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i like this guy and i wanna tell him i like him and i kno how ima tell him but i dont kno what to say i wanna tell him when i give him a hug cuz i alwais hug him and we kinda stay like like for a min and then stop but yeah i wanna wisper in his ear but i dont kno what to say help please!!!

when i told my boyfriend i liked him i gave him a hug and i whipsered it in his ear. you should go with that idea you have because guys find that attractive.

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Why is it always me that ends up with the no girlfriend at the end of the year I am 14/m and I am in a wheelchair and not sure if that is the problem or what but it has always seemed I end up not with the girlfriend and don't get me wrong I have had them but the last one I had was going on for 6 monthes but she just left me for one of my best friends and it was like a shocker to me and I just went into a deep depression

i think you should just give it some time girls will realize how nice of a guy you are. i dont think you should stress over it because you never know by the end of next school year you might have a new girlfriend that will last a long time. just don't think about it and give it some time. when time is right everything will go good for you.

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ok this is very embarrasing but I am and girl but when i was born i was born with a penis..he doctor says im a girl cause i have boobs and i have periods...dont ask me how cause i really dont know how. When i have sex with boys do u think this will creep them out? and should i get my penis removed?

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hey i think you should talk this over with your doctor or someone at your home and see what they say. i personally think you should get it removed because you like guys and if you guys got in a position to do something and they saw it then they would freak out and it would be really embarrassing for you.

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So there is this girl. I've seen her at this resturant for the past 2 years but never said a word to her because i'm so shy. We had a picnic this weekend and my mom's friends daughter came and with her was this girl.After the picnic I was told that she thought I was cute and such a nice person. So I was invited back to the apartment the next day of these 2 girls. We watched 2 movies and ate dinner othing big. So when I got home I text the girls friend and asked if this girl even likes me or what. I got in reply She does but wants nothing serious. How do I go about that? Do I still try to become close and hope more happens or what? Any help is thankful.

hey i think you should keep talking to her and hang out with her because you never know things might change between you guys and she might begin to like you like alot and want something serious between you guys. good luck!!!!!!

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I'm a 16-year-old female and I was celebrating fourth of July with some of my friends last night without my boyfriend. Everyone was drinking and having a good time, and apparently I drank a little more than I should have and ended up calling his voicemail and breaking up with him. He didn't sleep all of last night, and I really love my boyfriend, I've told him that countless times, as well as that I'm sorry, so I don't know what else to say. Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to get him to forgive me?

hey dont worry everything will get better for you just relax and give him time because you really hurt him and he just needs to think things over. but do no stop calling him or dont let him think your not sorry because then he might think you dont care anymore. i think you should take him out for a candle light dinner and tell him your sorry. oh wait i think you should give him a rose and get on your knees and say sorry that will make him laugh( i think) but i just think he needs time to get over it cuz hes really really hurt. i hope everything gets better for you soon.

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okay Like i mention before i haven't spoke to my ex for about 3 weeks now...well today he called me but only let it ring twice so i didn't get to answer it but i had my sister call back and he was actin so childish...he called again doing the same thing but insisting that he doesn't want anything...i didn't talk to him but if he should call and i answer wat should i do? Thanks in advance!

i think he just wants to let you know that he wants to talk to you. if he keeps calling you back try to play hard to get because that will make him want you even more. and tell him that his childish ways will not work with you and just try to stand up and don't let know him know your soft cuz he can take advantage of that.

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Ok, so there's this guy that really likes me, we'll call him Joe. Joe is going out wiht my best friend we'll call Sarah. Well Joe dosen't even like Sarah and I have a boyfriend, but I like Joe a lot.
I like my boyfriend AND Joe.
Joe really likes me, like once, we almost kissed. We got close and then my cell phone rang.
My boyfriend is sweet and I love him to death, but I don't know what to do.
Like if I dump my boyfriend then go for it with Joe, Sara will hate me!
What to do what to do?

I'm just really confused. please help.

i think you should just stay with your boyfriend because you love him alot.i was in the same situtation once i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and there was a time in our relationship were i wanted to date someone else but then i realized that was just a "crush phase" i was going through and i just stuck with my boyfriend and things worked out perfectly fine. i suggest you stay with your boyfriend and let things go the way they are going. hope this helps

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So I had a friend back three years ago. And back then, we were too young to date, but we both really liked eachother-- just didn't tell one another. But I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him. He went to this private school and I hadn't heard from him in three years when I saw him at my day camp--- we are counselors at my camp. And he is so different and some of my friends like him, though he doesn't like them, and I think I might.
Or I wanted to talk to him more than we did today because I really enjoyed it.
Is there anything I can do? We haven't been frieds in so long and we are both so different.

i think you should tell him how you felt three years ago and be friends with him and just hang out like go to a movie or just hang out , outside of your camp.

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im going to be 17 years old in a week. and ive never really had a "real boyfriend" before. i mean i went out with like 3 guys, but that was all in middle school, and it wasnt anything like people have now in high school.. tomorrow im going to this party with my friend, and ive been praying all day to let me find a guy that wont just try to get in my pants and then leave. thats what always happens. it would make my birthday soo much better if i could just find a guy that i connect with, and that is actually interested in me and not only sex. especially the first night we meet. there are guys that want to meet me in person and hang out that are from myspace, they are my age and live by me but for some reason i always turn them down. every single one of them. does that mean that non of them are "right" for me? or am i just shy? i dont know.

tomorrow i want to get to know a guy and maybe even go on a date or two after the party. and then hopefully it can lead into my first real relationship

but i dont even know how to get started with that. i dont know how to act or what to say or anything..and how do i know that they actually want to get to know me and they arent just using me to get some? how can u tell the difference?

if anyone and everyone could help me in any way possible to make me think i might actually meet someone tomorrow night i would appreciate it soooooo much.
i always wish on stars that i see and i pray that i find a guy, but it never happens.

i really really think i deserve this. i know i can get a guy, because i do think im pretty. so thats not the reason.. but i dont know why i cant ever find someone that i like enough.

thanks sooo much xoxoxo

i think you should just relax and go to your friends party and try to take to a nice guy you find. and your friends from myspace that want to meet you i personally dont think you should meet them. well if you want you guys should set up a meeting place and go with a few friends. i have heard alot of bad things that happen from my space. but just relax you will find a nice guy sooner or later.

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