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hey everyone! my name is ali. im 14 years old! i love to give advice! so please ask! well..i really dont know what else to write! ask away!

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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3

no! dont break up with him! you love him! he makes you happy! plus, everyone breaks out, and you probably will too..what if he dumped you fo rhaving pimples??!! definetly dont. its wrong. hope i helped

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ok its like this,
everyboy i have ever liked always happens to link back to my first prpoper boyf.......
1.graham- used to be friends with my ex and also shares the same name.
2.j.t -friends with my ex and shares the same taste in clothes and hair (he fancies me i dont fancie him)
3. paul - the 1st person i have fancied in a long time that doesnt involve my ex in any way.
My friend robin ased me to meet(french kiss)paul
and i came round to the idea and the more it dragged on before robin asked him the more i seemed to fancy him.Robin is a good friend of his and but he said no to meeting me.robin hasnt told me yet but i know coz i told kelly about it and she asked him (on the same day as robin CRINGE)so now he probly tinks i rely like him.truth is i dont like him that much but that might be because he wudnt meet me.but if he had said that he would then i probly would have.
my other friend tara told me who fancied me (robin nos this also and she wont tall me but she doesnt no i no)(j.t ) but he doesnt no i no.tara said he acts like an eejit around people he likes and that paul only said no to me coz hes kinda scared and that he probably is into me.
what i really want to no is how can i have so much romance in my life one day and completely none (that i want)the next?and why does robin not tell me anything?
PLEEEEEEEEEEAAASEE HELP
I RATE 5's

okay this is REALLY confusing..so i might not be much help..
it sucks..one day is like, the best day of your life, and the next day, you just wanna sit in a corner and cry because nothing is going right..am i correct?
well i dont know why robin isnt telling you anything, you need to like call him or talk to him online and see whats up. you also need to tell him that you dont really like him..just get things straight.
i know i wasnt much help, but i tried..this is very confusing!

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It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone.

dont curse her out, she didnt do anything. if you want, curse him out, but you'll never get a chance with him. i mean you should even want to go out with that fag after what he did to you! hes a looser! just leave them both alone, cause eventually..he'll relize what hes missing...but youll find a better guy by then..

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Hey,
I need some help with flirting! I am a shy girl but I tend to over-act and get silly when I like someone. How can I flirt subtley and not just look like a prat?
To the guys: what do you like a girl to do when she flirts with you?

hey. im shy too, and i know how hard it is to act like yourself in front of a guy you like. just pretend like hes one of your friends or w/e..i know its hard! sorry i didnt help much

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13/f, so i went to my old schools dance and this guy named alex that i have known and been friends with for two years slow danced with me. He pulled me in realy close so were were like hugging and then he grabbed my but and also he tried to kiss me. Everyone says he likes me but when my friend and i asked him he said he dosnt like me. Do you think he likes me and also what should i do because i am majorly in love with him and never want to let him go but i think i just did. i am so mixed up please help

umm..yea i think he likes you. and i think hes to shy to tell you to your face..but yea thats flirting. i think you should talk to him about it! hope i helped!

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When a guy tells a girl his good opinions about her, is that flirtig? If so, I have flirted a lot.

if he tells his good opinions about her, yep!

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ive been really sad lately and i dont know why i cant explain it...like i dont feel liek doing anything and i dont even feel like talkin to my girl which i talk to her about everything....theres no more passion in anything i do...please help

your just depressed! everyone goes through it. its fine..just run around to get your mind off of it. u need to start talking to your girl friend, because she wont know wahts going on, and maybe shell make you feel better! hope i helped!

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19/f

I met someone who was only in my hometown for a week, and we kissed, talked, and really connected. I seriously fell for him.

Of course, some people will think we were only together as rebounds, because he lost a friend and I was getting out of a serious relationship with someone. Regardless, he made me feel happy and alive.

I gave him my email address and phone number, he gave me his favorite hat. It's been over a week, and I have not heard from him. Should I just forget him, or make an effort to contact him?

I've been searching for a phone number/email but my search so far has come up fruitless. I don't know what to do. He's in the military and I would just love to talk to him before he has to go to Iraq again. However, I don't want to completely freak him out and seem "stalkerish." So even if I found a number, I don't know if I'd have the guts to call it.

It worries me that he hasn't tried contacting me yet. Maybe he thinks that since I was going through a lot that he should just back off. Maybe he felt nothing for me and really is a jerk. I don't know. Should I be patient, or make a move?

I am trying to forget about him and trying not to make the relationship anymore than what it was. It's hard because I keep thinking about him. I just need to tell him thanks (the reason is very personal and complicated so I don't want to go into detail.) Maybe if I could just tell him that, then I could move on. But for now, I feel like I have something I seriously need to get off my chest and it's driving me insane not being about to explain things!!

guys just dont call the girls. its not just him, but almosy all guys! call him first. maybe he just want you to call him first. he might want to see if youre acually into him! so call him. talk. and he'll probably start calling you! hope i helped!

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most girls call guys pigs and cheaters....but i was just curious as to how many people know this is that girls actually cheat more than men do its just that they dont get caught as easily as guys do....so y would girls call cheaters and such when its actually proven that they cheat more than guys...but they are better at hiding it so im just curious as to why guys get labeled as being more of the cheating type??? thanks 4 the help

well..it's mostly like, the slutty girls that cheat! i mean, guys are just SO weird, and you'll always hear stories about a girl having her heart broken, and how much shes been crying. guys arent like that as much. ha sorry this is kind of confusing!

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