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Q: okay so i just started to hang out with this guy (we're not going out. i've only made out with him once) and im pretty sure he's more into me than i am to him. hes at the beach and he told me that the stars were really beautiful and they reminded him of me.
now as cute as that sounds, im really not into cheezy things like that. hes also in a band which might be a reason for this whole passionate thing.
how do i deal with this? do i tell him straight up he's too sensitive?

i mean we only talked a bit and he's kinda rushing things. help please!
Just let him know that your not really into having a relationship with him.

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Q: My boyfriend used to weigh 300 pounds but he lost a bunch of weight and hes around 180 now. He lost his weight so quickly so he has some skin hanging. He is so self concious about it how can I make him feel better about it?
Tell him you like him no matter what. Give him compliments. Hopefully that will help boost his confidence.

Q: hey im a guy 13 . i know this emo girl shes not that emo she just dresses like one, shes quite normal. shes really hot and has loads of friends...she was going to smake out my best friend until he backed out. now I talk to her alot. I talked to her about music for about an hour and every song I said she liked it or liked it alot.. she said she didnt know I had such good music taste. then she asked me who was the hottest girl in her school. I didnt say her... then we started talking about strange stuff.......like what find hot in a girl what she finds hot in a man....I want to know if shes interested in me.. she called me a loser kind of joking.....she doesnt act interested in me when my best friend is around. when hes around she acts alot less immature and strange. she thought i would like rave music. she also set me up with another girl one (of her friends)....I said I wanted to go out with this other girl and she said she was a complete loser and I shouldnt go out with her and shes hated by everyone BTW Im not in her school but I used to be she wasnt there then....I think she cant make up her mind whether she likes me or not? how can I tell if she likes me? now we dont really talk... we dont get the chance.... when im hanging out with my friends and her friends we dont talk to each other much... but when im with her with like one or two other people she will say small things like someone else said ive grown etc.... but she comes across as not being shy at all, and shes got loads of guys to choose from.
Just ask her if she likes you. I know it's hard. But by asking her you will know if you should step up your relationship or reamain friends.

Q: is it normal for people to get nervous and come up with excuses not to go out with a person before they do? Or do you think that all of the jitters and thoughts against that person are kind of a sign not to go out with them?

Do you believe in just giving people a chance? Even if they mean a lot to you and you're afraid to lose them?

It's normal to get nervous. Give this guy a chance, especially if they mean alot to you. Try to relax when your with him. You'll eventually forget that you were nervous and have a good time.

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Hi there i'm Erica. I like to help others with their struggles. I've been through hard times so I know what its like. You can e-mail me for advice. my e-mail is advicegirl94@yahoo.com

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