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Q: I was talking to one of my guy friends about another guy that had asked me out. I told him that I had turned him down because he was a real pervert and just wanted sex. Then my guy friend said he probably masturbates every night. Right after he said that I looked at him and his face went red. Did he just accidently admit that he likes me? Why else would that have embarrassed him? He's the one that brought up the masturbating, not me.

masturbation is a weird topic for people to talk aobut. espescially when its someone of the opposite sex. he didnt really say he liked you but he might of.

Q: okay well i have a bf and we have nothing at all in commin i mean we barly talk and now hes gone 4 2 weeks on a cruse and theres a dance coming up this weekend. adn theres this kid ((boy w/e)) that i kinda in a way just met and he told me he liked me and well he was flirting w/ me at the last dance and i just think hes cute i mean i dont think i like him. but hes a grade unger than me and i dont realli think age matters but i do have a bf and idk what to do i mean wen im single i barrley like anyone but now i have a bf i think i like alot of people ((well no everyone)) but i tend to flirt more or notice that i do. srry its so long. im just so confused about this hole thing.

i know exactly what you mean. i think its because you feel more forced back causing you to want what you cant have. at the dance you can dance with the guy as fnerds and if your boyfrind gets pissed explain it to im and if hes still pised then hes not worth it if he doesnt trust you. and if you never talk and have nothing in common then its not really that great of a relationship and isnt workin out to well. so try talkin to him more and see if anything changes.

Q: Hey, well i'm really new to this whole boyfriend thing. I'm soooooo crazy about my boyfriend, and he's tried to kiss me and stuff but i always pull away. i dont know why b/c i want to kiss him SO much! what should i do?
Also, how do you know if someone REALLY likes you?

well with the kiss thing just give it time.... youll know when youre ready. and when someone REALLY likes you they probably flirt with you alot and either talk to you alot or get really shy and blush when youre around.

Q: hey shelby. ya so i like this guy hes hot n really nice to me hes one of those dream guyz ya no? brown hair really nice eyes ya u get the picture. well he started going out wiht my friend (frankie) and they break up like 2 days later. after they broke up she was like "ya, we just wanted to be friends" so i told her that i liked him. and it was all good. n my friend (kalyn) asks him if he would ever think about going out with me and he said he would prolly go out with me but he wanted to be single for a while. well guess what! he goes out with my friend (frankie) again! and i mean she KNOWS i liked him! i dont no what to do! *the guy i likes goes to BJ* so does frankie... since i dont its kinda ya u no a problem. anyway what should i do about this?

-i love rock n roll
-know who i am? lol

hey! i love rock n roll 2 lol put anothr dimne in the jukebox baby lol 2 many good times well anyways on to the advice. well there isnt really anything you can do since they are going oiut but if/when they break up talk to him again and maybe ask why he said he wanted 2 b single and then went out with frankie. but communication is the best solution. Hope i helped! lylas

Q: ok so ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months now and everyone is saying that i should kiss him. the problem with that is that i want to but at the same time i dont want to...i dont know i guess i dont like it when people are sittin there staring at us telling us to kiss...but whatever. anyways i feel bad cuz i know he wants to kiss but it just never works out cuz he never ends up kissing me...so i guess my question is should i let him make the move or should i do it myself? thanks.
signed,
confused

well kissing is a big step in a relationship so first make sure you are both ready and also tell your friends that you and your boyfriend kissing is none of their buisness if u dont like it and ull know when you are ready and want to and when you are just go for it unless he makes the move first

Q: I really really like this boy n I have for about 5 months but i don't think any thing with that would ever change...he says we are too good of freinds to go out but thats what all the guys say cuz i am like best freinds with a lot of guys n this guy i like, likes someone else how could i get him to like me more then a friend???

i know exactly what you mean - there isnt reallly anything you can do but keep hanging out with him and maybe after hanging out with you so much he'll like you back - but dont get yr hopes up - good luck

Q: I REALLY like this guy, but i'm almost positive he doesn't like me back. I never even talk to him (rarely online) but i just like him SO much and i just want him to notice me. How can i get him to notice me? Talking to him is hard for me just so u kno.

well there isnt really a way you can get a guy to notice you unless you talk to him - it might help if u have one of your friends talk to them and then they introduce you and then that might make it easier or you can start haning out/ talkin to one of his friends
hope i helped

Q: this guy that i sort of like just asked me out.i don't know what to say because i dont know him very well but i don't want him to think i dont like him.what should i do?

tell him exactly how u feel then tell him that you want 2 remain friends until u get to no him better and then if it stil goes well ask him out

Q: what do i do if i like someone and i dont no if they like me but everyone thinkes we should go out but im afriad to ask him out cuz if i do i dont want him to say no... ya no? lol.. help!

i no exactly what you mean - what i would do is first just tell them how you feel and see what there response is - if its a good response then go for it if not then u could either go for it and keep in mind itll probably b a no or you could move on or just keep crushing

Q: well if u really like love this girl and just broke up with her but we still love each other wat should i do???

from lilmullins17

keep talkin to her and maybe see if she wants to hang out and start acting like friends and then if u really feel like u love eachother tell her y u broke up with her ask her out hope i helped

Q: When is a good age to start having a boyfriend?

well - some would say never, but i dont really think it matters on your age, it depends on when you find the right guy, when u find a guy that understands u and respects u and you likes and dislike and is always gonna b there 4 u - thats when u should start having a boyfriend - hope i helped

Q: What do u do when one of ur friends ditches u for her bf? And it's like she can't live without a bf, but she can live without her friends?

Well, u have to respect that she wants to spend time with her boyfriend but tell her that u still wanna be part of her life and u want to spend time with her to just sit down and talk 2 her or write her a note and if that doesnt work talk to her boyfriend and se if maybe all 3 of you can do something, she might not even notice shes excluding you but if u mention it to her she might change her schedule around a little bit . hope i helped

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