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Hey! It's Abby! ♥ I love giving advice so I'll try help you as much as I can! If you have anymore questions you can email me at wahoo_its_abby@hotmail.com[x0] abby
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i know this guy adam and hes absolutly gorgeous! but hes a jock, and im just one of those people that is like bff's with everyone you know? but hes the kind of jock that will only like girls who are blond, and i have pitch black hair! and he likes cheerleaders and he talkes to me sometimes, but thats only if i go and talk to someone who is near him you know? and he just talks to me about random stuff like " whats on your phone" i know he dosent like me cause hes always flirting with this other girl. but today, i saw him looking at my a couple times, but he may have just been looking at something behind me or something else close to me.
i dont even know what im asking lol. im so sorry. i just dont know what to do about this, cause i really like him. but i need to know how to get him to notice me more, and how to get him to like me a little bit.
It's hard to tell if he's flirting with that other girl because he likes the other girl OR if he's trying to make you jealous. Just start flirting with him a lot, too. Joke around with him, smile at him, make him laugh. Make it clear to him that there could be something going on between you and that you're interested. If he sees that you might have a thing for him and he goes for it, then you might start something.
But if it doesn't work, just understand that it's okay and don't turn into the girls he likes. I'm sure he doesn't have a favorite type of girl because of their hair color. If that's true then he's shallow and it's just a waste of time.
Hope I helped! :)
ok i am kevin burkett i am 13 years old me and my gf have been going out for 1 year and a half.
she has these two friends and they are guys they both like her and recently she told me she liked one of them but she still loved me and it took me a while to get over it cause this is not the first serious thing that has happend. and i am trying to get them to stop talking she want stop i have asked her multible times and she want give them up. she said they are her friends and that that she is not going to stop talking to them.
do you think that it is wrong for me to try to get her to stop talking to them?
You have a right to feel overprotective and threatened by those boys but you should never try to control her. At first, she might think it's cute that you care so much about her but your jealousy will just annoy her and make her mad and she'll feel like you're suffocating and controlling her. Just as long as she's not being overly flirtatious and treating them as friends then you shouldn't keep her away from them. If she's being too flirty and leading them on or suspicious, then tell her that and ask her if she would want you to do that to anyone else. Other than that, you need to trust her.
Ok if someone saved there number onto your phone would they expect you to call them? What if the person didn't have your number but only gave you his? Would you still call? Or is that sounding desperate ?
If the person seemed interested like he wanted you to call, you should definitely call. He might want to talk to you but there's no way of reaching you because he doesn't have your number. But it's pretty tricky to know when to call because you don't want to be too late that you'll lose your chances of getting to know him and you don't want to be too soon. You want to make it casual like you weren't thinking about calling him the whole time. So i would say, yes to calling within two weeks. Hope i helped! :]
I used to like this guy. Lets call him B. I stopped liking him ever since I realized how much of a jerk he was.
This was our convo on AIM:
him (7:59:31 PM): be my new princess
me (7:59:18 PM): maybe
him (8:00:14 PM): please
him (8:00:17 PM): i'll be good!
me (8:00:11 PM): hmm
him(8:01:16 PM): pleeeeeeease
me (8:01:22 PM): we'll see
him (8:02:05 PM): please
him (8:03:18 PM): what do i have to do to make you my princess?
me (8:03:23 PM): be good
PHM1248 (8:03:56 PM): how so?
me (8:03:34 PM): why do you want me to be your princess? :P
him (8:04:06 PM): because
him (8:04:10 PM): you are princess material
me (8:03:49 PM): whats that supposed to mean
him(8:04:22 PM): it means
him(8:04:25 PM): your a keeper
me (8:04:07 PM): aww
him (8:04:41 PM): its true!
me (8:05:44 PM): :]
him (8:06:22 PM): pleaase
me (8:05:58 PM): maybe
me (8:05:59 PM): we'll see
him (8:06:43 PM): if im good
me(8:06:21 PM): stop asking
him (8:07:19): new topic
me: yes please
him: ummm... ily?
me: no you don't
him: thats it your getting a hug on monday
Does he still like me?
Unless he does that to every other girl, there's no doubt in my mind he likes you! Clearly, still likes you and thinks the world of you. :]
hii! Since u gave me good advice im asking again but for my freind amanda this time. One of Amandas friends Becky just became friends with a new girl named Lauren and she doesnt wanna lose her best friend so she needs help. thanx! -amanda and "s"
Thank you!! Well, I think Amanda should try to become friends with Lauren so they can all be friends and hang out together. Amanda should talk to Becky about how she feels, too. Hope I helped! =)
[x0]abby
PLS HELP. i rlly like this guy but is there a way to let him kno w/o actually sayin 'i like u'? i need to kno by the 1st week of september
If you don't want to tell him just make it obvious by flirting with him. Stare at him when he's looking at you so he knows you're staring. Smile at him, joke with him, act different around him. If it's too hard for you to tell him, maybe ask a friend to tell him for you.
I'm dating this guy whos a freshman and im a sophmore and my friend keeps making fun of me and its annoying and it hurts my feelings sometimes. And sometimes it makes me wanna break up with him. Idk what I should do. I really like this guy!
Don't ever listen to what your friend says! If you like the guy, then date him. It's not up to her. You're the one dating the guy, not her! Hope I helped! =)
[x0] abby
all of my frends have bfs and when i finally get asked out i saay yes but i dun really like the guy. is that wrong?
I don't really think you should be going out with the guy then. That would mean you're only going out with him for social reasons and because everybody else is. You and your friends will start dating at different times. Just wait for the right guy (one you do like) to ask you out. Hope I helped! =)
[x0] abby
all of my frends have bfs and when i finally get asked out i saay yes but i dun really like the guy. is that wrong?
I don't really think you should be going out with the guy then. That would mean you're only going out with him for social reasons and because everybody else is. You and your friends will start dating at different times. Just wait for the right guy (one you do like) to ask you out. Hope I helped! =)
[x0] abby