well if i were to describe myself i would say that i'm a fun loving kind of person that lives life for what it's worth.i love,laugh,live,cry,eat,and sleep.i try not to take anything for granted because life is so short and dear to us that every monent is speical.i refuse to judge those i don't know based on what others say and i believe that people can change for the better.i don't think anyone was ment to live alone without someone they love in their life.i believe that God looks after everyone if they like it or not,and got to hand it to the big man upstairs he does a good job.life wasn't ment to be perfect so i don't try to be perfect.i am what i am, i say what i feel, and do what my heart lets me to.this is me and i wouldn't change myself to fit anyones mold.i am Sara Renee(or Rae Rae as my friends call me)Elizabeth ________ S.two people in one, a secret writer,a secret lover,a baller,a sister,a daughter,a friend, and a person with a secret past i don't even know.wisdom is power and power is mercy and mercy is not weakness but strength.
E-mail: raeschwartz1307@adelphia.net
Gender: Female
Location: Lockport,NY
Member Since: August 27, 2008
Answers: 16
Last Update: September 11, 2008
Visitors: 2170
Main Categories:
Friendship
Love Life
Sports
View All
Favorite Columnists
Porkin00
RahRahGirlie19
|
| |
Hi everybody,
my ex-boyfriend (who I'll conveniently call S. now) and I dated for about two weeks about a year and a half ago.
I've had several other boyfriends after him, but he didn't have one. We still remained good friends, and a lot of our friends (we have the same friends) thought we were a couple, but we never were.
Now, the last few days, S. has been cuddling me more than usual, asking me if I was warm enough, said it was such a shame we weren't in the same class,..
And I think I'm starting to love him again. But I'm not sure, because my heart has recently been broken, and maybe I'm just so desperate for love that I'm seeing this as signs, when they aren't.
And even if they were, what should I do to let him know I'm falling in love with him again?
Thanks a lot if you can help me!
(I'm 14 and a girl, but I'm mature for my age, and he's nearly fifteen & we both live in Belgium.) (link)
|
you said than after you 2 broke up he never got another gf and this is a good sign it suggest that he still hasn't gotten over you and this was almost two years ago.
to love is to risk not being loved in return and when your heart has been broken it's even harder to let anyone in.but is S's feelings are true and so are your's than i say do it!take a chance bc life's too short and if you really think this is love than why not?ya see falling in love is the gratest gift there is and it seems like hes getting really close to you bc he wants to be more than friends.
my advice is to tell him that your heart has just been broken so if he's just playing around than don't get back with him bc than you risk getting hurt again.your heart is the most valuable thing you posses and when you're in love your so vulnerable to getting hurt again that you should know if he's falling for you again or not.get the facts stright b4 you go out with anyone.good luck and i hope i helped you
|
|
Hi, I'm 16/m I just started at a new school. There is a girl in my Hist. Class that is insanely gorgeous. Like, you don't even know. Crazy gorgeous. Anyway, I don't really know her yet. I'd like to get to know her though. How can I break the ice? And don't tell me to just go up to her and tell her I like her. I know girls like confidence, but you have to at least know them A LITTLE before you start telling them that. So... help? (link)
| |
well you just started going to a new school that this girls has prob been going to for a longer time than you so she knows her way around.for exapmle she knows friends,teachers (good and bad) and school events that go on at the school.so you can always ask about sports,home coming,what teachers are good and with ones are bad,and what people do for fun.try and get involved in school events that she or her friends are in to spend extra time with her outside of your hist.class.and def ask about home coming bc most girls love it,there's dancing, football games with hot guys and friends,you might even have sprit week during home coming like many schools have.home coming also gives you a reason to hang out with her bc your new and don't really know anyone except her kinda.good luck and don't worry you'll do great
|
So, I've been dating this girl for a while now. She's really great. I love her and care about her and everything, but I have feelings for this other girl. This other girl is out of this world. We'll call my girlfriend J and the girl I like L ok? ok. Well L knows I like her, and L really likes me. I never see L though. But I get so happy when I talk to her. J pisses me off a lot of the time. We fight over everything. We tried taking a break, but it didn't work out. We missed each other. I care about J, but I have these strong feelings for L also. I don't know what to do. I can't bring myself to end the relationship because I don't want to lose J. J has become one of my best friends, and I don't want to lose that. At the same time, these feelings for L wont go away.
Can someone help me?
(Don't say to sort out your feelings, cause I sorted them up there. I feel confused. And no, who would you rather be with. I get that all the time from my friends.)
Thank you. (link)
|
you said that you love J and breaking off your relationship didn't work so try and do it again.love is a powerfull word and feeling that doesn't just go away.girls like L may come and go in your life but you have to understand that this situation that you're in is testing your relationship with J.it's testing your love for her and that's hard to do through.ask your self if you can picture yourself with L and not J than think about what you would give up because your not with J anymore.ask your self was it really worth it?you left the person you love for the person you like not knowing if you will fall in love with her or if she will fall in love with you.
if i was you i wouldn't leave the girl that i love for the one that i like.you'll aways come across some girl that makes you nervous every time you see her or hang out.but those girls are a dime a dozen.i hope i helped
ps.love wasn't meant to be easy so don't think that your relationship with J is a hopeless
|
Okay, well the guy that i like A LOT told this girl in my class he likes me and my two best friends which is horrible. One of those friends flirted with him a lot until i confronted her about it and then she quit a little but she still did it some. But anyways, she is really outgoing and i am kinda worried that because he might pick her because she always talks to him and stuff. I know she would never go out with him because she knows i like him and she is my best friend but just the fact. I'm not worried about the other one because she never flirted with him and always try's to give me private moments with him but the other one always pulls up a chair whenever it's me and him alone and he usually talks to her because he is super outgoing and likes flirting with other girls but that is just his personality. I just feel like i am in competition because i have never liked a guy this much before and i really want it to work out. I try to talk to him every chance i get but it's hard sometimes because i;m in class but i don't know what to do.
15/f (link)
| |
dear me and my best friends,you're in a hard situation but you may have to test your friendship with both of your best friends.my advice is to talk to both of your friends alone and tell them how you feel.they're your best friends so you should be able to tell them anything like how you feel.but whatever you do... DON'T LET SOME BOY COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIENDS!it's not worth it no matter how cute or hot this boy is,they are your best friends there will always be other cute guys but finding best friends that you can tell anything is hard to come by the trust that you and your friends have is priceless.~rae141307
|
I have had way too many boyfriends to count. It's my problem too. Boys like me, and I like boys... but as soon as we start dating its like I pick out all their imperfections without meaning to. I'm now with my 12th or 13th boyfriend. He's really nice, but he never calls me or asks me out places, and when I call him or I invite him places, we never have anything ot talk about. He's kind of boring... I hate breaking it off with guys when they didnt do anything wrong. Is it my fault for wanting a certain type? Should I stay with him and see if things get better?
Thanks
Elise 15/f (link)
| |
Elise,it's not a bad thing to have a lot of boy friends at your age.I even did it when i was your age.Crushes come and go when you're young that's just how life is.But...picking out boys imperfections is not good but can be easily fixed.Everyone has imperfections you,me and every person you'll ever come across.The key to a strong relationship is to look past the imperfections,instead look at the good quailties this boy has instead of the bad.Try and remember why you went out in the first place and think of the good things he does for you.Every girl has a certain type of guy they like to date and going out with a bunch of boys is just one way to find what type of boyfriend you would most likely to be happy dating.Ask yourself does he remember things you tell him?Does he respect you,your family, and friends?Or does he make you laugh amd he's fun to chill with or to talk too.And one reason why he may not call you as much as you would like or ask you out is because he may be a little scared that he's not good enough for you.Calling you may frighten him and going out on a date may just freak him out.Next time you ask him to go out, go with a group of friends you both share that way there will always be something to talk aboutand he won't feel so much pressure.~good luck rae141307
|
|