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What comes first? I am Sarah. I have been around since 4.14.88, meaning I am an Aries. Brandon and I have been together since 7.12.04 and got engaged 12.15.04. We live in a beautiful house in Tehachapi, Ca with our three cats; Zoe, Mallie, and Sophie. I somehow graduated class of 2005 with a 3.9 GPA. I plan to become a cosmetologist and plan on attending school next fall in Paso Robles, Ca. I would like to open a salon and a clothing boutique. I sound so creative and put together.
Updates:
-We are getting married May 24th!
- I am pregnant. The baby is due December 18th!
♥ Sarah

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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/

Dear Clueless,
Do me a huge favor and reread everything you just wrote. Now, take a look at your life in 5 years and imagine how much this will all matter. Your attitude is disgusting. I was rude to people in high school but I had issues. Normal people don't think the way that you do. You need to take a good look at yourself because when school is over, all those people that you made fun of will go on with there lives and forget about you and you my friend, you will still be the same. Nobody wants to be the bitch, ok? Do you want this guy to like you? Change your attitude and priorities. Guys do not want to deal with someone that will give them hell 24/7. About the haircut, did you ever look at it like maybe this girl likes how your hair looked so she went and did the same thing? Another thing, do you think your the only person on earth with that hair cut? Once you made your way around the entire world, then get back to me. Otherwise, please change your attitude towards things. Good luck!
♥ Miss Moo

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Im very mad at my bf... what can i do to relieve this anger??

Dear Angry,
What are you angry about? Talk to your boyfriend about it. Understand what made you angry and try to resolve the problem with him. If that doesn't help, yelling at him might work. Good luck!
♥ Miss Moo

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For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?!

Dear Scared Eyes,
That is so normal. That happens when you feel something for someone you like or someone that you are too shy to be around. That happens to a lot of us. Trust me. When my fiance and I first got together, It was hard for me to look him straight in the eyes. Over time, with me getting to know him and he getting to know me, I grew more comfortable around him. Of course now it's no problem. Over time, it will go away. Just get to know the guy and you will be looking into his eyes in no time. Good luck!
♥ Miss Moo

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Ohk i notcie this big time do you?

When people say they are tottaly in love with boyfriend/girlfriend. for exmaple on myspace in the about me section people say yes im in love with my wonderful boyfirned/girlfriend or they have tons of pictures and him/her the first one on your top eight. But as soon they break up all words and pictures gone .. like he/she fell off the face of the earth.

Is thatplaying around with the words love in anyway? like i still have my ex boyfriends picture up on my myspace and we broke up 7months ago.

thanks

Dear Love Confused,
Most people think that they are in love, even when they or not or they could even be in love. People post pictures of themselves and of the people they potentially love because they want everyone in the world to see how happy they are. When you break up with that person, that doesn't mean that they never loved them because they dropped their pictures; it's just that they don't want to deal with looking at that person on a day to day basis. Love hurts sometimes, expecially when it ends. You and your ex are friends, right? I thought so. It might not be that exact situation for everyone else. Get my drift. Happy holidays.
♥ Miss Moo

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ok, so i have a crush on this guy, and i dont know if he likes me. lately i have had this crazy idea that maybe if i tell him how i feel he will be ok with it. (note; last year he had a crush on me, and then me being me, i blew it with him.)i dont know what to do, i really like him, and i have this crazy idea that if i tell him that i'm sorry and i miss him, and i still want to be friends at least, he might say ok. please help
i dont know what to do about him and i am just like really confused

Dear Confused,
What is so confusing? You like him, he used to like you? You do the math. If you like him so much don't blow it a second time and let him slip through your fingers. Grab a hold of him and tell him how you feel. It's the only way to go. He doesn't feel the same? Lose him. He wasn't worth it to begin with. Good luck!
♥ Miss Moo

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Suddenly this year I feel like everything bad is just piling up into one huge mess and won't go away. Like PSAT scores, my Dad's death a few years ago (I now miss him more than ever), crush complications not working out, grades... things like that. It's making me feel gloomy and sad and even my friend told me for the past month I've seemed kind of sad off and on. I'm not in depression or depressed or whatever, but... What are some things that can help me clear this all up and what are some ways to get me to feel better?

Dear Sad,
Yes. This happens to all of us, sweetheart. You cannot make it dissapear without time. Time heals most things. I have found that it helps to look towards your future. Imagine yourself within the next year or two. Will you be stressed about the same things you are stressed about now? No, didn't think so. That means that it won't really matter within time. You will have other concerns. About your Dad. You will never stop missing him. That is something in life that we all must face and I am truely sorry that you have had to face it in such an early time of your life. It will make your stronger as you get older and it should make you feel better to know that he is safe now. He is in peace and in a better place. Here is an idea. When you are stressed or not feeling too great, look to your Dad for guidance. Talk to him. I hope I helped. Happy Holidays!
♥ Miss Moo

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When it comes to guys I always rush things. After that, one of two things happens:


One:
I find out that the guy is nothing like I expected. Most of the time it just turn out that he's a immature pervert and his charm and humor are an act. I don't take time to REALLY get to know a guy so I don't find out how they really are until we're close. After that, I completely loose interest (duh) and break it off with them.


Two:
It gets too serious and they are too in to me. It freaks me out because I either won't be ready for it or I won't want it. I just want to date and have fun. Nothing too serious that makes me want to "think of the future" with him. I guess me rushing things makes the guy think that I do want that? So again, I then break it off.


I always find myself in one of the two situations and after a month or so (most of the time less) I'm guyless and moving on to another one. Most of my friends know this about me and lecture me about it all the time but I have no idea how to fix it. I know it happens but I don't know how to keep it from happening.


It's like a routine for me. Meet a guy, go out, break up after a few weeks (because of the above said reasons), and meet another. How can I keep this from always happening?

Dear Broken Love,
You can keep all of the above from happening by not attaching yourself to these people. First thing is first, you don't want anything serious at the moment so don't make yourself believe that you do when these guys put the charm on you. Make sure everyone knows that your just out to have a good time and that you are not willing to make a commitment at the moment. When you find the right person, you will know when it's your moment to settle down. Stop fussing. Your young. Enjoy yourself and just let go. If that one guy happens to come across your path, you decide what move you want to make. It's your life, you make your own decisions when it comes to your future. Good luck!
♥ Miss Moo

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Hi im 14 years old. And on thursday dec.7th i had sex with my boyfriend. We used a condom but it ripped. It had that stuff called spermacide on it. But im not sure if any of his sperm got in me,because there was a not big but a normal sized spot on my sheets. I just got off my period like 3 days before we had sex. Im not having any syptoms that im pregnant but im having little pains once in a while at the bottom of my stomach. Im not only scared that im pregnant but i dont know how to tell me mom && dad. They dont even know im having sex. What is the percent chance that im pregnant? and any other advise will help. Thanx alot. im so scared.

always- scared.confused.

Dear Scared,
You are so young. I feel for you, Sweetheart. I started having sex when I was 16, and I know at times that it can get a little overwhelming; Making sure protection is being used, pregnancy scares, and so much more. First and for most, let me reasure you that you should not feel ashamed for being sexually active. You are a human being and you used protection. I recommend going to the nearest drug store with a trusted friend or adult and buying an early pregnancy test. Having done that you will have faster results and less drama if you find out that you are not pregnant. If you are pregnant, please build up enough courage to inform your boyfriend and parents. You are going to have a lot of growing up to do in such a short period of time and telling them starts that process. If you are adult enough to have sex, you have to be adult enough to deal with the consequences. I also recommend that you later on tell a parent that you are sexually active. Doing so might result in getting a form of birth control in which will help reduce the risk of pregnancy. Please be true to yourself and to everyone else. Please update me. Good luck to you. ♥ Miss Moo

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