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Hi my name is gijs I live in the netherlands and I'm 13 years old
Iv had this crush on this girl mirte for a year now and I finaly what to man up and ask her out but I don't know how and I'm to scared to do it help me pleasee
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Ask her now or forever hold your peace . If you dont tell her she will never know how you feel and she came go out with another guy and thats your heart broken right there for you not man'ing up .
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These days i feel my boyfriend is avoiding me. Once i got a call from him and by accident i pressed the off button of the mobile,it was his call. After that he has changed,he doesnt call me,write me. I feel so sad. I actually told him about the accident. But he seems doesnt care anymore. I dont know what to do. (link)
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For one you cant make your boyfriend fall for you . Even if you ask him to and he says yes its a lie . Feelings take time to appear theydont just surface when you guys first start dating . Chemistry! Btw , your boyfriend sounds very immature . If he keeps doing that I think you guys should end it he obviously doesnt want to be bothered with you and hit you up when he wants . BELIEVE ME , I had many relationships just like this . I got tried of chasing . Let someone chase you for ONCE (:
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Hi, I'm 14/f
I've had a huge, and I mean HUGE crush on this older guy for years now. We're talking I forget my own name around him! Now he has a girlfriend and he really likes her. They're long distance, so he calls her every night & he always has this huge cheesy smile every time he's on the phone with her. I am, surprisingly, not jealous of her at all. It's normal to be at least a little jealous when I think about something like that, right? But all I can think of when I think about him with her is happiness for him & I'm glad that he's happy with her. That's all I seem to care about. I don't like being so calm about all of it. I don't want to cause problems either, but it drives me insane that I'm not at least a little jealous!
So my question is: Is it possible to make yourself jealous? If so, please share! I don't want to give up on any chance I might have to be with him & by being so calm it seems like i AM giving up! Someone, anyone, please help me. Anything will be appreciated.
Thanks for reading & answering in advance! (link)
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GOOODD ! Your not jealous thats a good trait about yourself . Many girls wwish they had that . Maybe you should move on because its kind of obvious he is not going to break up with her anytime if he brags on her like that . You should move on (:
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20f. Ryan 19. This is going to be long but I've been dealing with this so long I need guidance :(
I met Ryan at the end of summer through a mutual friend. He was so sweet, respectful..i could tell right away he wasn't like the other guys i talk to. Anyways Ryan ended up going to play hockey in South Dakota (3 hrs away from where I am) He still texted ME every day, I never once texted him first. That was a nice change. He went to South Dakota in September and didn't get to come home until Christmas break and it was only a week. So Christmas came and he only was home for a week. I wasn't going to bother him to hang out I figured he would want to be with his family and close friends since he didn't get very long. Surprisingly he asked me to come over. So I did. It was a good time, he was so sweet. Then a day before he was going to go back to South Dakota, he wanted to see me again. So I went over again and we hung out. Things were really good. He then went back to South Dakota. Well then we were talking and I was like me and my friend are thinking about taking a little road trip to come see you for the weekend in a couple weeks what do you think? And he was like do it!! KEEP IN MIND...he was still texting me every day and things were great. So January came and me and my friend drove 3 hours to go see him play hockey and hang out with him. It was thursday night and he invited us over to his billet parents house. so we went over there, met some of his teammates and just hung out. but i could tell another one of his teammates were hitting on me and flirting with me. Ryan noticed and was kind of joking around like "What do you think your doing talking to my girl...do you wanna fight? Lets go" I was like aww thats kind of cute that he was jealous. Then Friday came. He texted me before his game and then after his game. But never said anything about hanging out?? So Saturday came...he texted me before his game and also after again and once again never said anything about hanging out. He said he was just hanging out with the boys. I was a little irritated.. we came to a different state to see him and he only sees us ONE day? Well saturday night i get a text at midnight from his teammate that was hitting on me. he wanted to hang out (i could tell he wanted to hook up) and i was like ummm well dont you think Ryan would be mad since were like "talking"? He told me to ask him. So I asked Ryan how Nick got my number in the first place and Ryan said he must of took his phone in the locker room and got it that way and I was like okay so why is he asking me to hang out? And he was like i don't know but go for it. And i was like umm no i dont want to hang out with him and it bothers me a little bit that you dont even care that your teammate is trying to get with me? Then he goes on to say I can't do this anymore..i don't wanna talk to you blah blah blah. it came out of NO WHERE. just a minute ago things were fine and we were texting and then it all of a sudden changed and he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. This went on for about two hours where he was saying things and then finally I tried calling him because i wanted to figure it out and he ignored me.
Me and my friend left that Sunday morning and I didn't hear from him that day or like 3 weeks later. Then he randomly texts me saying the dumbest things..something like: "Whats up slut..are you watching jersey shore? Hope your bangs have been clean recently!" I replied "Grow up" then we started arguing again and i said i didn't do anything to you why are you acting like this! and then i was like ok can we please just be civil and at least be friends and maybe hang out in the summer when you come home? He agreed.
THEN we didn't talk for a month, and I was on facebook and he ended up chatting me. He was like hey how have you been? And i said really good how about you and we started talking. But then i was like ok i'm not trying to start a fight with you but i just want to know why you were talking bad about me to your teammates after that weekend (i heard he was) and he was like nobody has said anything about you since that night. I was like ok well i mean so if i see you am i supposed to just ignore you or what i don't know what you want. And he said something like "idk i'm not really worried about you right now" and i said something else and he never responded. I haven't talked to him since, so it's been like a month.
I just don't understand. He texted me every day, he was the one asking me to hang out, etc I was never annoying or clingy. It came out of no where. The sad thing is i really miss him :( it's hard going from talking to someone every day to not at all. And he was really sweet ..all of his friends and teammates said he is the one who treats girls right. But he's so weird about it. I don't understand. What do you think I should do? I haven't said anything to him since that weekend we went there in January, he's the one who said something to me twice since then. I just miss talking to him a lot. I wanna see him when he gets home in the summer but i don't know if i should text him if i haven't heard from him since he's been home? He'll be home late April. I know he hasn't met any girls there ..he's playing Juniors he's not actually going to college so there playing hockey 24/7 and he even told me when we were talking (when we were on good terms) that there were no girls worth his time there and that he was only interested in me. and his teammates also said they don't hang out with girls cause they focus on hockey. So i don't get any of it ...any suggestions?! (link)
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yeah, i know it sucks from talking to someone everyday to none . but getting over him is the best thing right now, if it was meant to be than in the summer you'll see(:
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Ok so hey everyone well to start off I am 13 female and my friend is 12 female and the other day she started liking this 14 year old in the grade ahead of us, well she wanted me to help her, so I was like yeah this'll be fun because I don't even know him he don't know me. Ok so she wanted me to text him first so I did and he ignored me didn't text back (guessing because he didn't know me) (plus don't know what I look like) now anyway she finaly text him and they t4ext forever and they flirted and had good conversations, I read all of it off her phone! and then yesterday morning I was sitting at the 7th grade table and I was the only one there noone else had came in yet, and he was the only one at the 8th grade table across from me and well every two seconds he would look over and stare at were I was sitting, then this morning me and my friend that likes him got there first and he was there then 8th grade left first so I decided to look and find him and when I did he was looking right at me and our eyes met then he jumped startled and walked off. It is really wierd because he don't even know me and that stuff happens, then he acts like yeah he likes my friend and stuff, and from all this helping my friend I am starting to like him myself!!!! so please help I am confused about a couple things like I said!
1.) He keeps looking and our eyes meet (but he don't even know me)
2.) I think he likes my friend they talk/ flirt a lot!
3.) I am starting to like him!!! so please help(: thankkss(: (link)
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Noo , if your friend is already talking to the guy, and there firtling and talking a lot why would you even doo that to your friend . Is this realtionship worth jepardising your realtionship with your friend . No , I hope thats your answer than just find you a bf . (:
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So, my boyfriend & I broke up in August. We'd been dating for 11 months. Hes a junior, Im a freshman. We were in love, but i guess i got too clingy or something and he just didnt feel the same love as before. Its now February, and for about a month I've been talking to this senior. He's super nice, but I think he still likes this chick he had a thing with a few months ago. I dunno how she feels about him but whatever. So yeah I kinda like this senior. DONT tell me Im too young, because at my school this happens all the time. My ex and I still talk, but he's such a flirt sometimes I dont know if its genuine. Recently he seems to like talking to me again. Obviously I still have feelings for him, I always will. But I kinda do wanna give this senior thing a try, & he's also nice and we have things in common already. Even after typing this all out, I'm thinking to give the senior thing a go, but I'd like a little bit more experienced advice please. Thanks very much! :) (link)
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Everything happens for a reason , your break up happen for a reason . Idkk , if it was for the senior and obviously you dont know ither, but you should try out that senior and give him a shot and move on to something big and better, and if it doesnt work out not saying it wont then you will see were you made your mistake and just look for someone else , but if it does you will be looking lucky you did listen too my advice . GOOD LUCK . (:
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I've been friends with this boy for 2 1/2 years && i've liked him for 2.! He says im like his sister && sometimes he acts like he likes me.! He told me the only reason he is moving is because his girlfriend just broke up with him && he loves her.! At his birthday party, he picked me up && spun me around.! I don't if he likes me or not.! I want to tell him now incase he feels the same && don't move.! But im scared if I do now && he don't like me like that, then i'll feel stupid.! But I am gonna tell him, I just don't know when.! Will someone help.? (link)
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Babygirl , I think you should HURRY , and dail his number and tell him how you feel this moment , and if he moved already next time you'll probalay learn from your mistake not to take to long and make the realtionship with a crush like sister or brother, GOOD Luck (:
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Well anyways my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and we had been together about a month. And I really liked him yet I didnt cry when we broke up. But now I just feel like I need rebound or something to makeout with or something. Ive found a good guy clean and has no strings. Is this normal for someone to do? (link)
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Yes , rebounding is normal when your coming out of a realtionship . But its not nessicarily right to do for another person your basically using them babygirl to get over your ex . You should find someone and grow a realtionship with .
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Me and my boyfriend have along distance relationship, he lives in a different country. I have cheated on him twice and told him the next day and I am trying to change and I know I can. But how do i prove that to him when we can't even be around each other and hang out. (link)
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- Yess. Ihhtss Hardd. Imm In ALonnq Distancee RealationShipp && Ihhts Hard Causee YUU Cant Talk Too Eacch Otherr Orr Toucch ! You Can Prove YUU Chanqee Thouqqh.By Actinnq Mature ! Try Too Him YUU Wont Cheat On Himm Aqaain Andd Ihtt Getss Hardd. Actt Mat
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my boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob umm how do u give a blowjob? lol i know it sounds slutty but i love him and i dont really care (link)
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- WOW. Yuu Justt Takee hiss dicck.&& Suckk Ihht But Be Suree To Pull Thee MEat Back Andd Dntt Bitee Causee That Hurtss.
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Movingg on is something I need to do!
One night I was with this other guy, I was smiling, laughing, and I was happy(: But then the radio was on and mine and my exes song came on and I started crying. This guy had no idea why I was crying so he just kept hugging me asking me what's wrong, and I told him I wasn't ready to move on and I'm sorry. So he left. He started dating one of my old friends, and Me? I was stuck on the ex. Me and that girl became friends again because we talked about our problems. Now theyy aren't together anymore but she's in love with him, and I'm finally ready to move on! and I feel like he's the only guy I could move on withh! What should I do? (link)
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Iff Yurr Ready Too Movee On Wthh Himm. Gooo Aheadd! Call himm && Tell Himm Howw Yuu Feel Be Bravee. Andd Maybee Hell Givee Yu A Chancee. EveryOnee Deservess Another Chancee Good Lcck
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My boyfriend and I were going through a rough period. He started talking to my best friend on msn and they had a very very flirtatious conversation including them discussing having sex, him telling her her naked body would turn him on, her dancing naked would be hot etc. He asked her intimate and leading questions. He hid this from me and she told me, I confronted him and he'd deleted the chat log, but I made him recover it and it's disgusting. Is this cheating? (link)
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Well , Thatss Not A Real Friend && A Real Boyfriend. Yess In My Reaalationshipss I Would Call That Cheatinq DUMP Bothh Off Themm. YUUll Find Better.
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