My name is Melissa and I'm sixteen. I decided to make this account because I absolutely adore helping people. I believe everyone deserves to be happy and deserves to be heard. Sometimes you think you'll be fine by yourself, but it's harder to walk on your own. Everyone needs to reach out to someone at one point, and I would love to be there for anyone who needs it. Making people smile is my favorite thing in this world. What completely inspired me to do this was getting through tough times of my own, and helping other people through their's..I've been told my advice is "enlightening" and I'd love to share itw ith whoever needs it. I just hope I can help, and I promise to try my best. :D
E-mail: emailforouts@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: Philly, PA
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 5, 2010
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Hi im gay i wrote in a few weeks ago i took your advice and it worked thank you for your help i did what you said i flirted a little gave him little hints he seemed to like it afer awhile i told him that im gay and that i liked him a couple of days later he told me hes gay and he likes me too we talked for awhile and then he said he wanted to kiss me so we kiseed at it was really good weve been together now just over a month and we are really happy together so i thought i write in to say thanks you really help thanks. (link)
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Hey! I'm sorry I'm late with this reply. but aww! I'm so glad to hear things worked out. I wish you two happiness and the best of luck. Thanks for stopping by and letting me know how things went, I really appreciate it. Glad I could help(:
Take care
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im male 16 ive been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and we make out a lot and im a bit nervous about going further my penis is not real big im a bit embarrassed about it will she still like me it wont turn her off me will it?
do girl care much about penis size? (link)
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It depends on each girl whether or not they care about size. In my opinion though, if you truly like/love the guy, the size of their penis doesn't matter. If she really likes/loves you, she won't even care. Don't worry! I'm sure you're just getting worked up over something that probably isn't even that big of a deal. She's not going to mind, and I'm positive she'll still like you after..and if she does care about the size of your penis, then she doesn't even deserve you. :) I wish you all the best of luck. Don't worry, do what your heart tells you :) Just make sure she is ready to do more and that you don't pressure her. And be safe!! :]
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I really like this guy were good friends im 16 male im gay hes also 16 i havent come out to anyone yet im not sure if hes gay and im a bit nervous to tell him how i feel hes real friendly with me and we hang out a lot together and my feelings are getting stronger all the time how do i find out if hes gay? do i just tell him or flirt wth him a little how do i handle this? (link)
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Hey! :]
First off, I just wanted to say I admire you. I can only imagine how complicated it must be to try to come out, especially as a teenager, and I've never experienced this.. but I respect how strong you must have to be. :)
Has anyone ever mentioned anything about him probably or possibly being gay? Does he have a more of a feminine side than most guys? Now, I'm not trying to be offensive, I'm just trying to determine some factors that may make someone gay, according to some one of my close friends has anyway :) If he is gay, he's probably just as nervous as you are to come out to you and has no idea what to say. I don't think you should come directly out right away and confess your feelings until you have a better guessing of his sexuality. I think you should try something like.. "I wish I looked like -some celebrity-. He's hot" or something along those lines, and see his reaction. Try making little subtle hints about being gay, and if he is gay as well he'll probably catch on. Or, you could even just ask him flat out, but only if you don't think it will offend him if he's straight. Either way, he's either a good friend, or someone who likes you and has the potential to be more. When you confide in him your sexuality, he should accept it either way. I think you should try flirting with him and dropping hints here and there and see how that goes before you completely confess how you feel, only because it might be a little awkward for him at first if you say you like him and he's straight.(Ps: If he's straight, he's missing out on a great guy ;]) Sorry if this wasn't much help, but I really tried!! :] Good luck, I wish you the best! I'm here whenever if you want to ask anything else. Keep me posted if you wish, I always wonder how everyone turns out. hahaha. Have a great day, and I apologize for replying so late. This has been a crazyyy hectic week for me.
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Hey, I need some advice about a guy. We've been friends for about a year now, and have gotten really really close. We've always been teased about getting together and in the middle of the year, we talked about a potential relationship, but he said because he was leaving for university next year, it wouldn't be the best idea. And I was really getting over him, until about two weeks ago, when he was drinking at grad party, and we spent a lot of time together. He held me in front of everyone (which I didn't expect, knowing how much he would be made fun of) and kissed me, but not on the lips. When he asked me if he could kiss me for real, I told him to wait until he was sober. The next day, I texted him to ask if he was really as drunk as he said he was, and he said he wasn't. After a long conversation where we both admitted we'd LIKE to try something, we decided to wait until the "near future" and see how things play out. This is driving me crazy, and I will be devastated to know if nothing like what happened at grad ever happens again. Help? (link)
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Hey :) Thanks for asking me, I really hope I can help! Well first off, I've kind of been in your situation before. I liked my best guy friend at one point and decided to tell him about it..he said he liked me too, but we decided to just stay friends..that way nothing would jeopardize out friendship. After a few months, I decided I still had feelings for him and told him about it..but he wanted to stay friends and not risk losing anything and that maybe in thefuture something would happen. Within time passing by, I realized that my feelings weren't as strong as I thought and that we would be better off as friends.
Anyway, I think you should wait. He does have a point with the whole going to university next year idea. Things could change a lot with him being away, you know? I think it is best that you hold off for at least some time while he is at university. See how things go, and if you both have the same feelings while he is away. If it's meant to be, everything will fall into place soon enough. "Good things take time". Don't rush it :) For now, try to think less about it...see other guys in the mean time and see if your feelings for him change, and he should do the same. If after a while you two realize you really truly believe you should be together, then try it out. It's better to risk it than to wonder "what-if" later on. I know it's going to be hard to wait out, but it'll be for the best later...and you'll get to see just how strong your feelings/future relationship will be :) You can do this. Try to take your mind off of him by keeping yourself very busy; it works :) Good luck on everything, and I hope this helped
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okay, so i have a best friend and weve been best friends since the beginning of the school year, then last month we started going out but then we broke up over some stupid mistake, then after that we fought constantly for like 2-3 weeks. they just started acting normal again and theyve started flirting with me and stuff again, i love him soo much and weve been having amazing times lately, but were not officially going out, there is another girl in the picture i dont know anything about her but i do know they like each other, but this girl is about 4 years older. im also leaving for vacation next week and i really dont wanna leave them behind, ill be over seas for a month, he said hell miss me alot and we will talk everyday and stuff but idk, just need some help on how to get him back. (link)
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Hey :) Thanks for coming to me..I realllyy hope I can help, I promise I'll try my hardest :)
Anyway, have you talked to your best friend yet about how you feel? I think the best thing is just to be honest with him..maybe something along the lines of: "Hey I know there's something between you and ___girl__ and I just want to know what's going on with you two. I still really like you, but I don't want to be led on if it's not going anywhere." I know it's easier said than done, but you really should talk to him and see how he feels. That's the best way to try and get him back..and don't feel like you have to compete with this girl for him; because honestly, if he still has the same feelings for you as you do for him, there's no competition at all :) Talk to him and see where things go from there. If you're meant to be with him, it'll all work out..I absolutely promise you that. and if not well then, it was his loss in letting you go in the first place. :) So I suggest you talk to him about how you feel and see where it goes from there. After you talk to him, if you want to you can come back on here and let me know how it went and if you need any advice from there..and if you already talked to him let me know and we'll see what to do :) Good luck with everything. I wish you the best..and I really hope this helped. Make sure you talk to him-especially before vacation! Even if it doesn't go the way you want it to, at least you won't be wondering for the whole month, and you won't regret not taking the chance. Have a fun and safe trip! and I'm always here if you need anything
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So here's my problem. I met a boy in September and we became friends. Then sparks flew and in November we started going out. But it wasn't until a month afterwards that I found out that his dad here is a real nut case. (His parents never married and he lives with his dad here and his mom is 2 provinces over.) Then things started to go sour when he came to school everyday really upset and distracted when he had bad arguments with his dad and broke things off with me. Then come 2 months later and we finally talked and it was like fate. After that day he calls me that evening and the day after that and we talk about what the hell happened. A week goes by without talking and then he phones again the day before yesterday and he said that when he was dating the 2 girls after me he still misses me and misses the fun time. What do I do about this? (link)
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Well, first off it seems he was really stressed about his dad. Family issues can really affect people and make them act different and feel down. He probably didn't want to hurt you or put his problems on you, and that's why he broke it off in the first place. It seems like now he eiether regrets what he did.. or he just got screwed over by one of these girls and wants you back. You know him better than I do, so I'm sure you know what the situation is :)
Anyway, I know you don't want to hear this.. but it's your call. If you feel he deserves a second chance and that he's not going to hurt you.. and you have feelings for him, tell him because it seems like he wants to get back with you. But if you don't feel like he'll change.. or that he's going to hurt you again or use you, then let him go because you don't need that. See, I really don't want to influence you either way because it's how YOU feel that should decide. :] Do what your heart says, not what you want to do, and don't stop yourself. Talk to him and take things slow for now until you figure it out-there's no rush(: Sorry if this isn't much help, but I hope it gives you something to think about.. and I KNOW you'll make the right decision. :) Good luck with everything
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