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My name is Samantha
I'm married and also have a son.
Gender: Female
Location: Ma
Age: 28
Member Since: November 20, 2006
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hey,thanks for opening this,i hope you girls can answer my question.

WHat is the most creative/romantic/unforgettable way to tell a girl you love her?
I mean i can go with the traditional telling her "i love you",but i want something different.

here are some of my suggestions
1)ask her is she believes in love at first sight,if she says yes then i will say i didin't believe it at first until i met you.
2)the sky is full of stars,the sea is full water,but my heart is full of you.
3)third question:do you girls think that sending a letter,speaking face to face,sending a message,sending an email,or just telling her through her friends will give the best impression? I mean,I think that messaging her is kind of sissy,and that sending her an eamil is also a pussy way of telling her,so would girls flip for a guy that sends her a letter or just tells her face to face about his feelings?or would you rather a guy tell you through the phone?

thanks a lot for reading,please answer my questions if the first two choices are good and what way you girls would prefer from the third question,and if you guys have any other creative suggestions please fell free to send it,i will rate good ones. (link)
Hi,

Please NO PICK UP LINES.
My suggestion would be not to plan what your going to say you don't want to sound rehersed. The next time you are together and alone and she does something that makes you say to yourself god Im lucky to be with her I love this girl, Look into her eyes tell her how she makes you feel when your together and apart. and tell her u love her. I think when it comes from the heart is 10 times more important than where you were and when you said it. Good LUCk


okay,i know i could go for the normal taking her for a movie and dinner,but i want something different

i thought of taking her hiking,kayaking and ice cream so far.so what other dates are good and different?cause i really wanna impress this gal (link)
The 1st date me and my husband had, he took me to Blue Man Group, I had never been and it was totally different from like you said the same old 1st date dinner and a movie. Look into shows like that or dinner theaters/comedy show stuff. But make sure you do something that you can also talk too like dinner 1st or drinks


Hey there,
I hate the fact that the only place I have for comfort is the net, lol! I am afraid to tell anyone else! I am a 21 year old gay guy and my bf is 18, we have been dating for 8 monthes now and have had a mass of high and lows.

He has the worst temper and shouts at me for the silliest things, and threatens me with breaking up, killing himself,not loving me, hating me when we argue.

Last nite we got into an argument, things got heated, and he pushed me, so I decided to walk away to let him calm down, then he came runing up behind me and stuck his fingers into my arms, it was the most hurtful thing! I tried tyo walk away and he wouldnt let me, so I end up beatinghim upo basically, in self defence, I wasnt gonna be shouted at and physically hurt for no reason! Again I tried to walk away and he grabbedme, wouldnt let me go, my arm wasin agony, and he was screaming at me in the middle of town, so I turned round punched him a few times, and kicked him when he was on the ground. He was scaring me, I am not a violent person, but he was hurting me and wouldnt let me go.

Then he screamed "I AM GONNA KILL MYSELF!!!!"

After I cooled down, regardless of what he did to me, I went back to him, he spat in myface and started beating me up, to which I didnt do anything back, then started screaming he was sorry for hurting me before!

What am I meant to do? Was I wrong in defending myself? How canlove be like this? Idont wanna leave him, but how can things get sorted? (link)
Leave him... Don't feel guilt for defending yourself. There is no excuse that he can give that justifies him putting his hands on you. It is easy for me to say leave him and it will be hard but you also have to think is it going to get worse. If you love him and want to make this work insist that he get counseling, and offer to go with him as support. If you are too nervous to suggest that than it is time to leave. No one should walk on egg shells in fear especialy for someone that is suppose to love you and protect you.


What is the best possible way to get over someone? I got dumped MONTHS ago by my first boyfriend and I'm still not over it. He's somehow always on my mind and being pathetic, I still cry over him. My friends and family are even sick of hearing about it. Does anyone have good ways that you got over someone that hurt you badly? I just want him out of my mind & heart! (link)
Im 28 and married and I still remeber my 1st break up. The best thing to do is Keep busy..... Make plans as much as possible. Whenever you feel like calling him or think about him call a friend or work out nothing makes you feel better than feeling like you look better.
And most of all stay away from the radio. And get back out there I hate to say this but if anyone asks you out go even if your not interested, it will be a good ego boost for ya.




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