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Q: i've been having dreams about this boy. he's not a stranger to me, but he's not a good friend either. the last time i saw him was sunday, july 30th at a party. i would say that i'm attractive to him, but not in a crush kind of way. that night, i had a dream about him. it was about me and him kissing in my room. i thought that i dreamt that because i love seeing him and that, like i said, am attractive to him. then, two days after that, august 1st, i had another dream about him. this was about us seeing each other in a store, i hugged him, he asked me out, then i gave him a peck in the cheek. it was more detailed, but i don't really wanna make it too detailed. i told my good friend about this, and she thought that it was weird that i was having dreams about him and that maybe i'm starting to like him. well, since sunday, i've been paying attention to most things that makes me think of him. i think the hug from sunday gave me this feeling. before i left the party, we hugged. it felt really good, and i wanted to keep holding on to him. since then, all this has been happening. i still don't think i have a crush on him, but it seems like i do. i think maybe it's just beginning? he's really cute, with dimples to die for! he's funny, and he's pretty smart. everything i would want. i don't know if i'm starting to like him, but if i am, i don't wanna get too attached, because i don't think i'm his "type", although i'm not so sure. but it just doesn't seem like something he would do - ask me out.

i was wondering what you think about it? what should i do and stuff?

Talk to him. Get to know him better. See if you REALLY DO like him! :) Then if you do, say something! See if he feels the same way. Obviously if you get to know him better you'll know whether you're his type or not, so go for it!

Hope this helps! ♥

Q: well i am 13/f and i like 2 boys. ones joey and i've known him for a little while but not really my friend but something about hims really sexy if you know what i mean. and the other guys casey and me and him have been like best friends since 7th grade, we've been REALLY good friends but we've been like "involved" just never went out. they both like me but who should i get more interested in (easy 5's) please help

I think if Casey is a really good friend that you can depend on and really appreciate his friendship than maybe you should tell him "I really love our friendship & don't want to ruin anything.." And go for Joey just because if something went wrong with you & casey you'd lose a friend that you really cared for. On the other hand you might want to choose Casey because you know him better and you don't know as much about Joey, either way, goodluck! :)

Hope it helps! ♥

Q: a guy i like asked me out. he's so shy that he actually got my friend to do it. i think that's cute though. but i'm a little old fashioned and think he should make a move on me. i said yes, but today in school we went about normally like we're just friends.

i don't want to come off too strong, but i want to get him to acknowledge that we're going out. at least say it, or hold my hand or something. i think he might be a little embarassed if i went up to him and took his hand, because he's so shy.

advice please?

Well girls are ALWAYS more mature than guys, and even if you are sort of old fashioned, if you want him to acknowledge you two going out at all then you might have to make a first move, I'm sure once you do he'll get the hint and start doing it on his own, he probably just has to get comfortable with you being his girlfriend :)

Hope it helps! ♥

Q: so i had a boyfriend, but i heard that he kissed another girl and told her that he loved her so i didn't even think about asking him anout it and i broke up with him. i talked to him the other day on the phone and he said that it wasn't true. but now he's going out with one of my friends. me and him were friends but then she told him bad things about me. what do i do? how can me and him be friends again?

Well, maybe you should've asked him about it before you broke up with him.. during highschool rumors & gossip are all that goes on. He probably thinks you have no trust for him, and that hurts, for anyone, even guys. But the fact that they are currently going out, makes it seem like he might of kissed her & told her he loved her, but I'm not sure, maybe you should just, not so much APOLOGIZE, but just explain to him that you're sorry for jumping to conclusions and that you hope you two could be friends again! :)

Hope it helps! ♥

Q: ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary

Oh man, when I first made out with my boyfriend I was TERRIFIED. It sounds stupid but I was because, it's a new person and as long as you really like him & he really likes you it will go along smoothly :)

hope it helps! ♥

& i hope you have fun ;)

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