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Q: My boyfriend dumped me about 3 months ago. It was a great relationship that almost lasted a year. He was the only guy I've ever loved and we had so much together. The problem is, I can't let go. I still wake up depressed, cry sometimes, and talk about him constantly. Him & I barely talk but are on good terms. I don't understand why I can't move on? It's like I have this undying hope he'll come running back to me! Time is not helping and I just want to be happy again. (18/F)

OMG! this almost like my story so i know exactly how you feel really i do! but u just need to give it time if he loves you still then he'll come back to you. I know its real hard not being with him but right now its not up to how you feel it all about how he feels! U can talk to him and tell him how you feel but dont get to mushy or anything just sit him down and talk with him then just give it time and it will all work out for the better trust me! Its hard but like i said if he loves you to he'll do what best just dont rush it! Their this song called p.s im still not over you by rihanna you should listen to it! it helped me alot!
g00d luck huh!

Q: Okay well this boy liked me for 2 years, and i didn't like him at all, and this year we are like bf. Now i realized i really do like im. So i had my my Best, Best friend ask him if he still liked me and he said now that we are friends he doesn't want to wierd out our friendship by liking me. should i tell him i like him? Do you think he really does likeme still. if i asked him out do you'll think he'll say yes? HELP!!!!!!!!!!

well your friend said that he didnt want to weird the friendship out but he never said he didnt like you! i think you should tell him because he's probably just trying to hide his fellings so your wont stop being his friend!
good luck!
neka

Q: theres a kid that is a grade lower than me in my school. we met at an afterschool club and he is really nice. he is also really cute, but last week he brought a girl to the club, his best friend they arent dating but she hates when he talks to me so she tries to keep him away from me. when i see him in the hallway he does this cute thing where he shakes his head and nods and smiles, it makes me fall hard. what do i do, i really dont want his friend to ruin our friendship that weve built up (ps he just signed online)

well since you like him i think you should tell him and talk to his friend to see wat her problem is then may yu guys can come to an understanding!
good luck!
neka

Q: I love my boyfriend and I have been going out with him for more than two months, lets just say three months. I made the play and there is this really hot gothic boy that I think Im starting to crush on who is also in the play. He admitted to liking me. We hug all the time and talk real flirty to eachother. The only thing is, I might not see him again after the play is over. Should I break up with my boyfriend to go out with him or stay with my boyfriend who I love more than anything?

Also, is it wrong to like someone else when you have a boyfriend?

no dont break up with your boyfriend for him! have you ever heard the saying \"dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love\" you might not pay attention to it but it can happen trust me! its not like a crime to like someone when you have a boyfriend but its best that you dont! i think i may be a good thing that you wont see him after the play that way you can focus on your boyfriend again!
good luck!
neka

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Im a 15 year old high school student that loves to be around and help people! Im a outgoing, free spirited, funny, always smiling and very fun to be around person(so i was told). I really enjoy making other people feel good and lifting their spirits! I love to talk on the phone and hang out with my friends! Im a very well rounded person i like all different things and people and they seem to like me back! I do have problem of my own just like a normal person but i can always help others with their problems with no trouble most of the time so dont be shock if you see i have my own questions on here and dont be afraid to give me your honest opinion! Im not a very mean person but i do have a attitude problem but trust me people its under control!!!