Since school started ive become friends with a guy, and i think i like him more than that. The other day after realizing my feelings for him were real..i finally admitted it...before id joke aroudn with my friends about how he was cute and things..and one of my friends willa agreed..i asked her if she liked him, but she said, not if you do. i thought that was really nice of her. Yestedday she wrote me a letter sayign she really likes him too. i felt like my stomach dried up. I find it odd how after i say i like him, she does too... she went to one of our mutual friends about it and this girl said id acted like a bitch about the whole thing. Should i continue to like him? afterall..i am the one that did all along...and me and this girl arent like..BEST friends.., everyone says theyd see me and him together more than her and him, and we have more inc ommon...what should i do? how do i show him i like him without beign too pushy before she ..throws herself at him? im not that kind of girl..i barely flirt..what do i do?
well you did like this boy before her so i don't think you should back down just because she says u should. I think you have the right to like this boys. i mean feelings can't be stopped. they just happen. so go ahead and ask him before she does. who knows he might like you back! u'll never find out unless you let him know ur feelings.
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i just got out of a bad relationship with my ex. my new boyfriend is everything that my ex was and was not. and i love him to death. my ex didnt love me the way he said he did. he lied to me constantally. he left it up to me to keep in contact (he was 1000 miles away). just crap like that. the distance and other girls is basically what separated me and my ex. however, my current boyfriend, nick, is so amazing. i know that he would never do anything to hurt me. he is there for me. was there for me when i was breaking up with my ex. (really didnt want to break up with him cause he was my first love). nick is just amazing. however, i am beginning to see qualities in nick that drove me and my ex apart. and im beginning to wonder about me and nicks relationship. its not as strong as i would like it to be. i dont get to see nick as much as i would like to either. yea, he does live in the same city as me, but he doesnt go to my school. and thats beginning to play a part in my doubt. i really want to be able to trust him fully and completely. but, i cant get over this doubt. cant help but wonder if my ex is at fault for causing me to not be able to trust people. he hurt me so bad. anywho... how am i supposed to get over this doubt in my new relationship with nick?
well you need to ask yourself if Nick is anything like your ex was. i mean you did say that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you and he luvs u very much...so you should trust him. and if it's hurting you tat badly, you should talk to him. if he luvs u, he should be able to understand. and as far as the diff school problem goes, it doesn't matter if your in different schools..i mean me and mi bf are in different countries..but that doesn't affect our love 1 bit. as long as you two keep seeing each other, it shouldn't be a problem.
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15/f. soo my bf is 16 turnin 17 in feb. he doesnt have his license yet bc his mom made him wait to get his permit first and then wait again for his license. soo he was supposed to get it this summer but now he cant get it till decemberish. well, ive always gone out w/ guys 16-18 who could drive and come pick me up to go out and stuff. now that im with him and he cant drive, its like my mom CANT STAND IT. anytime i ask to go to his house or out with him somewhere, she gripes about how i should 'have a bf that can come get me' and 'she doesnt wanna run all over the country for me' [its like a 10-15 min drive.] soo im like well im sry it wasnt his fault he couldnt get his license i mean what are we supposed to do about that? so im turnin 16 on wednesday and gettin my license thursday so i was like 'just dont fuss so much and when i get my license ill drive my own self to go see him'. and i doubt im gettin a car so i was like i could just borrow your car if youre not usin it and go and she was like 'no im not just gonna let you use my car all the time!' soo what does she expect us to do then?? its not his fault he cant drive and when i drive she isnt gonna let me drive to see him so what does she want us to do, WALK to see each other? we go to diff schools and we only get to see each other once a week twice if we're lucky so its not like were always on the run. ive tried explainin that to her and its never any help! also she has no prob drivin to see her bf a couple times a week after work but then she yells and gripes if i wanna go out on a school nite for a lil bit but talkin to her is like it goes right in 1 ear and out the other.
well i dunno if this will work but it works for me all the time. you need to act like you reaaaally miss him and act sad in front of your mom. maybe she will then feel sorry and take you. but if not, you can always take the bus..or you can ask 1 of ur friends to take u...lolz this might not b the best advice givin buh i tried. He He :)
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Okay, so at the camp I go to, there is this counselor who is the hottest, nicest, funiest guy ever with the cutest voice and everything. I started noticing him in like a crushing way the first year I went and by this year, it was like a full out obsession. He knows I like him in that way but we can't really do anything because 1.he's 18 (I'm not even 15) and 2. it is so crossing the counselor/camper line and 3. I won't even see him until next year. So it's just like a fun little obsession...while I'm there. But now I'm home and I still think about him ALOT. I still dream about him every night and I've been home for a week. How do I stop this madness?
By the way, please don't say get a boyfriend because I never officialy broke it off with my long distance one from camp (who was closer to my age).
well then if you already have a boyfriend then focus on him more then your counciler. focus on something you have insted of something you don't have and probably won't get.
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I'm just not gettin guys right now. I used to, but now it's too confusing! When I'm lookin for a guy, just to see if there's anyone that's interesting, I get nothing. But when I'm not looking for anything, guys are always looking for me, if that makes any sense.
My friends have told me that I'm pretty and outgoing, so why can't I get a good guy for once?
My last boyfriend thought I was too fat. I'm 115 pounds! see for yourself:
http://www.mycrib.net/?pageid=mycrib.member.profile&ID=73187
So is it me, or am I just freaking out?
guys ae not something you can buy. it takes time to find the perfect one. you just have to keep trying. when you have found one that likes you for who you are and not what you look like...u have found the right guy.
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hi i have a boyfriend and i really really love him. but the thing is i'm beginning to suspect that he's cheating on me. what should i do?
well then you should go up to him and tell him that you realli love him and that you don't want to lose him. try to get his soft side. i'm sure that if he loves you back then he will dump the other girl and stay with you.
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okay so theres this guy. were bothlo 13 by the way. But anyways im not sure if he likes me. like he talkes to me on myspace alot and says things like "yes u can trust me. you always can" and we were going to see a scary movie and i told him i was going to hide behind his sholder and if it was okay and hes like " yeah its okay" and said he can always trust me. thats my first question, do you think he likes me? and the second question is, since hes going to a dfferent school next year but the year after that the same highschool, should i even risk it? were good friends but i dont know what to do =( thanks in advance!
well i think that if you really like him then take a chance to see if he likes you. confront him.it doesn't matter if you are in da same school or not. there are plenty of ways of communication. and ur gonna see him in high school anywaiiz...if you think that he is a trustworthy and honest guy then go for it!
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My best guy friend from camp is supposed to come back today.I'm 13/f btw. He stayed for 2 extra weeks than me. Actually, we were sorta kinda more than friends because he liked me and I really liked him back. Everyone thought we were going out because we cuddled so much and we spent a lot of time together. He would always kiss me on the cheek and say "I love you". The thing is, he pormised me that he would call me as soon as got home...but I haven't gotten a call yet. I don't think I should call him because I would feel too clingy. I've already sent him like 3 letters. My friends all tell me it isn't worth it because...
- they think its just a summer romance
-he lives 2 towns away (but my mom works in his town)
But i love him... and miss him like crazy!
well i think that you should call him. i'm sure if he loves you then he will be glad for the call. maybe he isn't calling you for the same reason you aren't calling him so break the silence between you two and call him. it's the best way to resolve it.
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14/f
My really good friend "kayley" has an older brother named "kyle". He's 17. yeah. Sure, 3 years won't be that much difference in the future... & i know that it probably wont happen for us now. What i'm really interested in hearing is, whether he's "into" me or not. He acts like it (from what i can tell) but the thing is, i'm so dense, that my friends laugh at me for it! We have a lot of fun together, just recently we had a light saber fight from star wars. haha. we gave each other massive welts from hitting so hard with the fake plastic light sabers. & sometimes we flirt.(
well let's just see it this way...all signs point to him liking you but that doesn't neccisarrily mean that he does like you. maybe that's just his way of being friendly. but if you want..you can go out of your way to ask him.
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I really need some advise. Anything would be good. Please help me. I'm 16 years and I dated this guy about a year ago. Me and him were together for a long time. He was my most longest and serious relationship ever. Things got really rough in my family and just over all and I just didnt want a boyfriend at the time so i broke things off with him. It's been a year now and he is with another girl and I have never been more in love with him. I hate myself for breaking up with him and I wish I never did that. I told him how i felt but all he could say was that i hurt him way too much and that he is happy with his current girlfriend. I cry all the time, i miss him so much. I would do anything to be with him again. He is so mean to me. I think he hates me, even though he says he doesn't. It's been a year now that i have been going through this pain and i just cant take it anymore. How do i get over him. I've waited a year now for him. He just doesn't want me back. It hurts so much and I dont know what to do. Someone please help me!
well what you should do is get a new boyfriend...move on. forget about him and begin to check out new guyz. there has got to be some other guy you like. just remember relationships can't go on forever and think of it this way, if your old b-f really is good for you then he would understand your problem. but since he doesn't he's not good enough for you. and he never will be so you need to get over him and focus on the life ahead of you. and focus on a new boyfriend. and once you get one, don't get too obsessive over him...you never know when a boy might break your heart.
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i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/
well i think you should take the time to think which one of the two is most loyal and trustworthy to you. and if you want to dump your boyfriend...the easiest way would be to tell him you just want to be friends and that you are not ready for dating. if he's true and loves you like he says, he will understand.
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