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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks

hah guys get pretty proud of their accomplishments n stuff like that, so talk to him about it. hopefully next time he'll keep is mouth shut.

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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled

sorry you should wait 4 years. you might get pregnant or something..and dont do it behind their backs b/c they only want what's best 4 u! REMEMBER, they created you!

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My ex always wanted me to go to his house. And he was tlakin about his new gf and he was like "oh, ____is coming over today." she never did, and i dont know if hes trying to make me jealous, or mad, or is hes trying to get over me. any suggestions?

it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous. but you have to make sure, his new gf probably just couldnt make it. I dont know. Jealous or trying to get over you. good luck!

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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks

Well.. yea. I HATE IT WHEN THEY SURROUND THEIRSELVES AROUND VIDEO GAMES.. i know b/c i have cousins and guy friends who are ALL about it, even looking for codes. But i'm sure that's not all that hes about. You should go out with him and see how it goes.. if he's a good boyfriend then you're a lucky gal. break if off if you're not happy, who knows? if he knows you're serious about a relationship, hell either try to get better.. or it will make a turn for the worse and he really isnt for ya at all hope i helped. good luck

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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!

definitely.

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Whenever I'm around guys I get really shy and don't have much to say and then I get insecure and it's hard to be myself. So now all the guys at my school probably think I'm like really snobby or stuck up or something because I'm so quiet. Like there have been a few guys this year that have tried to be friends with me, but I just didn't know what to say around them, so they just kind of stopped talking to me. Help!!!

hey -- we've all had that problem. but wait,, they think you're snobby or stuck up because you're QUIET?!?! oh you said probably, so i'm pretty sure they don't think that! anyways, a good technique is.. that whenever you get insecure, try to vision the guy as one of your girl friends -- ok don't give up now, because i kno its hard but it WORKS if you do it right -- and just talk to them.. another good way is to surround yourself with good friends that aren't so full of them selves, and make sure you approach a guy casually (not like a mob) and if he's alone, you might want to talk to him alone so he wouldn't feel so intimidated. To keep talking to them, get a s/n if you haven't already, and this boosts friendship to the maxx, because you dont have to see them when you talk to them and it gives you time to think up something funny or good to say. Hey, you can do it! Go up to those guys you havent talked to in a while and say hey! come on.. Boys are people too, you know? try to make this big deal *something smaller* Hope i helped, and GOOD LUCK!

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Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do?

GIRL PLEASE! cant you use your common sense? pick #1! he seems like a waaay nicer guy than #2, and he definitely won't make you cut yourself! call #2, but if he asks you to go out with him, say no. people will be amazed at how you can stay grounded, and how you dont seem so "clingy". #2 won't know what he'll be missing.. and if he REALLY, REALLY likes you, he'll ask you out again. that's a good way to test if they're playing around or that they have true feelings. Good luck! and stop cutting yourself.. its not worth it.

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I keep having dreams about the guy I used to go out with. I guess I kind of still like him. Well anyway first dream was where I was yelling at my friend in the art room. (I'm in art with the guy I keep dreaming about.) He was sitting with other people at a table and not even noticing our fight. Then last night for the dream I was sitting in the art room once again. He was answering a question that the teacher asked. He answered it really good but the teacher didn't really care. I was amazed at his great response to the question. When I woke up this morning I had a headache and I never get those, especially when I wake up. Are my dreams trying to tell me something? If so, do you have any idea what?

i'm not quite sure what your dream is about but you should go to www.myjellybean.com and click on "Dream Interpreter" and look for key words that happened in your dream. It's a cool site b/c it has SO many words.. you'd think something wasnt on there but it is! lol!

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