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Q: ((sorry if longg))
i have a little problem.
i have always liked my best friend as more then a friend...well, me and my best friend were in his basement last night, and we were dancing because he was playin my favorite song..we were grinding with each other...but we have danced like that together before so it really was not a big deal..then the next song comes..and it was THE 0NLY ONE FOR ME by BRIAN MCKNIGHT..so i just backed up to the wall thinkin he was not gonna dance with me to that song..but he came up to me and took my hand and brought me very close to him and we started to dance...he started singing the words to me..and then he kissed me =)..i was in total shock by it so he leans towards me and kisses me again..we started makin out and it was very sweet..
now my question is..did he just get caught up in the moment or were his actions true..i will give a 5 for good advice =]

thanks

well it seems to me like your "friend" wants to be a little more than friends also. i would talk to him about it. How it was explained it seems like a pretty good relationship could result out of this trust me because me and my boifriend have been dateing for a while and we have been friends for like 6 years. good luck with everything.

peaches

Q: Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long.

well ask around to all of your friends and see if there is a party gonna go on thats how i met my boyfriend and i have been with for 2 years yea its long but i love him so give it a try and dont be scared to come out and express your self. If you are real shy all of he time then no one might notice you.... So get out there and party harty get drunk and have fun... No kidding just have fun...

Q: i am currently living in africa and i am feeling very very depressed as time goes by. i've been taken from the friends i love and i am slowly going into insainity. we moved cause my mom thought that the rest of the family hated living in texas, which wasnt true at all. i have left the girl i love behind and cant stop thinking about her, and now i am the most lonesome man on earth. i cant make friends here as they are all immature and just plain stupid. every weekend i am cooped up at home because we aren't aloud outside unless we are going to the store, anothre persons house, or skool. i'm am going insain. i need help before this is the last thing anyone hears from me!

just try to keeep in touch with your old friends and wih your girl. Try to save up money to go and see here or else have her come and see you there is a lot to see in africa. So show her around.

Q: I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him?

both

Q: Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

did you kiss this other guy? did you do anything else with this other guy?? you sound like a nice gurl i dont think you did. If you didnt do anything else with this guy then you didnt cheat on your boyfriend. But if you did then yes you did cheat on him. But no, taking pictures with him is not cheating. but just in case your boyfriend thinks so tell him you took pics with the other guy. if he dont understand you dont need him.if he dont care then he is a good boyfriend.
hope i helped

peaches_n_cream552

Q: Would it be safe to say im in love if...

he's always on my mind

i danced with him and every time i think about it my heart literally skips a beat

i cry when i think about him leaving me for a different school next year

i think you get the picture....

yea it is safe to say you in love.
congrates. :)

peaches_n_cream552

Q: Okay, I have a problem. I don't know if it's normal or not. I guess I'll start out by saying I'm fairly outgoing and loud. Anyways, my friends and I and some other guys went to this guy Micheal's house today. Micheal's a 9th grader (I'm in 8th) and we were there for like 4 hours without his parents home. Anyways, when basically everyone except one other guy had left, we started cuddling on his bed. He was holding my hand and like rubbing his hand on my stomach and stuff while we were watching a movie and earlier we held hands while I was just sitting on the bed and he was on the floor (his matresses are on the floor) and I don't know, I liked him being there with me and doing stuff with him, but I got so nervous! I don't know why, I just felt kind of awkward. Do any of you get this way too?

P.S. Micheal likes me if that means anything for details.

-Christeena

i get nervous to but its more like butterflies in my stomach. but if you kno you can trust this person and let them kno you get nervous around them they might go away.
hope i helped

peaches_n_cream552

Q: breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

Q: Ok me and my boyfriend have bene dating 3 weeks and we hug intimately and stuff and I lvoe him..adn I get urges to kiss him..I really want to..but the teachers cant see...cause my parents will know..and only my mom knows about the guy and my dad is not clued in at all...and i really love him and i want to kiss him..but im also afraid..i mean im a very pessimistic, paranoid, frightened, depressed type person...i know he wants to kiss me..so what should we do

Jus kiss him you'll be glad that you did.

Q: is it bad to go out with some one if that some ones best friend likes you? Diane-age 13-female

no, follow your heart.

Q: 15/m a few days ago my friend asked me if i would mind if he asked out my ex-g/f and i said no because i didnt really care but ever since they started going out, i started to like my ex again. i dont know what to do. please help.

your just jealous its normal find a different girlfriend to keep your mind of of her. hope i helped.
peaches

Q: (15/f)OK I have absolutely NO idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. He's really picky with clothes and as for cologne.. I wouldn't want him to think I'm telling him he smells or something by buying him cologne. I just wanted to know if anyone had some ideas on what i should get him. He doesn't really play video games and he burns all his CD's. I know it's a tough one but I rate high! Thanx in advance.

i dint know what you two are into but why dont you arrange some dinner plans for his b-day and for christmas plan to spend some time alone together. relax together unfront of a fireplace or fill the room with lit candles! Prob didnt help but it was an idea!

Q: ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

ask his friends who he likes if he likes you then ask him about it or even write him a note and tell him how you feel! Good luck

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