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i am 13 years old and i love giveing coulm and i love doing it so much i give pepole my email adress if they ever need some one to talk to i just love helping so let me help you here or at my personal email adress -tickels wanted 13@ aol.com

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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN

ya and if it dosen't work out fine your young there is always someone else out there so give it a try

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Hey I'm 14/f and lately one of my best guy friends has been asking me out, i really care about him but right now i am dealing with other things in my life. such as trying to get into a good highschool, and my other hobbies that are really imortant to me. yet on the other hand, i really like him. my question is what should i do? i mean why should i risk a relationship when we are just going to break up sooner or later? what is the point in a young relationship right now? besides "having fun" because i know that loving someone is a lot more than "having fun" please answer, ill rate fives as long as you try to help

well you have other stuff in your life but don't just let that hold you back from finding romance and ya it might end fast but you will have all the thing ya'll did together and it will help balance your life out and he might help you learn new things along the road that will help you in the futer so try it and if it dosen't work you can always call it to a stop.
hope i helped!!!!

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Well, So far alot of guys have turned me down. SO i asked my ex why he broke up with me, and he seyd "well, All the guys say you really need braces so they dont like you" .. i have 2 teeth on the bottom that are slightly crooked, but i cant get my braces on till July, whut do i do?!??!

well that's a dumb reason they don't like you it's not what you look like on the outside it's the inside that count's so you know what wait till you get your braces and then when you have them all the guys that were rude or mean to you or didn't like you cuse of that reason don't give them the time of day there just butheads.
bye, goodluck!

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There is this guy that I have been friends with for a little while at school. We went to a frat party together and were dancing and having fun. Yes we were both slighty inebriated but thats besides the point. I kind of like him and when we were dancing he kissed me and we made out for a little bit. I don't know what to think of it because I kind of have feelings for him. We have been hanging out and flirting but haven't kissed again. He did make some comments like, you looked really good tonight but only on AIM. Is he just really shy or do you think it was just a random drunk thing?

well i think you should ask him he totaly digs you it sounds like but maybe you should ask what the whole kiss thing was about and then decide if he likes you or he is just a friend

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Okay theres this kid at my school. And we like "talk" on and off all year. Usually when we do talk its like ya know, we should hook up type of thing. And right now we're talking...how can i get him to really like me so we can finally hook up??

try asking him to the movies as friends or something and let him really get to know you and it will be fun and then you can tell if he really likes you and if he dosen't you can move on good luck!

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okay so I'm 14 f. I haven't had a boy firend yet, is that weird. See I'm in french immersion, and theres only lik 3 guys in it and there nerds. so all of my friends are nerds. I moved here last year so I don't really no many other people, but still. I mean, I've been asked out a lot, but that was at my old school and I was in grade 5-6-7 so "going out" with someone was just holding their hand in school, so I don't count that. Is it sad that I've never been on a REAL date? How can I change?

well no when it's the rigt time you will know and when the right guy comes along too rember you are you not every one else take your time !!!!!
-perfect101

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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?

trying to tell him how you feel and you want to take things slow he should totaly understand and if he dosen't you have to decide if you want to stay with him or leave him but he will totaly will understand good luck you just need to talk it out it will all work ot bye: perfect101

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well i guess i have been sort of seeing this guy for the past like month or so but we arent bf and gf. im 17 hes 20 if that matters...anyways he usually texts me while im in school and picks me up and we hang out every monday and we also hang out on like friday and other days too but the point is every monday i believe since i met him we have hung out well todaii he didnt call me or text me or anything so im not quite sure.. the last time we hung out was on friday and he didnt act any different and what not but im confused on why he didnt call me today maybi he wanted to see if i would call him ? so basically my question is do u think he still wants to keep hanging out and maybi he didnt call cuz hes busy and should i call i him even tho its too late to hang out today?

well he might just be busy and need some alone time you can call him thoe and i think he still likes you and wants to hangout if he wouldn't he probley would tell you so just stay calm and i think you should totaly call him and talk too him so he dosen't feel like he has too always call you !!!!!

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ok well i go camping 3 times a year at the same place with my grandparents, brother, and a bunch of friends and some family. well my grandfather recently got into a realy bad accident and he couldnt do anything. it was the day after we got home from 1 camping trip((memorial day)). well he couldnt go the nect 2 times, ((labor day + halloween)) so me and my brother stayed with some family friends. well we have to wait 7 months to go again on memorial day and im having serious withdrawal because i miss it alot. and i dont know what to do.

try geting a tent and going right to your back yard with some friends and camping out it will be fun and try to do some nature things to help you with your withdrawl.

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Aright well just 3 weeks ago...my b/f broke up wit me cuz he thought that i cheated on him, when he was the one that slept with sum chic that he met ova the net...so basically he's blaming everythin on me! So anyway...ever since he broke up with me ive been kinda wantin to go bak out with him, but i kno that if i do all he's goin to do is hurt me again! I mean i guess i still kinda love him in a way...but i hate him at the same time,cuz of all the pain that he has put me through...i don't even talk to him anymore! so like i said before i wanna go bak out with him but then again i don't! Please sumome help me!

Thanx,
lost and confused!

ok i have been thourg this befor too just take some time and think listen to your heart but be carful when you decide what you want make sure it what you truly want then go on from there !!!!

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Hey you guys!
MiSSc here, OK so here's an update from me...I have a boyfriend now and we've been going out for a month. He asked me out on Valentines Day too. I love my boyfriend so much!! He's everything that I wanted in a guy. Exactly everything that I've ever wanted in a guy! I thought I was in love many times before, but now I know that it wasn't true love. But this time I think I finally found the one for me, even my mom thinks so and our friends too. But I'm only 15, we will both be turning 16 soon. Do you think that its possible to find love so young?

yes i do think it is possible to find love at this young but just be careful take thing one day at a time and just have fun and if things are meant to be they will happen when the time is right

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I'm sorry if this is kind of long but please, please answer back

[13/F] I like this girl named Jackie and i just can't stop thinking about her. But i feel like...im in love. I liked her for 2 years and she knows that I like her. I talk to her online a lot and my friends know that I like. She knows i wrote about 10 poems about her and that i have a deep obsession about her and even made a journal about my feeling all about her. All my friends tell me to talk to her and that my poems show my true feelings about her. But I'm too scared to talk to her and . I get scared and start to panic when i stand around her, I just really want to say hi to her...even talk to her at school. The hardest thing is that we don't have any classes together and online, i asked her if i could be her boyfriend and she said that how could i be her b/f if i can't talk to her at school.
I'm just so confused and its killing me inside that i can't talk to her and time is running out until she might find a boyfriend that can talk to her. I'm just so depressed without her...I just can't explain most of the situation already, because no one don't know how i feel because i can't put it in words. Please help me.

well it easy try tslking to her maybe the resone you can't talk to her is you really don't like her even though you fell like you like her you may just be confused so take some time and think and if you still can't talk to her write her note or a letter about how you feel she will totaly under stand and it will help you see if she really cares good luck it's killing me insed

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