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best friend/ boyfriend
I have been best friends with this guy for years and I love him to death ( as a friend). I went through an abusive relationship with another guy and my best friend was always there for me and helped me back on my feet. He's just a really good guy who doesn't have a lot of experience with girls. A few months back he told me he had feelings for me and i decided that he was the type of guy i needed, that was "good" for me, so we started to date but it got awkward and i ended it and we went back to being friends. last week he told me he was in love with me and i told him i couldn't deal with having a boyfriend right now because it stresses me out and that I want to be friends, he was upset but agreed. We then went out as friends a few nights later to a club and I ended up going home with him I was super drunk and we were about to have sex but he said he was too nervous. The next day he told me he couldn't because he's a virgin and he knows I'm not and he was really scared because he loved me and didn't want his first time to be while i was drunk. The next day i realized i made a huge mistake and he got so mad at me and said i lead him on and I used him. I really didn't mean to. Long story short we got into a series of big emotional fights and he decided we cant talk anymore because he's hurting too much. I know this boy cares about me a lot but I just cant bring myself to be comfortable with having a boyfriend right now i went through so much with my ex boyfriend i'm scared. All i know is that right now I miss my best friend SO much and I can't even talk to him anymore. He told me not to contact him unless i change my mind. I miss him a lot and i know that when we were officially "together" it was awkward but i love spending time with him. He is the type of boy I would marry, I just cant deal with that right now. I feel like I've lost him forever and i'm going to regret it all one day. i don't know what to do. How do I get him back into my life without committing myself to a relationship? Any ideas?
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tell him how u feel tell him to give you time tell him your scared tell him that you love spending time with him but tell him that you care about him a lot and regret what happend and if you could change it you would and tell him you want him back in your life but you don't want to commit to a relationship with him right now but maybe in the future and tell him that he is the type of boy you would marry if he really loves you he will understand. Good Luck!!!
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