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Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross

well if everyone in your school has a boyfriend..then there isnt a boy in ur school who doesnt have a girlfriend. so maybe try another school =)

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it seems every guy i like is chubby or overweight, i hate skinny guys and fit guys ya know? is there something wrong w// me

no i guess not! --rachael

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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do?

just try to stay friends with her--rachael

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Ok, I am a 19 year old female and i like this guy a lot. I've known him for almost a year now. I told his roommate that I kinda like him but his roommate said that i am not his type because i don't party as much as him, supposedly, and he does not want me to change because of him. He obviously doesn't know me that well, but i dont know if that is just an excuse or what. There was no other reason why 'Im not his type'. Now he won't talk to me when i try to initiate conversation. What should I do to try to get him to talk to me?

his loss! sorry bout that..your gonna have to move on..truth hurts sorry --rachael

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Hey well theres this one girl who is my bestest friend and shes really nice and pretty but when ever like we go tho the movies together she is always like huggin on her boyfriend and she is alway cancling thing with me to go do something with her boyfrind i hate it we like talk on the phone and stuff but i never get to do anything together cuz she is always doin thing with her boyfriend
signed Confused

that sucks! but think about it..if you had a good boyfriend wouldnt you want to be with him ALL the time. she probly feels that way. she'll eventually come back to you ..friendships last longer than relationships so dont worry too much about it.its all gonna work out--rachael

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when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz..

no!! not at all. dont worry about it--rachael

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ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like???

nothing wrong with liking two people! --rides here g2g!

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Hey, i was wondering if you guys coulg give me your own opion on this...

what do u think about big age differences between people? like what is the highest age difference you can go out with. Hope i make sence here. you kno like auston ketcher and that peoson hes dating how shes way older then him.

thanks

i rate

learn how to spell dude

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the drugs in question are legal, OTC drugs, but my boyfriend is completely over-reacting on the matter. they are harmless but he has some kind of paranoia about them. what should i tell him to ease his fears so i can expand my mind?

even OTC drugs are harmful..so dont say they arnt i bet hes right! listen to him..give him a chance to tell you --rachael

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Hey,
theres this guy that always flirts with me, always talks not stop, and he even called me sweet. He taps my foot all the time and we end up getting into a flirty footwar, lol. I think hes gonna ask me out, but i really like him as a friend. What are some ways to turn a guy down nicely so that he doesnt hate u forever?
Signed,
girl under an attack of unwanted predator

"Id really rather be friends"--rachael

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Whats a casual ay to ask a guy to the movies without making it obvious that i am head over heals for him?

~*~*~signed...clueless.

"maybe you and some friends wanna hang out or go to the movies or something!"--rachael

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How do you get a guy to like you when you are the new girl in school.

give it time..make eyecontact everyonce in a while =) --rachael

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I can't fully tell if I like this one boy. We're great friends and whenever I sort of start to like him, something inside me says no. I'm 13/F if it helps any. My heart jumps when I'm around him but then I feel like we're just friends. What should I do?

just wait it out.stay friends as of now but if anything else happens..well just write back! hope i helped! --rachael

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Okay - lol - I know this is probably a stupid opinion/question/thing, but I wanna know what you guys think. I think it's funny. It's one of those "kids say the darndest things" moments.
Okay.
My guy and I are pretty much engaged, but none of our acquaintances know. His little brother (sam) asked "are you two gonna get married?" and my bf answered in sort of a sarcastic tone "yes. Yes we are, Sam." and we just kind of laughed it off 'cause it's the second time Sam's asked us - and his mom was there, and we're keeping it quiet - and Sam said "I thought Shanna (one of my guy's friends) was your girlfriend." Everyone, including me, laughed. Shanna's one of his closest friends. Doesn't bother me in the least (my closest friends are guys), but I'm curious as to where Sam got that idea...Lol. Thing is, I almost think I should be more concerned than I am (like...I'm not.) about the fact that Sam thought Shanna was my boy's gf. We've been together for over a year. But Sam is only 7. I shouldn't be worried, should I?

nah.. probly not. maybe ask your boyfriend if anything is going on first! but i doubt anything is happening. --rachael

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at my school there a girl who everyone likes and a boy who everyone likes..how do i make myself like that girl so the guys like me?

dont try to be the girl you arn't! be the girl YOU are!! be the best that you can be and dont try to live up to this other girls 'greatness'.. dont sweat it --rachael

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wow, a rough month. This month i went to many different partys. All of 'em either had a camp fire or movie on a couch. The problem is....everyone their had sum1 to hold onto and kiss and snuggle with except for me. WEll, right now, i like this one guy...but i don't kno how to show him i care about him. Everyone at school knows me as the girl who always says no, every guy that asks me out i said no bc/ i didn't like 'em at the time. Now, i rele like this guy but i don't kno how to make him want me. So, all boys who are 13-14, wut turns u on in a girl?

well im not sure what that has to do with the parties...BUT i dont see whats so bad about that!! the guys like you...just next time think about it before you say no! heck if all the other guys liked you, hes bound to! i hope i helped -- rachael

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Im a 13 year old girl. I really like this guy but the only problem is that hes kinda popular and im scared that it would be embarassing if i asked him out and he turned me down. Can you tell me what i should do? Should i flirt with him...or not?

flirt with him! it never hurts!! he may start to like you..just give it a try! -rachael-

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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

steal it from him ;-)

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I like this boy a lot and I want to go out with him, but the thing is I cant talk to him If I did I coludn't say the words will you go out with me. So What should I do??

well if uve never talked to him the first words you DO say to him cant be will you go out with me? try to talk to him..anyway you can..through online, the fone, through friends! write back if you need more help..-rachael-

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Ok... so there is this guy, he is a senior. I am a freshman. He came over to my house this afternoon and at first we sat across the room from eachother and then he threw a pillow at me and the we got in a pillow fight and then my dad came downstairs and told me to behave so "adam" says yea sit down and behave and pointed to the seat next to him, so I say down, then he put his arm around me and we just flirted around for and hour. Do you think he likes me?
Thnkz

yeah! seems like he does like you! hes just joking around when he says that..good luck!!-rachael-

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