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I'm fourteen, my girlfriend fifteen. We've been together for 1 year.
I love her lots and lots and I want to be with her. She wants to get engaged now, however I'd like to wait longer. I want to get engaged to her, but just not yet, maybe in a year or two's time. School will come first, i'm doing my GCSEs at the moment and I intend to go on an do 4 A levels.
Am I right to be thinking this? (link)
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No absolutly not. You guys are still in puberty. You don't know what its going to be like when you have to live together, or really what it takes to be married, it is sacrifice, commitment, an compromise. Love dosent stay wonderful either when you have to worry about paying bills and work and the kids. Its great when you dont have anything else to worry about other than visiting after school hours, and hanging out together, but when you get out there in the real world, it is not fun and games. But if you do get engaged, its fine cause you can be engaged for as long as you want, but marrige is forever.
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ive been talking to my friend, who i like, for about 3 months on msn. id say 90% of the time he used to start the conversation, but now its about 50%. which is fine whatever, but i feel like im starting it constantly then he takes about 30 minutes jsut to give a response to my 'hello.' i asked him why one time and he said sometimes hes just busy.
but yesterday he asked me to get on, and i was really busy toda and so tired when i got home, but i still got on for him. i surely thought he would IM me first, but nope stayed on for 40 minutes, not one IM, so i signed off. i dunno what to do..i started crying. yeah im a baby, but i just felt so let down. how can i handle this? do i not come on msn for a few days? or should i come on and just not talk to him, cause i just have a feeling he wont im me and ill be let down. please, any suggestions. i dont want to cry anymore over someone who could potentially be wasting my time. (link)
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He seems like he is just not that into you. Even if you leave him hanging, it is apparent that he wouldnt be the one hurt, you will.
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Heey . does anyone think its a bit slutty to break your virginity at 13 ? (link)
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I lost mine at 14. I think we all thought it was going to be something incredible but it is not always that way. I think that now a days, kids are having sex now at age 10. I think it is sad, but as far as slutty, it really depends on how proud they are of it, how many people they want to tell, and how they are as a person overall.
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well im really into this guy weve startd talkn febuary 11 but we made it official on the 20 and yesterday 03/08/09 was my first time over his house and we had a great time he told me that his heart was beating fast and that he couldnt breath and im a junior and he is a senior in high school and i think im falling head over heels for him but im scared because he is going to college please tell me what i should do (link)
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Some say that young love isn't real love but it is. I was in a similar situation too. Depending on what you yourself can handle, I would say be together as long as you can. A love had then lost, is better than no love at all. If you do end up breaking up, at least it will make you stronger for the next, and you will learn alot of things about yourself in the process! What I know now is that I could stop it right now so I don't get my heart broke, but I would've missed the dance!
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