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I am fun-loving and i love my friends and family.And soccer is my life!!!!!! i have had a lot of problems and i still have some but my friends and family stick by me and i am hoping to help someone that needs help maybe they do not have someone they can go to for advice if you don't have someone i want you to know you can talk to me.i am a very understanding person that you can trust.
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Hi I want to seduce my own mom badly I want to have sex with her/ sometimes when my dad works late I sleep beside her and I rub my ...,, u know what to her !!! I have masturbated beside her and once my cu.... Splashed on her body she got so angry ! Could u help me out!!! (link)
remember she is your mom she is family and she does not think of you like that its not right to feel like that about your mom maybe you should try talking to someone you trust and tell them how you feel about your mom just remember she is your mom and she loves you no matter what but not like that i hope everything works out if you need more help please ask me Good Luck :)


I am 14 and like my stepbrother who is 16. I've known him for a year and has begun to have feelings for him now. I do not live together with him but on holidays I go to my dad and I live in the same apartment as he. I also have a big sister who is 16 and I get jealous of her when he even talks to her or laughing together. How can I tell if he likes me? We usually have fun together but my sister is often with us. He is sometimes touching my hair and pull his fingers through it. he always tickle me in the waist so I laugh and he is much stronger than me, though he is quite narrow, and he used to challenge me to get past him. Does he like me as a step-sister or friend, or more than that? (link)
it sounds like he likes you as a little sister even if he is your step bother he is still family no matter what so you just have to think of him as your older step brother, your family. Good luck if you need any more help just ask me


It hurts me wen my girlfriend dont tell me the small things like when her son started school or what she did on her day off/ I am not psycho I just wanna be able to communicate since shes 3 hours away. Gut recently its got tot he point where shes had trouble with her blood sugar and geting dizzy and she didnt tell me. It hurt and it caused an arguement and I said really hurtful things, and I hurt her and shes upse with me. What should I do? (link)
tell her that it hurts that she does not tell you things tell her how you feel and she will understand Good Luck :)


Ok so, I'm a fifteen year old High school Student, I've been having some really conflicting issues, and I realized that I always look at questions around here for fun, so when I had an issue, why not come here. Well Like I said I'm a male high school student, and I don't really know what I am. I'm going to 10th grade, throughout my 9th grade school year I had a friend (we'll call him Clyde lol) that asked be to do sexual stuff, and an experimenting sense, so two times we exchanged oral sex, once in a bathroom, and once in the woods next to our school. Now there was another Guy I know that aksed me the same thing (call him Greg) and he just wouldnt leave me alone, askeing for naked pictures, asking to have sex, he was pathetic and extremely annoying, so Yesterday I told him it's never going to happen and to just leave me alone. Now my third friend is an open Bi-Sexual we will call him (Aaron) I met him when he was dating one of my female friends, we would text and talk all the time, we became really close friends, one day I heard "Aaron's" girlfriend saying how she didnt like to kiss him and all, so me being the idiot that I am, I told him, and he said thanks, I guess over the next 48 hours they talked and she denied this, he accused me of lying, and we didnt talke for two months. In a plot to take revenge I tried to break them up, he confronted me in a texting conversation, everything was laid on the table and we moved on to become friends again. He confessed to liking me, I considered my self as straight at the time (I hadnt had oral sex with Clyde yet) was shocked, so I waved it off and claimed i was still figuring out who I am. Meanwhile I met a girl one year younger than me, we started talking and flirting, it was just a very flirtatious friendship. this was November, when Aaron started asking me if I wanted to have Sex with him Oral. We joked about it all the time but I knew he was serious. I kept saying maybe. My relationship with the girl..(Lily i guess) was moving along, but at Christmas it ended, it started again this past June and ended again, we're now STRICT friends. So not much happened except once in February that was the first time Clyde and I had Oral and then once again in May, Now yesterday...August, I brutally ended my friendship with Greg, after his annoying requests of naked pictures and sex. Lately I've been texting Aaron a lot, and I really want to be friend with him, like good friends, and we were playing the question game and he asked me if Id ever have sex with a guy, I said I was curious, especially about anal sex. He said I should let him top me, and I could top him back, hes already had EVERY version of sex with both girls and guys hes only a year older (16) but he's a really cool guy. Also yesterday Clyde texted me and said he'd gotten his license he's in my grade but has an early birthday so he's 16. He asked if I wanted to experiment like last year, only this time we could drive to my house, and do it. So far I haven't had a relationship feelings about guys, only sexual, what do you guys think of this? Oh and before 9th grade when most of this happened I was in a long term 3 year relationship with a Girl (Alice)
What do you guys think of my situation? All advice is welcome and I'd really appreciate it ! Thanks in advance ! :) (link)
be careful and if you still don't know if your bi you should maybe talk to a close friend that wont tell anyone. just be careful and i hope everything works out for you :)


me and my boyfriend just started dating like a week ago and he calls me everynight and i dont know what to talk about anymore...any ideas? (link)
ask him what he likes to do and maybe plan to hang out talk about what your doing or tell him something funny that happend to you that day. Good Luck!!


I have been best friends with this guy for years and I love him to death ( as a friend). I went through an abusive relationship with another guy and my best friend was always there for me and helped me back on my feet. He's just a really good guy who doesn't have a lot of experience with girls. A few months back he told me he had feelings for me and i decided that he was the type of guy i needed, that was "good" for me, so we started to date but it got awkward and i ended it and we went back to being friends. last week he told me he was in love with me and i told him i couldn't deal with having a boyfriend right now because it stresses me out and that I want to be friends, he was upset but agreed. We then went out as friends a few nights later to a club and I ended up going home with him I was super drunk and we were about to have sex but he said he was too nervous. The next day he told me he couldn't because he's a virgin and he knows I'm not and he was really scared because he loved me and didn't want his first time to be while i was drunk. The next day i realized i made a huge mistake and he got so mad at me and said i lead him on and I used him. I really didn't mean to. Long story short we got into a series of big emotional fights and he decided we cant talk anymore because he's hurting too much. I know this boy cares about me a lot but I just cant bring myself to be comfortable with having a boyfriend right now i went through so much with my ex boyfriend i'm scared. All i know is that right now I miss my best friend SO much and I can't even talk to him anymore. He told me not to contact him unless i change my mind. I miss him a lot and i know that when we were officially "together" it was awkward but i love spending time with him. He is the type of boy I would marry, I just cant deal with that right now. I feel like I've lost him forever and i'm going to regret it all one day. i don't know what to do. How do I get him back into my life without committing myself to a relationship? Any ideas? (link)
tell him how u feel tell him to give you time tell him your scared tell him that you love spending time with him but tell him that you care about him a lot and regret what happend and if you could change it you would and tell him you want him back in your life but you don't want to commit to a relationship with him right now but maybe in the future and tell him that he is the type of boy you would marry if he really loves you he will understand. Good Luck!!!




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