this helps.
Sara1YO
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