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Member Since: November 18, 2005
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Last Update: November 25, 2005
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hey katie. hi my names katie and im in quite a drag. ok theres a guy n i like him deeply and he claims to have the same feelings but my two best friends like him too. and they tell me to go for it but everytime im with him they have a depressed look on their face like they want to die rather than be where they are. i just want everyone to be happy but i cant do that without hurting myself. and him. he doesnt feel what he feels for me for them and they say they understand but anytime im with them and i talk bout him they tell me to stop talking and i know why. i kno the ryt thing would to not get with him but sometimes you cant do the right thing. so katie...im begging you, help me! much love (link)
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this is a tuff one..
although friends should normally come before boyfriends/girlfriends, you have asked their permission to go out with him, and they said that it was alright. you can't help what you're feeling, and if you feel this way about him, i think that you should get with him. if your friends really cared about him that much, you wouldnt tell you that it was okay for you to go out with him in the first place, and whether they meant it or not, its what they said. all you can really do is ask if its okay, and if they don't say what they mean then that's their problem and you've done all that you can do. that sounds a little harsh, but it's the truth. i know that you're trying to be a good friend and keep your friends feelings in mind, but you've done all that you can really do, so i say go for it! if it starts to interfere with you and your friend's friendship, then let me know. good luck!
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k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!
P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!! (link)
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i think that you should make sure that "D" likes you back and stuff before you start a big thing with your parents... and if he does, then just remeber that your parents are the ones that are wrong, the color of your skin doesn't determine at all the kind of person that you are, and make sure you point out a lot of his good qualities to them, if they still disagree with you, then you have to deside whether being with "D" is worth being disowned by your family. good luck!
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