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so the other day, i had my period but it was almost over .. soo my boyfriend was at my house and i didnt tell him i had my period .. but i diddnt worry cuz it was the last day. soo we started fooling around and my flow started getting really heavy and he was eating me out and all of a sudden he looked at me and there was blood all over his mouth!!!!!!! now he cant even look at me in the eyes. i dont know what to do! please help me! (link)
OH boy, haha. I can understand why he's upset, it was sort of inconsiderate of you to let him go down on you knowing you were still on your period, even if it was your last day, and you were light. You still should have told him, and stopped him before things got that far. All I can think of is to give him a few days to calm down, and then try talking to him. There isn't much you can say except your sorry. And, as far as giving him time, I'd give him at least 2-3 days. I'm sure it's safe to assume he's pretty mad, and as you said, he thinks your gross? Maybe not so much YOU though, he probably is just disgusted at what was in his mouth. So, just give him a few days, and then try talking to him. Hope I helped you some. Good luck sweetie.


15/f~~~~
Now, I'm not trying to stereotype here so please don't assume that.
But, I was just wondering:
Would a teenage guy's friends really make fun of him if he was in love with his girlfriend? What I mean is, would his friends mock him for being in love?
I just seem to see it all the time in the media. And yes, I know, you shouldn't believe all that the media tells you. I just wanted to know really if this happens.
Sorry if this is a dumb question. I'm just curious that's all.
And I'd really like to hear from a guy. That's who I'm directing this question to. I don't think it would help much if a girl answered...
Thanks! (link)
Some guys do have really immature friends, that do unfortunately act like total jackasses when they see friends of theirs showing any kind of emotion. Because as guys they're brought up to think that showing emotions, shows weakness. But, some guys actually don't make fun of other guys for being in love or showing emotions, it just all depends on the people.


Well im 15 and really am in loove wth my boyfriend !! i was talkin tu him about getin engaged hes nt so keen on the idea bcz of his parents but wat if we wasnt tu tell our parents ? wud that be so rong ?? hes the nly person ii want tu be with.. I Lv him so much ! (link)
It all depends on how you guys feel about it, if you both are okay with hiding it from his parents until your ready to tell them, then I'd say go for it. If you guys are happy and think you can last the few years to get married (I'm nto sure what the legal age is where you live). I don't neccasarily think it would be WRONG, but it would probably be better if you tell his parents. That's notmally not something most people hide from their families. But, if it's what you guys want to do, I say go for it. :D

Let me know how things turn out.


I sent advicenators.com thousand questions about my love life and they all answer "talk to her"
So I did but not face to face.(because I couldn't do it) So I told her to chat with me online and so she did.
I told her how I felt about her more than a friend. (we been friends for almost 8 years) and she respond:
"I don’t know what gender I like. (Yet), male, female, I’m not looking 4 a relationship at the moment so I not looking at them like that."

I told her I was glad that she told me the truth and we went on chatting.

Questions are:

What did she mean?
Did you think she doesn’t want to go out with me not yet unlit she is ready?
Should I wait for her?

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I don't want to tell you to wait for her bc you could be waiting for months, maybe years. But, I don't exactly want to tell you to get into some serious relationship with another girl.

I'd suggest maybe, SEEING other people, but not seriously or anything, just casually.

It sounds to me like she meant maybe osmething along the lines of, she isn't ready to commit to a relationship, and that she doesn't know what sexuality she is, such as bi, lesbian, or straight. Alot of girls have that problem through their teenage years. Once she relizes whether she is bi, lesbian, or straight, the answer to your question will become clear to her, and she'll let you know.

I don't want to get your hopes up by saying if shes straight she will date you. Because I don't know her personally, or how she feels about you, exactly, so I can't say whether she'll date you or not if she is into boys.

But I wish you luck, and I hope I've helped.


18f/ Can you make a relationship work if you are not compatible. Like you view relationships completely different from one another. Can you make it work if you're really in love??? (link)
I would like to say yes, but unfortunatly, if you aren't all that compatible, there isn't much you can do to make it work except maybe work on the things you guys have trouble with.

I hope I've helped some.


I dont know....
I just recently got a boyfriend and really its great. He's wounderfull. But I dont know if things are going to fast.He asked me out on the phone, And I said yes then when we had to go he said I love you..I didnt want to be akkward so I said it back and UssALY everytime were on the phone he allways says that. Then me and my other friends and him one day went to valley fair! it was awsome! though we didnt talk much. We guessed it was beacuse we were just shy. I have to addmitt I kind of was. But then We went to the mall with only his friend and us, I guess the shyness wore off a bit. We held hands and then later almost after it was over he kissed me! ok not a french kiss but a kiss on the cheek. I know, Really babyish for our age but it was sweet. now soon We are going to the movies. And he asked if we could makeout! we are going to be alone..no friends around. Also about french kissing, touching whatever kind of makeout.. I know. I mean I have french kissed other people before but I never really made-out like touching like that. I dont know to tell the truth I sort of want to do it. but I dont know. I get really nervous.. I dont know I need advice! (link)
If he said I love you the first day you were going out, thats a bit fast. For any age groups. And I agree with the girl above me, it sounds as if you really like him, but don't let him do things to you that your not ready for. Just take things slow, and at your own pace, if he doesn't like it, its his loss. :]


is acne a hudge turn off.. or does it realy matter.. im wondering



15/m
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To be honest; to some it is. To some it doesn't matter.

but to help you, buy some acne face pads, and some face washes. :]

And try to relax about it. And find a girl who likes you for you.


im 14 and my boyfriend is 15. he's not a virgin, i am. the farthest ive been-making out.

should i be intimidated by this? im kind of scared. scared of wheather he'll think im a good kisser or not

and i always freeze up around him
because i feel scared.

i need some advice
how to give a handjob & blowjob
good making out tips[what bodyparts to touch & what to do while making out..not HOW to make out. ik thattt, just..other things like tips & stuff that'll make him want more ;)]

umm...
im not realy looking to have sex
HONESTLY
im smarter than that
i have goals for myself
but.
these are things every girl goes through
and im just lookikng for some help :)
thank you so very very much anyone.!! :D :D :D (link)
Well. Chances are since he;s only 15, hes a virgin too. :]

So don't worry too much about that.
Most guys his age lie about that kinda stuff.

And there is really no technique on giving handjobs or blowjobs, all guys are different.

But when your giving a blowjob, make sure to not only use your mouth, use your hands as well.

And when making out, kiss on his neck, maybe bite a little, and nibble on his liip and ears as well.

Hope I helped.


so this weekend my boyfriend stayed over lets call him dave. earlier on friday dave recieved a myspace message from this girl from his school saying i think we should talk in person or something like that he wrote back why .. then he got a little drunk and read her message why not and wrote we should hookup. he didnt tell me she wrote back or that he responded i found out when she wrote back to his (i sent her one saying because i have a gf) she wrote back saying does your gf have ur myspace password because i got 2 messages. he said he doesnt remember writing that to her but im not sure what to do .. its basically like he just told some girl he would cheat on me!! please help (link)
Your not gonna want to hear this; but, if hes gonna cheat on you, or even talk about it, he isnt worth the time of day. :[[ Let me know if you want anymore help on this.


my friend and i both like the same guy. we arent really close or anything. I dont want to "fight over him" but how do I show him i like him without being tooooooooo flirty, before she does? should i talk to his best friend who is also my close friend? i think taht might be messy tho.. (link)
Mm. Your in a tough situation. You can A] Tell the guy you like how you feel. Or B] Get over it, and be a good friend, and let her have a shot at it. It just all depends on how much you value you your friendship with the girl.




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